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Topic: To those that have divorced/seperated
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Lioness
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posted August 06, 2012 09:38 PM
  
Im just curious if this is a coincidence or if any one else has experienced something similar.I was with my ex husband for 15 years...
Once it was over, I did the depressed thing, then went into single girl mode..
Then the next guy I fell for is fishy ( did you guess that? lol) Anyways... I was thinking how they are so different, yet very similar.. So I did a synastry chart with ex hubby and fishy.. Its just amazing to me... I fell for the opposite.. Did anyone else experience this after a long time relationship ended? Here is their breakdown ex hubby/fishy sun= virgo/pisces
moon= aries/sag (ok not opposite)
merc= virgo/pisces
venus = leo/cap
mars= leo/aqua IP: Logged |
Dreamweaver
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posted August 06, 2012 10:18 PM
Hi Lioness,
I havn't checked all their other planets yet - but just realised I had that pattern too. My first serious relationship at 19 - we married in secret & divorced a few months after although we stayed together for over 2 years. He was a Gemini (with moon, venus & mars in taurus). At 21, I then went out with a Saggitarius guy (with merc, venus & mars in scorpio). We got engaged very quickly & he'd planned a wedding in Bali but I walked out a few days before & ran away! But it was on/off for two years. Then I finally got away from him. At 22, almost 23, I met a Pisces guy (aquarius rising) & we lived together for a year. Finally, I met my Virgo guy (leo rising) at 24 & married again (but this time with a big wedding & lots of fanfare!!) & we've been together for 15 years so pretty sure this is it now!! No more mutable signs to go through!!IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 06, 2012 10:22 PM
Thats weird.. I wonder if our soul (so to speak) is looking for different lessons, so we unconsciously find the opposite.. Until you find the one. Interesting thought. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 06, 2012 10:23 PM
ive seen astrologers writing about this phenomenon with celebrity couples who break up. sorry but the only example i remember is jessica alba how she went from dating a capricorn to a cancer. lolIP: Logged |
PhoenixFire
Knowflake Posts: 486
From: The Crossing
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted August 06, 2012 11:06 PM
Interesting! Lol I did the same as Jessica, went from goat to crab. Years later though, didnt leave the goat for the crab. Ive thought about the opposite sun theme a lot, especially as ironically my crab spouse and I are parents to an adventerous goat  Hmmm to compare further, there isnt an opposition between both of my partners moons or mercuries. no aspects at all in fact. no oppositions w venus or mars either. both do have venus in water & trine to each other and mars in sextile. I like the idea of lessons learned via astrology. Very interesting that in my first marriage, an Air sun intrigued me enough to seek separation from my spouse and now years later a friend of the same Sun sign has made his way into my heart. This time Im doing my best to work things out in my union & no longer speak to this other person. It intrigues me though, that it seems have something to learn from these sun signs. IP: Logged |
Dreamweaver
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted August 06, 2012 11:15 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Lioness:
[B]Thats weird.. I wonder if our soul (so to speak) is looking for different lessons, so we unconsciously find the opposite.. Until you find the one.
yes absolutely!! Hope you have found yours!!
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Lioness
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posted August 07, 2012 02:56 PM
I find it very interesting..Anyone else? IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted August 07, 2012 03:45 PM
this is very interesting. this seems to be when the person is projecting some of her planet and first it goes from one extreme to the other. it happened to me as well and i also got a fishy LOL i would suggest you look what parts of you need you to OWN the planet so you dont have to project them in the partners. it seems you have been balancing the energy of your planets from one projection ot the other. does it make sense? IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 07, 2012 04:27 PM
Actually yes it makes sense..
I have a packed h6, which is ruled my virgo, my dsc is in virgo, so I did marry someone like me..
But afterwards, I wanted something more, more bonding and more spiritual..Another thing I notice is there saturn.
Ex hubby saturn in pisces, fishy saturn in virgo.. I'm going to look more into this... IP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 1020
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted August 07, 2012 04:45 PM
My ex hubby - current:
Sun - Aqua/Gem
Moon - Cancer/Taurus
Venus - Aqua/Gem
Mars - Cap/VirgoKInda similar. IP: Logged |
Belage
Knowflake Posts: 782
From: California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 07, 2012 10:26 PM
Interesting. I have not found it to be true in my case. I went from
Aquarius/Libra sun
Pisces/Taurus moon
Cap/scorpio merc
cap/scorpio venus
Taurus/virgo mars
Libra/Virgo Jupiter
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popcorn
Knowflake Posts: 2953
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Registered: Aug 2009
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posted August 08, 2012 10:51 AM
OK
Here is my two exhusbandMy first husband / second husband Sun virgo \ Sun pisces
moon aries\ moon pisces
mercury libra\ mercury aqua
venus virgo\ venus pisces
mars libra\ mars taurus
My boyfriend today
Sun aries
moon scorpio
mercury aries
venus taurus
mars aries
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bella_taurus
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posted August 08, 2012 02:08 PM
I've been divorced now since '09. Have not met anyone since, but my ex was the same age as me; this time around, I find myself attracted to refined, older men...If not that, men who tend to bring my more playful side. I have a feeling my next partner is going to either a Leo or a Libra....I hope. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 08, 2012 08:39 PM
LOL... You know what I realized fishy was married to an aqua.... Idk her other placements but it sure would be funny if she has a aqua stellium...I really like nordicsoul thoughts, that you look for your own needs (which is true) I realized my ex (virgo) didnt really give me what I needed so I went the total opposite now...
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Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 5098
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posted August 10, 2012 12:17 AM
Bump... Still going to look into this more, just havent had a chance yet. IP: Logged |
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