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Topic: Conjunct Moon Signs in Friendship/Love
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saggimoongirl
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posted August 08, 2012 11:55 PM
  
I totally agree conjunct moon signs with great venus-mars aspects bring together much closeness to 2 persons and the relationship shows long term compatibility and mutual interests. Does anyone with such aspects has any experiences good or bad to share ? Also I read a lot on forums on how relationships with good aspects feels like they found the right one but then , broke up ?? I am curious as I think if I have found someone who matches my aspects, He will be for keeps as a bf/partner. What makes 2 persons break up in a relationship which has great aspects such as same moon signs ++ ? Is that really painful too hard to bear, so I wonder why end it and face a sad consequences? Please share. Thank youIP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted August 09, 2012 11:54 AM
i have often thought about this too - how can people who have great synastry break up? imo, i think the natal chart would be what indicates why people with otherwise great synastry cannot remain together. perhaps one person has a placement that seeks variety their mate is not giving them, or one of the partners has a natal chart that emphazies career while the other has a chart that emphasizes family/having children. those are the types of conflicts, i would guess, that eventually lead to break-ups - when the values/interests are not aligned once the great sexual or romantic synastry has died down. i think the natal charts of a couple should look fairly similar so that their personal goals are aligned. just as an example... my bf has tons of planets in 5H/7H and i have absolutely nothing there, just as i have a 7 planet stellium in the 11H and he has no planets there. i am career-focused and driven and he is more interested in dating/marriage and building a family. we have great synastry, but those fundamental natal differences might lead to an unhappy end. but... if you feel the connection pursue it anyway, do not allow the possibility of sadness to ruin something that could go wondrously.IP: Logged |
saggimoongirl
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 10, 2012 12:57 AM
Hi Starmoon, my thoughts exactly. Takes 2 to dance and if one side does not feel the same way or compromise, the relationship may not work out over time. Usually I find with good aspects and synastry, love blossom much faster and both persons may want to stick together. Good aspects are almost like a tape that binds people and good things happen. I have known many men around me who are Sun-Moon conjunct /sextile to my Sun-Moon ie. 1 guy's moon cap is conjunct my sun cap. 1 guy;s sun sag is conjunct my moon sag. 1 guy moon scorp is sextile my sun cap. and his ascendant sag is conjunct my moon sag. However, I do not feel any connection other more than friends. Oh, there are good aspects between venus/mars too. BUT IMO, moon signs that conjunct my sag moon is a different story cos I feel the connection very deeply. It's like a super glue. I am always thinking in his best interest and he is the first person who I want to talk with all the time/ be with. Ah but then, I am merely basing this on 1 experience which I have with my childhood friend. He does not want to explore a relationship with me and I find that hard to accept, has a gf now but he still keep in touch. He is a sag moon -my moon. I know of a couple whose moon signs conjunct and sun-moon conjunct too. Both of them have been together as a couple from college days, stuck together in university and after 10 years got married with family now. Does that mean moons signs conjunct plays a stronger role in relationships ?IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted August 10, 2012 08:47 AM
Well my ex and I have conjunct Moons. We broke up because it got SOOOOOOOO boring.. We were more like best friends or even 'family' than bf/gf.
I'd say this is a common feeling with this aspect ^^A romantic rel needs something more than conjunct Moon signs to keep it going. IP: Logged |
frankie2912
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posted August 10, 2012 09:29 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Well my ex and I have conjunct Moons. We broke up because it got SOOOOOOOO boring.. We were more like best friends or even 'family' than bf/gf.
I'd say this is a common feeling with this aspect ^^A romantic rel needs something more than conjunct Moon signs to keep it going.
Yep, I 2nd this! My last ex and I both have Sagittarius Moon and we also shared Venus in Scorpio. While we did have a great mutual understanding of each other and enjoyed each other's company, it was much more like a 'best friend' type of thing than a romantic/sexual link. He liked me WAY more than I liked him. I dumped him because the passion just wasn't there. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted August 10, 2012 09:35 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Well my ex and I have conjunct Moons. We broke up because it got SOOOOOOOO boring.. We were more like best friends or even 'family' than bf/gf.
I'd say this is a common feeling with this aspect ^^A romantic rel needs something more than conjunct Moon signs to keep it going.
Interesting. I am surprised at this. Maybe, moon trine moon is the best. What do you think?
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posted August 10, 2012 11:02 AM
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TrueTaurus
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posted August 10, 2012 01:23 PM
In my experience, I think the sun and moon conjunctions makes for better friends and lovers. There's just a better understanding, comfort, and more interest, rather than feeling the same. That's not to say all conjunct moon signs feel the same, the sun and their asc. influence their feelings as well and how they perceive things, so that would be a generalization.With the Sun and Moon conjunct, there seems to be a common ground, which is really pleasant.  Also, I can't imagine being with another Scorpio Moon as a lover. IP: Logged |
saggimoongirl
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From: malaysia
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 11, 2012 06:00 AM
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
Yep, I 2nd this! My last ex and I both have Sagittarius Moon and we also shared Venus in Scorpio.While we did have a great mutual understanding of each other and enjoyed each other's company, it was much more like a 'best friend' type of thing than a romantic/sexual link. He liked me WAY more than I liked him. I dumped him because the passion just wasn't there.
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Originally posted by Odette:
Well my ex and I have conjunct Moons. We broke up because it got SOOOOOOOO boring.. We were more like best friends or even 'family' than bf/gf.
I'd say this is a common feeling with this aspect ^^A romantic rel needs something more than conjunct Moon signs to keep it going.
Hmm, interesting view. How do you mean the relation ship is becoming BORING ? I am curious , do you guys have the best times and try to plan exciting stuff to do but things become boring? I also realize that the energy level is more positive and I feel up lifting with the same moon signs person. Like they seem to lift my spirits up when I am down just by being there for me. Does anyone feel this way also ??
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scrappydog
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Registered: May 2009
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posted August 11, 2012 09:06 AM
I have moon conj moon in cappy with my fiance and I really relate to the "family" feel to it. We are very close. But its anything, but boring. But we his natal mars pluto is tying in so both those planets are hitting my moon too. There is also quite a bit of mars action going on elsewhere.IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
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Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 11, 2012 09:16 AM
Moon conjunct moon is frequent in long-term couples and in some cases marriage but that does not always indicate stability by itself. My folks both have Taurus moon but divorced recently, and separated a few years prior.I dated a guy who had Sun, mercury, and moon in Aries in conjunction with my Aries moon. We also had a Mars-Venus conjunction. From a superficial view, someone would say this is my soulmate blah blah blah based off of these aspects...we were very incompatible. Or rather he got on my nerves a lot. I get along alot better with him as a friend. Basically, look for other aspects like Saturn and Jupiter to find out whether or not it will be stable or maybe long-term. IP: Logged |
saggimoongirl
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From: malaysia
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 11, 2012 12:57 PM
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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Moon conjunct moon is frequent in long-term couples and in some cases marriage but that does not always indicate stability by itself. My folks both have Taurus moon but divorced recently, and separated a few years prior.I dated a guy who had Sun, mercury, and moon in Aries in conjunction with my Aries moon. We also had a Mars-Venus conjunction. From a superficial view, someone would say this is my soulmate blah blah blah based off of these aspects...we were very incompatible. Or rather he got on my nerves a lot. I get along alot better with him as a friend. Basically, look for other aspects like Saturn and Jupiter to find out whether or not it will be stable or maybe long-term.
Thanks for the info though I have read a lot that conjunct moon aries partners do not match well as a couple, tempers may flare suddenly and it takes understanding on both sides to make it work.
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Aquacheeka
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Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 11, 2012 01:09 PM
I would rather be with a man who has the same Mercury sign as me because of my temperament. I have a lot of opinionated energy in my chart and my Mars sign inclines me to be very assertive and outspoken with my opinions and this can easily degenerate into fights if the ways of thinking are dissimilar, as I know all too well from experience. My bf and I have incompatible moon signs and honest-to-god, his personal habits while sometimes annoying do not bother me NEARLY as much as his conservative goat-like thinking.I think it really depends on the natals more than anything. Having a mutable moon, I don't need someone with an identical lifestyle, I can be pretty accepting of differences in this way, but my Mercury is FIXED. IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 17, 2013 07:59 AM
I had the square, the trine, the sextile. A disaster. Nothing beats the conjunction. Its the best aspect for love in my opinion. You can have trines or sextile with any other planets in the chart. Crave for trines and sextile with SATURN but if your EMOTIONS are not in tune (the same) its very hard to maintain a relationship. The trine can be an easy aspect but even then one feel a thing and the other one another thing. Different kind of emotions generates frustration. I was frustrated when I had the sextile or the trine. Even the square was nicer.IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted December 17, 2013 08:38 AM
Moon-moon conjunction just mean you two are in tune with each other so it looks like a comfortable relationship to be in. But it also means you two don't even try to pick each other's brains. Sounds great for friendship but as for lovers, it depends on other aspects you are looking for.I think it depends on signs too though. Taurus moon with taurus moon would get bored with each other. I haven't figured out whether my Gemini moon would like another gem moon but based on this forum, I've seen gem moon couples. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted December 17, 2013 12:11 PM
I had moon conjunct moon with an Aqua one time. We both have Taurus moon. We could read each other REALLY well without needing to spend a lot of time around each other. IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 17, 2013 12:21 PM
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Originally posted by summerlite:
Moon-moon conjunction just mean you two are in tune with each other so it looks like a comfortable relationship to be in. But it also means you two don't even try to pick each other's brains. Sounds great for friendship but as for lovers, it depends on other aspects you are looking for.I think it depends on signs too though. Taurus moon with taurus moon would get bored with each other. I haven't figured out whether my Gemini moon would like another gem moon but based on this forum, I've seen gem moon couples.
Agree. I knew two men with Taurus Moon. Boring. Even Taurus Sun is cooler. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 17, 2013 12:54 PM
My best friend of many years has moon conjunct with me. (Gemini).
It's awesome and always fun. Maybe because it's Gemini.
We're often thinking the same things, feeling the same things, and saying the same things. Yet, we're both kind of goofy so it's quite entertaining. IP: Logged |
micromermaid
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posted December 17, 2013 03:18 PM
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Originally posted by TrueTaurus:
In my experience, I think the sun and moon conjunctions makes for better friends and lovers. There's just a better understanding, comfort, and more interest, rather than feeling the same. That's not to say all conjunct moon signs feel the same, the sun and their asc. influence their feelings as well and how they perceive things, so that would be a generalization.With the Sun and Moon conjunct, there seems to be a common ground, which is really pleasant. Also, I can't imagine being with another Scorpio Moon as a lover.
I agree!!! I must admit that I have favorites among my close friends, and my favorites have Pisces Moons to match my Pisces Sun. As for break-ups and great synastry, I just can't seem to break ties with my ex. The major aspects here are his Moon closely conjuncts my DSC, and my ASC is exactly midway between his Sun and Venus. Historically the most potent aspect in synastry for me is a man with an Aries moon, as my Venus is in Aries and in my 7th house. The closer it is to the cusp of my DSC, the stronger the connection.
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