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Topic: What Aspects Put The Nasty In Synastry ?
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lovehate122
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From: Ireland
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posted August 09, 2012 07:05 PM
  
After they've taken out the S,Y and T and pretty much rearranged the whole word . I never was much of a speller.But anyway ...I vote for Venus-Pluto aspects , Mars-Venus and Lilith to pretty much anything . Id love if some astrologers got in on this because i have lilith in someones 12th house and im curious . This peron is partial to 12th house mates because they have sun conjunct neptune . comments , opinions and interpretations .... IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted August 09, 2012 07:09 PM
you mean "r"?
but anyway I'm guessing you mean sexual when your refer to "nasty" Yea I think those aspects might do the trick, but then again I have some aspects in my chart that are considered pretty sexual (mars conjunct pluto 8H) is my strongest, and I've never done the nasty lol IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted August 09, 2012 07:13 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
you mean "r"?
but anyway I'm guessing you mean sexual when your refer to "nasty" Yea I think those aspects might do the trick, but then again I have some aspects in my chart that are considered pretty sexual (mars conjunct pluto 8H) is my strongest, and I've never done the nasty lol
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Belage
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posted August 09, 2012 07:14 PM
Venus/Pluto probably hands down, clear winner in my opinion. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted August 09, 2012 07:14 PM
I would say that Eros conjunct the ASC would make a person very sexual. Strangely enough, when Saturn would conjunct this, it may make the person obsessive about sex.I would say Pluto touching the Moon would make someone very sexual, as the moon is the deepest heart and Pluto is all primal passions. ------------------
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frankie2912
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posted August 09, 2012 07:16 PM
what exactly do you mean by "nasty"? you mean people who have hot passionate kinky monkey sex? or people who spit fire and gnash their teeth at each other when they're angry?i'll assume you mean the former. in that case, and in my experiences, Venus-Mars conjunction, Moon-Venus conjunction, Venus-Mars square, Sun-Mars square or conjunction, Mars-ASC conjunction. IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted August 09, 2012 07:17 PM
O___o Sex isn't nasty. IP: Logged |
scrappydog
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posted August 09, 2012 07:47 PM
Venus pluto wins above all others especially the square. Ive had the square, conjunction, and trine, but the square now that makes for the best, most raw sex. Venus mars pales in comparison. I also agree about the moon pluto thing too, its very deep and primal.
My current relationship is the best sex of my life, its so passionate and intense. We have:
Synastry:
venus square pluto
moon square pluto
sun opp mars
moon square mars
venus trine uranus
mars sextile pluto
mars conj nn
Composite:
moon square pluto
nn conj pluto
sun conj venus
venus trine pluto
sun trine pluto
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Lazyscarecrow
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Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 09, 2012 08:21 PM
Look to what planet ruler of your 5th, 7th, and 8th houses...and check if the other person's planets or angles aspect that ruling planet. Example:
Taurus in the 5th house = Ruler is Venus in Capricorn in the 1st house. If that person has Capricorn Moon or Mars conjunct Capricorn Venus or even a Taurus or Virgo inner planet trine Capricorn Venus, you may feel attraction towards this person. IP: Logged |
frankie2912
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posted August 09, 2012 08:32 PM
I really don't see how Venus-Pluto makes for great sex. That must mean I'd have great sex with everyone in my generation..and so far, that has NOT been true.IP: Logged |
scrappydog
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posted August 09, 2012 08:47 PM
^Ive wondered why this is so and its definately not everyone so I figure there has to be a karmic connection first. IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted August 09, 2012 09:57 PM
For great sex, don't you need attraction first?? Odd I've never felt sexually attracted to Venus in Libra, where my Pluto is. Yes, to power struggles with Libras whose Sun falls close, but not sexual attraction/tension.Venus-Mars, Moon-Mars, Sun-Mars, probably anything touching Mars. IP: Logged |
Belage
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From: California
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posted August 09, 2012 10:30 PM
quote:
Originally posted by frankie2912:
I really don't see how Venus-Pluto makes for great sex. That must mean I'd have great sex with everyone in my generation..and so far, that has NOT been true.
What aspects do you think make for great sex?
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sweet-scorpion
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posted August 09, 2012 10:45 PM
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Originally posted by Nine:
For great sex, don't you need attraction first?? Odd I've never felt sexually attracted to Venus in Libra, where my Pluto is. Yes, to power struggles with Libras whose Sun falls close, but not sexual attraction/tension.Venus-Mars, Moon-Mars, Sun-Mars, probably anything touching Mars.
I agree with you there Nine. I have the Libra Sun-Libra Pluto conjunction with a few family members and we've had very intense power struggles over the years, mainly on their part not mine. Trying to control me and wanting to press me down like an ant under their thumb. And me, being me, I wouldn't take it at all. I have a question for you - you said Moon-Mars is very sexual in synastry. I have that right now with a guy who I want to be in a relationship with but he holds himself back ... anyway, we have the conjunction in Virgo. Does this significantly tone down the sexual passion for the Moon-Mars conjunction, versus having it in something like Libra or Leo? I'm guessing, quite possibly. :'[ I'm also thinking his Saturn opposite my Mars really does NOT help speed things along... IP: Logged |
vertiver
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posted August 09, 2012 11:32 PM
I've got Moon-Mars double whammy and Venus-Mars conjunction with my BF, its very potent.I've only encountered a Venus - Pluto trine with someone, and something was there, but it wasn't as intense as the Venus-Mars conjunction and I think it really does depend on what sign the conjunction is in. Like this Venus-Mars conjunction is in Aries and right on my IC so its very raw and primal. IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl200
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posted August 09, 2012 11:38 PM
For me the most primal attraction I've had is to a guy who had a natal Mars/Mercury Conjunction Conjunct my natal Sun/Mars/Asc Conjunction in the 1st. I saw that guy and I immediately wanted to jump his bones lol. I forgot to add that there was a Mars-Mars and Venus-Venus Conjunction as well between us. We were born about 2.5 weeks after each other so all the aspects/placements are the same except for the Sun (him Gemini, me Cancer), Moon (him Gemini, me Cap), and Mercury (him Cancer, me Leo). IP: Logged |
frankie2912
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From: yep,ks,usa
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posted August 09, 2012 11:51 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Belage:
What aspects do you think make for great sex?
i listed them above. those are based on my experiences, only..of course. i respond well to squares and conjunctions to my Venus or ASC.
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inthemisosoup
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posted August 09, 2012 11:52 PM
The most immediate sexual attraction I felt was his eros conjunct my ascendant, his venus/sun opposite my mars, sextile my venus/pluto; his mars trine my mars trine my venus/pluto; his uranus square my ascendant; his neptune conjunct my sun and his venus/sun squaring my ic/mc axis. We had a lot of progressed-natal aspects and asteroids, too, but these are the main aspects from my memory. I saw him and it was so potent and so immediate that i wanted to have him. i can assure you, it was very mutual. We didn't do anything that night but dance, but the next time we saw each other we couldn't keep our hands off each other. That didn't work out, though. Nothing happened after that night.IP: Logged |
Belage
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posted August 10, 2012 01:22 AM
@ frankie2912, sorry I missed your post. You did say: Venus-Mars conjunction, Moon-Venus conjunction, Venus-Mars square, Sun-Mars square or conjunction, Mars-ASC conjunction.For the sake of argument, let's just use the Venus-Mars conjunction aspect. Since there are only 12 signs where Mars can be, it follows that there are about 1/12 of the population of earth to whom you should be attracted or with whom you should have great sex, which is about 500 millions people. Are you attracted to 500 millions people? Of course, not. Does that means the Venus-Mars aspect is bogus? Of course not. What I am trying to say is that just as we cannot discount Mars because 1/12 of the population of earth will have Mars in a particular sign, we cannot discount Pluto just because it is generational. Whether we're talking about Pluto or Mars, there are tons of things that make or break an attraction. For instance, we only use close aspects of no more than 4 or 5 degrees, which reduces the number of potential suitors to about 1/7th. Then, out of those people, we must only consider those who are of the sex you're attracted to which means we are slashing the number by half, unless you are bisexual.  Then we reduce the number further to people within a certain geographical area who you are likely to meet and interract with. Then we reduce further to people who have Mars or Pluto in a house that relates to relationship. Another reduction for people who have other aspects like Saturn or Uranus that would interfere with the Venus-Pluto or Venus-Mars aspect. We can continue reducing further to people who are available and not married, etc... There are other variables that can be used to furtner reduce the number of people who we will be attracted to or can have great sex with. IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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From: nevada
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posted August 10, 2012 04:08 AM
Without question, Mars conjunct Uranus.
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popcorn
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posted August 10, 2012 05:49 AM
Dont forgett moon. Without feelings no deeply affect. I say moon - Pluto Dw and moon-mars dw.IP: Logged |
bumblebee
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posted August 10, 2012 05:59 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I would say that Eros conjunct the ASC would make a person very sexual. Strangely enough, when Saturn would conjunct this, it may make the person obsessive about sex.
You mean saturn conjunct eros or saturn conjunct ascendan? IP: Logged |
Belage
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From: California
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posted August 11, 2012 09:10 AM
Sweetscorpio, while moon-mars can create sexual excitement, it is not strong enough to lead to a relationship, because it is too volatile an aspect. I don't know in what degree you have this aspect in Virgo with that guy, but keep in mind that the current transit of Jupiter in Gemini is not helping it.IP: Logged |
Nine
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From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 11, 2012 01:27 PM
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I have a question for you - you said Moon-Mars is very sexual in synastry. I have that right now with a guy who I want to be in a relationship with but he holds himself back ... anyway, we have the conjunction in Virgo. Does this significantly tone down the sexual passion for the Moon-Mars conjunction, versus having it in something like Libra or Leo? I'm guessing, quite possibly. :'[ I'm also thinking his Saturn opposite my Mars really does NOT help speed things along...
What Belage said. The Moon-Mars will be strong enough to get noticed by the other, and depending on the personalities even sex, but you'll need more for a relationship. Venus in the relationship planet, ideally you'd need Venus aspects to get things off the ground relationship-wise. As you pointed out, Saturn in the works ain't helping. IP: Logged |
lovehate122
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From: Ireland
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 11, 2012 02:40 PM
I also think ALL synastry depends on the natal chart of the person . In the sense that a venus pluto aspect in synastry would not go down well with someone with alot of air ..like myself i know somebody with moon square my pluto and i don't give a rats azz how they feel about me but i can't stand them.
I think house overlays are very underrated
when somebody has their sun or Anything really in virgo i feel it instantly in my 8th house . And because I have mars in there Intense attraction. But if i had mars square moon in my eigth house it would'nt be so nice IP: Logged |
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