posted August 10, 2012 04:57 AM            

I know it indicates people who idealize thier partners, put them on a pedestool to a point that reality ends up being ignored and huge let downs become inevitable... Attracted to victim/savior dynamics in relationships... Self-destructive or self-sacrificing in relationships... All of it, I can relate to, although I hate to admit it.

posted August 10, 2012 01:16 PM            

While I don't have neptune conj. DSC I do sympathasize with your plight.

Relationships are a heavy aspect for you.

Neptune can actually be a good thing on the 7th becuase it can when positively aspected in synastry allow you be very accepting of other's faults and you can create an illusion of a great relationship which will allow you to get away from the petty garbage that can ruin relationships.

That being said as you said it's a two way street. You can just as easily deceive yourself that a relationship is amazing when it's a complete mess.

With all of that 7th house action you'll likely need a partner that has his sun in your first house in synastry.

However, it also will depend on where your "escape routes" are in your chart for relationships. i.e positive aspects from sun saturn nnode neptune and which cusps leo, capricorn, and pisces fall and what planets fall in those houses if any and what conditions those planets are in (i.e exaltation, fall, detriment)