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awakemer
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posted August 11, 2012 08:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for awakemer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've read in some book that leo's can be hot and cold.i just can't remember where i read this... i've had a A LOT of leo friends more than any other sign. (i'm leo sun and moon) I Guess we like our own company, lol. Anyway, i have found all of them amazing (although it think leo traits are more harsh in males) but i found all of the moody and hot and cold.. have you had this experience?

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posted August 11, 2012 08:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lazyscarecrow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes

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posted August 11, 2012 08:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im definitely hot and cold.

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posted August 11, 2012 09:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TheManticore     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I tend to think that Aries matches this description the best.

But for sure fire signs are the most direct about not liking someone, that's when you get the "cold shoulder".

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posted August 11, 2012 09:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i have a lot of leos in my life and although i never thought of it before... yep, they can be hot/cold. friendly one day and not friendly the next. romantic one day and distant the next. maybe it depends on how much attention they are/are not getting from day to day?

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posted August 11, 2012 09:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for awakemer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gemini's, Cancers, Leo's. in that order from my experience.

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posted August 11, 2012 09:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah leos i do find hot and cold. I think they dont trust most ppl since their pride in themselves is so important so i dont think they truly get that close to many people. I have leo moon so thats how i see it in myself and leo suns.

I think aries are just moody...not hot n cold. Aries get bored easily. That makes them noody but i dont see em being hot n cold. Pretty straightforward (and decisive) people. I see leo as much more sensitive and even shy in comparison.

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posted August 11, 2012 09:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for awakemer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by starmoon:
i have a lot of leos in my life and although i never thought of it before... yep, they can be hot/cold. friendly one day and not friendly the next. romantic one day and distant the next. maybe it depends on how much attention they are/are not getting from day to day?


Yeah i think maybe it has to do with the attention they are getting.like when they get enough they don't seem to be as friendly, nice etc. but i also think they are "turned off" by small things.. and are picky, judgey and snobby and maybe just maybe they act "nice" when they feel they are happy with you? Kind of like a queen and king.. they have high expectations.

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posted August 11, 2012 09:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah I'm one moody Leo. I think having a water moon contributes more to the moodiness.

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posted August 11, 2012 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for awakemer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also i've noticed with me.. i can be very very passionate and deeply in love and then the FIRE CAN Go out really fast and its like FEEL nothing for that person. any other leo's relate? It really is like a candle that burns and that goes off.. and its like i can never go back... how can i when the fire went out??

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posted August 11, 2012 10:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Junethird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by awakemer:

Yeah i think maybe it has to do with the attention they are getting.like when they get enough they don't seem to be as friendly, nice etc. but i also think they are "turned off" by small things.. and are picky, judgey and snobby and maybe just maybe they act "nice" when they feel they are happy with you? Kind of like a queen and king.. they have high expectations.

Uh yeah!!! I totally agree.

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posted August 11, 2012 11:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I never noticed inconsistent behaviour with Leos..

Mutable signs are more hot/cold.

Fixed signs are consistent.

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posted August 11, 2012 11:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In any event - they're usually more consistent than I am!! lol

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posted August 11, 2012 11:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by awakemer:
Gemini's, Cancers, Leo's. in that order from my experience.

I'm a Gemini-Cancer who was with a Leo. Imgaine the drama in that. It was always very hot and cold. I can say yes I was but majority of the time it was reactionary to Leo's mood swings.

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posted August 12, 2012 12:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For the most part my coldness is due to mood swings..
When I'm in a bad mood, I just want to be alone...
Which can just happen.. It's not really from not gettin attention, it goes deeper than that..

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posted August 12, 2012 12:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for enchantress299     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Eh...

Fixed signs to me, aren't always consistent in terms of their emotions. They are INCREDIBLY consistent in terms of them doing what they want to do, how they want to do it, and when they want to do it. I see more variations depending on what their moon sign is. They can be inconsistent emotionally speaking, if they have a mutable moon or they can burn out quickly with a cardinal moon. Just depends.

I've known Leos, but I have to say I haven't known many Leos WELL. The shy ones always kind of throw me off because I'm used to the more extroverted ones. However, I do see their fixed sign in terms of the fact that they are usually kind of lazy about it. Whereas Scorpios tend to be RAWR RAWR RAWR about what they are going to do and how they are going to do it, Leos tend to be more passive and just do whatever the hell they want to do without preaching about it. Half the time you don't notice until it's been a month of the same stubborn/fixed behavior.

That's just my observation anyway. I haven't really seen the hot/cold behavior that people here are talking about, but that could be because I have just not been close enough friends with one of them to know.

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posted August 12, 2012 12:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not in my experience.

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I never noticed inconsistent behaviour with Leos..

Mutable signs are more hot/cold.

Fixed signs are consistent.


This^. The only time I notice hot/cold behavior from Leos is in the beginning when I first meet them and they freeze up. After the thaw off they're pretty consistent.

The only hot/cold Leo I knew had Cancer moon. Ugh!! You never know what mood she was in or how/when to approach her. Ultimately I refused to talk to her. She was also very obnoxious.

It's a shame, but this is the Leo (w/ Cancer Moon) I find myself leaving by the roadside/doorstep and running away from. Perhaps it's the moon.

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posted August 12, 2012 01:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can they ever! If any sign needs to be a lab experiment it's Leos. I get them, but I don't get them. Their moods and responses puzzle me to no end unless they have earth or air signs in their personal planets.

I've read somewhere Leos are hot and cold as a way of testing your loyalty, and other times Leos are hot and cold because that's just how they feel. What sucks is the expectation that you should know which is which and if you don't then you're not a true friend. It reminds me of Pisces' wanting everyone to automatically know what they want, but not how their feeling or the reasoning behind them (like Leos).

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posted August 12, 2012 01:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Nine:
Not in my experience.

This^. The only time I notice hot/cold behavior from Leos is in the beginning when I first meet them and they freeze up. After the thaw off they're pretty consistent.

The only hot/cold Leo I knew had Cancer moon. Ugh!! You never know what mood she was in or how/when to approach her. Ultimately I refused to talk to her. She was also very obnoxious.

It's a shame, but this is the Leo (w/ Cancer Moon) I find myself leaving by the roadside/doorstep and running away from. Perhaps it's the moon.


Fire and water in a personal chart is almost never a good combination to deal with! Sometimes (SOMETIMES) they can be selfish to the point of destroying relationships, and what's worse is it takes a very skilled mentalist to communicate with them how their actions affect or are affecting you/others. I don't like Leo/Cancer combinations at ALL. In males, anyway.

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posted August 12, 2012 02:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lazyscarecrow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Nine:

The only hot/cold Leo I knew had Cancer moon. Ugh!! You never know what mood she was in or how/when to approach her. Ultimately I refused to talk to her. She was also very obnoxious.

I have to admit I can be like this...confuse people to the point of where they don't know what to do with me. I am actually a Cancer-Leo cusp although I know 99% of people into astrology hate cusps. But I fit that description when I'm in one of my moods.

I can be hot and cold when someone does something that irritates me or when I'm misunderstood. It doesn't make things easier for me, but I'm getting better about it. It helps Leos to have an understanding friend/mate when they get like this.

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posted August 12, 2012 09:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Fire and water in a personal chart is almost never a good combination to deal with! Sometimes (SOMETIMES) they can be selfish to the point of destroying relationships, and what's worse is it takes a very skilled mentalist to communicate with them how their actions affect or are affecting you/others. I don't like Leo/Cancer combinations at ALL. In males, anyway.

Funny how both Sun & Moon are said to be dignified in this chart. Ha!!

[/quote]I have to admit I can be like this...confuse people to the point of where they don't know what to do with me. I am actually a Cancer-Leo cusp although I know 99% of people into astrology hate cusps. But I fit that description when I'm in one of my moods.[/quote]

Do you have a water moon??

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posted August 12, 2012 10:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for redshift     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm married to a Leo sun, scorp moon, virgo asc. He is hot 24 hours a day. I honestly have never seen him turn cold over anything. He is like the sun, always warming up everything around him. I don't even know how he does it. I dated another Leo before him. He was much moodier...but also was bi-polar, so that overpowered his true personality.

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posted August 12, 2012 01:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ShadowLeo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Leo Sun and I have such a consistent mood, it's scary... this might be due to the Moon in Taurus, I think. I've been known to only cry when I'm in extreme physical pain (lack of the proverbial comfort the Taurus craves?). What feelings are there are further hidden by my Scorpio Asc. The only two ppl in the world that can drive me absolutely crazy (and go from completely calm to ballistic) are my twin boys, whose Saturn conjuncts my Sun/Venus/Jupiter conjunction (and it translates, in real life, in me never being able to eat a meal or do anything without them asking/needing something, it's weird, it's like they're timing their stuff when I need a second for myself, LOL). Sorry for the rant.

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posted August 12, 2012 02:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ShadowLeo:
I'm a Leo Sun and I have such a consistent mood, it's scary... this might be due to the Moon in Taurus, I think. I've been known to only cry when I'm in extreme physical pain (lack of the proverbial comfort the Taurus craves?). What feelings are there are further hidden by my Scorpio Asc. The only two ppl in the world that can drive me absolutely crazy (and go from completely calm to ballistic) are my twin boys, whose Saturn conjuncts my Sun/Venus/Jupiter conjunction (and it translates, in real life, in me never being able to eat a meal or do anything without them asking/needing something, it's weird, it's like they're timing their stuff when I need a second for myself, LOL). Sorry for the rant.

Case in point... a Leo with earth influences!

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posted August 12, 2012 02:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
haha true...i know an aries that is all earth, even his rising, and he is totally nonmoody. Which i thought was impossible! to find in an aries.

That said, I'd take Aries over Leo any day. I find leo impossible to deal with. Their self-centeredness is unbearable.

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