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posted August 16, 2012 01:49 AM            

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So, I have venus in Aries, and Ascendant in Leo. I'm an Aquarius. Other than that, I have mostly water and earth (cap moon, pisces merc, cancer mars). Anyway, sexually speaking, I'm into trying exciting things. I like keeping the fires stoked, so to speak. Things like sex in public, sexy photos, bondage, etc all interest me. My boyfriend was born on the scorp/sagg cusp. He's a Scorpio, with moon, merc, venus all in Sagg, mars in gemini, and ascendant in Aquarius. I ask him to do some of the things above and he is unwilling due to insecurities, not feeling comfortable with the idea of them, shyness, and a lack of spontaneity. He has had a few hookups that were semi-public, but he was intoxicated, and didn't have a choice otherwise. He was also a lot younger. He had sex in a car in a parking lot with one of his exes. I'm completely confused, because it seems he did some sort of things like that with exes and past hookups but refuses with me, and I always thought air and fire signs were all for those types of ventures. What's going on?

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posted August 16, 2012 01:59 AM            

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i am water and earth too. scorpio and taurus. i think fire signs have a lot of kink in them. a sag knows a lot of things lol! one can learn a lot from sleeping with them. aries are the most straight up for me and leos eat my sign for breakfast..

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posted August 16, 2012 02:00 AM            

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aqua women are one of the least inhibited too ime..

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posted August 16, 2012 02:22 AM            

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I don't think kinky is a good word for fire signs. why? well Leo would hate to be caught with their pants down, think pride and endless teasing. They do NOT want to be the butt of any joke.

Aries doesn't want to feel bad about anything they do so they refrain, providing there is no alcohol/drugs involved.

Sag can't be kinky with a straight face and their partners feel like they are being laughed at. Kind of kills the mood.

passionate? yes
spontaneous? yes
kinky? No not sun signs alone.

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posted August 16, 2012 02:25 AM            

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I would like to think the Air signs are more the kinky sort, with them being described as "experimental" and being able to separate their personal feelings and all... :P

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posted August 16, 2012 04:31 PM            

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That does make sense lalalinda. I don't know. With all of the fire in his natal I thought it would be something that he would be into, but maybe his Scorp sun and Aqua ascendant are holding him back. That or he has something in his natal afflicted. I can definitely agree with Aquarius being experimental ^^ hehe

Oh, well. If he's not comfortable with it, he's not. I can't make him do something he doesn't want to do.

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posted August 16, 2012 04:34 PM            

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Maybe he respects you in a different way then his past exes's

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posted August 16, 2012 04:49 PM            

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Wow really? Ive never had that problem with my guys. I have sun gemini, venus in aries. My ex had sun/mars in gemini and venus leo, scorpio moon, he was up for anything. My current love has moon in gemini, mars in leo and ASC/venus in scorpio and he too is about exploring different techiques

Looks like you need a different kind of fire - Leo. and more scorpio/gemini influenced men.

You gotta keep it hot and spicy in the bedroom

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posted August 16, 2012 06:02 PM            

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Moving to Sweet Peas.

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