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Topic: My mommie is coming!
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5222 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 16, 2012 08:17 PM
Im not sure if I shared this before, but I really dont have a relationship with my mom.. In the last 20 years I saw her once about 10 years ago.. When she got married.. I fly to her to attend her wedding.. Even though she flatly refused to attend mine, or be there with me when either of my kids were born.. I have come to realize every 10 years "something" must be getting activated in my chart for us to see each other.. Jupiter rules my H10.. Jupiter will be in Gem when she arrives in my H3, near my IC... What transits will show my mom coming??? Also I have a feeling she is coming to tell me she is ill... I also think she is coming to somehow make amends.. I also think this will be the last time I get to see her... Im kind of worried, and scared at the same time.... What type of transits should I look for, for this??
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Capricorn Sun Knowflake Posts: 372 From: Planet Saturn Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 16, 2012 08:26 PM
Look to God. ------------------ ~Sunny~ IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8654 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 16, 2012 08:38 PM
"What transits will show my mom coming???"::cries:: What chart are we supposed to look at? IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5222 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 16, 2012 09:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: "What transits will show my mom coming???"::cries:: What chart are we supposed to look at?
LOL.. Sorry I wasnt really asking for a reading per say.. Just what should I look for, so I didnt post the chart... But its fine.. Here is my chart, the day she flies in... Can you explain what I look for so I will know/learn
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8654 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 16, 2012 10:51 PM
Whoops, sorry. OK H4 ruler will transit your Leo stellium at that time (incl Moon), in the 6th. You have H6 Moon like me, emotions influence our health and vice versa, could be a moment of anxiety there (Moon/Merc H6) considering the time that has passed (if I'm reading correctly) since last visit. Then on or around 9/10 T Saturn will be exact on the cusp of your 8th, this transit can signal illness of a parent but it's not the connection to their health exactly, it's the emphasis on Saturn influencing shared monies (inheritances)/deep bonds (which don't have to be sexual). I'd check P/SA Moon/IC for more information.Just from my life, but not to scare you, when Saturn went through my H8 my mother was diagnosed w.Cancer, when it trined my H4 Jupiter from H8 is when she passed on. My Moon/IC were also being bombarded (and a lot of things were coming to a head for her too), and her mother's chart, etc; rest assured it wasn't just that transit. If it's a significant death in the family, you'll find it in all of their charts -- there's a common link there somewhere (and often more than 1), that ties you all together. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5222 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 16, 2012 11:18 PM
Thanks hon.. Ill be back when I can get to a pcIP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 3028 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted August 17, 2012 03:21 AM
I think you see that in the lunar eclipse on 4 june ... This is an meant to be events. This is an strong event. LE opp your 4th cusp LE opp your saturn,karma and meant to be. LE venus conj your saturn and 4th cusp LE mercury conj your 4th cusp in your house 4 Moon and mercury are your house 4 rulers including your venus which be there. Mommie will be home. Im not surprised you are worried about your mother. Your house 6 ruler sun/mercury show the connection to your N 4th house from the LE. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5222 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 24, 2012 12:11 AM
Thanks.. I still have to get back on this... My mom comes on sunday... lonake I still have to check my progressions..My mom is a pis asc, Sun lib Moon sag Venus/mars in virgo... Mercury in Scop Ill get back to u. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5222 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 24, 2012 12:35 AM
Ok Here is my moms chart with transits. She is coming up on a Saturn return Also here is our synastry..
How come we only see each other every 10 years or so.. Mom is on the inside, Im on the outside..
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8654 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 24, 2012 02:11 AM
Well to comment on the meetings and their infrequency I'd need the dates of those meetings and also the birth data to run the directed charts for those times, and to crosscheck that against the transits.What's interesting to me is that you share a Moon/Neptune conjunction in early Sagittarius. The transiting node has just passed that point. There was a solar eclipse on the opposite point a few mos back. And transiting Neptune is squaring that point; you under Neptune/Neptune sq, she's under Moon/Neptune square. So at the very least transiting Neptune is bringing you two back together via the eclipse/your synastric conjunction/and the transiting nodes. And you have conj angles, so Neptune is chart ruler for you both. Also, You have NN in Capricorn, and transiting Saturn is coming up to square it from late Libra. Her NN is conj your NN. But the difference for her is that her Saturn squares hers from late Libra. So your transit is mimicking her natal square, and weight is being brought to hers via her Saturn return. Then of course you share conj angles, which gives you both Saturn Libra squaring the nodes from the 7th. Saturn in Libra in the 7th is a dw emphasis there. Saturn is also the NN ruler for you both, your NN ruler conj your IC, hers in her 7th. So again you have the ruler of something significant in the chart, this time the NN, squaring an important point in the synastry, here it's the actual nodes. This is another experience you'll be sharing. I mentioned Mercury with this, and since it's the ruler of your 4th in your 6th it can imply being concerned with the health of someone in your home/immediate family. But transits really aren't it for me, I really need to see the charts with sa and progressed to get more info.
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popcorn Knowflake Posts: 3028 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted August 24, 2012 06:16 PM
From your mothers side I want say only one thing. She got her second saturn return. Change of direction. She is today more mature because age and lifeexperience and she know the life will end once a time. Your mother love you and want meet you.IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5222 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 25, 2012 10:56 AM
Thanks you 2..Yes when I saw she is having her saturn return.. I figured that is what is pushing her to come.. We don't have much of a relationship, since I became an adult. @lonake I think I know what the other incident is.. I have t. Chiron conjunct my asc.. I feel like my mom abandoned me.. Even though she raised me, but once I turned 19 she was just gone.. She didn't come to my wedding, she wasnt around when my kids were born.. She has basicly missed my whole life.. I'm very hurt over it.. She doesn't even know her g, kids. I have a feeling this is going to get emotional. But she comes in tomorrow, so I am excited.. But I have lots and lots of cleaning to do.. Euhhhh IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 5695 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted August 25, 2012 11:11 AM
good luck with this lioness! i can imagine how u feel actually with me not really being in contact with 1 parent most of my life.. weird i know we have the same chinese year (the rat right?) and fate has actually brought that parent closer to me as well.. he also has had some medical procedures done lately but is hopefully fine..IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Moderator Posts: 4319 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 25, 2012 11:15 AM
Yay congrats Lioness! I wish your visit to be peaceful, loving & enlightening IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5222 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 25, 2012 11:17 AM
Thanks sand. Yes I'm a rat...lol... Glad to hear about u are talking to an absent parent. that's great!neither of my parents are in my life.. I talk to my mom on holidays, but that's it. As for my.dad... He.found out abt me when I was 25. When I found him, and told him... We spoke a few times but never met... I don't know where he is now, or have any contact whats so ever. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5222 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 25, 2012 11:18 AM
quote: Originally posted by ariesdragon: Yay congrats Lioness! I wish your visit to be peaceful, loving & enlightening
Thanks hon .. I'm excited! IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8654 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 25, 2012 11:37 PM
Absolutely. Good Luck to you It's probable that the Moon/Neptune connection along with everything else plugging into it, at least, will bring you closer. That connection can sometimes really make the tears flow.IP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 3028 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted August 26, 2012 12:21 AM
I wish you Good luck :-) IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5222 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 26, 2012 01:02 AM
Thanks again.. She will be here tomorrow... I will let u know how it goes later in the week..IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5222 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 26, 2012 08:27 PM
Here I go.. Plane lands in 30 mins.. Off to the apo I go!IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5222 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 28, 2012 11:49 PM
So far so good, things are going well... Doing all the tourist things.. Euhhhh I'm tired though..IP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 3028 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted August 29, 2012 12:50 AM
So good your mother and you had fun IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8654 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 29, 2012 03:33 PM
Glad to hear it IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5222 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 30, 2012 09:21 PM
Well over all it didn't go well.. She left 3 days early, she didn't want to be here any more.IP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 3028 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted August 30, 2012 10:31 PM
hm crazy mother. It seems to me contrary the law of nature to put out our own children from our life. Not even animals do so..In anycase very seldom.She is not young anymore and maybe it was to much for her. Maybe a weekend would be enough but anyhow she is adult and responsible for what she done... She is not worth think about and you got a good life before without her so...You give her a chance. If I was you I wont never give her one more chance. IP: Logged |