Author
|
Topic: Why does my Venus love squares?
|
frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 724 From: yep,ks,usa Registered: Apr 2011
|
posted August 17, 2012 11:56 PM
So..I've noticed a definite trend. I keep becoming attracted to guys whose Venus and/or Mars square my Venus. What's up with that?My Venus is in Scorpio and without a doubt, every guy I become interested in has Venus and/or Mars in Leo or Aquarius. I notice these people right off the bat. I'm kind of a weirdo so I looked up the birthday of a guy I work with, on Facebook. Yep, he's got Venus and Mars in Aquarius. Can't tell ya how many times that's happened where I find out those placements are eithe Leo or Aqua and it drives me crazy!! These people fire something up in me, big time. My Venus doesn't square anything natally, except for my MC. In the natal, my Venus is trine Mars, Jupiter, and conj. ASC. I'm not 100% if it's really my Venus at work here but I'm pretty sure it is. My natal Mars has a lot of squares but when people square my Mars in Pisces, I don't really give a damn about them. Now, to clarify, I am only talking about when *I* have an intense attraction. Sometimes they return it..usually the ones who are insanely into me have Cancer or Taurus placements and I don't always necessarily return the feeling. What's up with the love for squares??? Do Venus in Scorpios just naturally like tension? Any other Scorp Venuses care to share their thoughts? IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Moderator Posts: 3989 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
|
posted August 18, 2012 12:43 AM
You're attracted to something lighter & not so intense What sign is your 5th in? IP: Logged |
amowls** Knowflake Posts: 1769 From: Registered: Dec 2010
|
posted August 18, 2012 12:47 AM
What houses do Leo/Aqua fall in your chart? What's your descendant doing? You may be attracted to Leo/Aqua energy which just happens to square your Venus. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 3886 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
|
posted August 18, 2012 12:48 AM
us aqua venus men are just that good! IP: Logged |
ueharaa Knowflake Posts: 210 From: Registered: Sep 2011
|
posted August 18, 2012 12:53 AM
Which house does your Venus rule ? You can also look at the signs on your 5th / 8th house cusp and planets in those houses. (do you have any aquarius or leo energy there or Saturn, mars, Uranus ? )IP: Logged |
frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 724 From: yep,ks,usa Registered: Apr 2011
|
posted August 18, 2012 02:05 AM
ariesdragon: 5th house in Pisces, my Mars is right there on its cusp. amowls: Leo rules my 10th, Aqua my 4th. my DESC is in Taurus with no planets there. no planets in 10th, Jupiter in 4th, but Jupiter is my strongest planet and my Sun (ruler of 10th) is in a huge 2nd house stellium.
ueharaa: Venus rules my 7th and 12th houses, neither have planets in them...neither does my 8th.
Thinking about it more now...my 4th house ruler (Aquarius-Uranus) Uranus squares my Mars..ya think that could have anything to do with it?
IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 2083 From: Registered: Nov 2011
|
posted August 18, 2012 02:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by frankie2912: So..I've noticed a definite trend. I keep becoming attracted to guys whose Venus and/or Mars square my Venus. What's up with that?
A square is what creates the spark, sometimes when funneled positively the differences will be the glue that keeps you together with the person. It's also a high attraction aspect because it's more in-your-face than trines are. IP: Logged |
frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 724 From: yep,ks,usa Registered: Apr 2011
|
posted August 18, 2012 02:12 AM
hannaramaa - that makes sense. i do like intensity and while i don't seek commitment, i want to envelope the object of my desire in an all-consuming passion..the ease of slow-moving feelings is so boring to me, i do want something that strikes me immediately. IP: Logged |
amowls** Knowflake Posts: 1769 From: Registered: Dec 2010
|
posted August 18, 2012 12:49 PM
quote: amowls: Leo rules my 10th, Aqua my 4th. my DESC is in Taurus with no planets there. no planets in 10th, Jupiter in 4th, but Jupiter is my strongest planet and my Sun (ruler of 10th) is in a huge 2nd house stellium.
10th and 4th are very important houses as the 10th is your place in society and 4th is your "home" or the place in your chart that makes you feel the most secure. I, for one, love Virgo Moons because Virgo is my 4th house. I feel "safe" with people who have planets in my 4th. I also tend to date guys who fall into my 10th as well (but I also have Venus there so). Also hard aspects to your DSC ruler (which are more dynamic and obvious than trines and sextiles) also explains the attraction. IP: Logged |
Junethird Moderator Posts: 2776 From: Registered: Nov 2011
|
posted August 18, 2012 01:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: A square is what creates the spark, sometimes when funneled positively the differences will be the glue that keeps you together with the person. It's also a high attraction aspect because it's more in-your-face than trines are.
I agree... My venus in aries attracts alot of squares or their mars will trine my venus... Its intense IP: Logged |
Virgo/Leo Cusp Knowflake Posts: 50 From: Registered: Apr 2009
|
posted August 18, 2012 01:53 PM
I have noticed alot of my love interests are (3)Venus in Aries, only (1) Venus in Leo and only (1) Venus in Taurus I'm a Venus in Cancer but my natal Venus squares Pluto, sextiles Jupiter, trines Uranus and quincunxes my Moon My Mars is in Libra conjunct MC and Pluto My Venus and Mars are square by sign but not by aspect Seems that I attract Venus in Aries I don't really know how I feel about the Venus in Aries energy, they want things now, and very impatient in love, but def are exciting. IP: Logged |
Junethird Moderator Posts: 2776 From: Registered: Nov 2011
|
posted August 18, 2012 02:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by Virgo/Leo Cusp: Seems that I attract Venus in Aries I don't really know how I feel about the Venus in Aries energy, they want things now, and very impatient in love, but def are exciting.
Yes we are impatient... But very lovable!!! IP: Logged |