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Topic: When you were a kid
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L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 1255 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 18, 2012 08:52 PM
Did you have any sexual experiences? Not that you HAD sex but like kissing and touching? Share share!What would this be related to? The moon? Mars? List your aspects. Edit: Also did you do things with the same sex when you were young? IP: Logged |
PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 771 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 18, 2012 10:46 PM
I foresee this being moved to Sweet Peas in the near future. Yeah, I did. It was mostly curiosity rather than actual passion. It's hard for me to describe because there are so many levels of lust, passion, and love, and most people appear to me to not understand that, and English seems very limited in describing those subtle but important differences. That caveat aside I'd say I was 14 before I experienced even a hint of sexual attraction (though I fooled around before out of curiosity) and 17 before I actually pursued sex for its own sake (not that I was wild about it). I have a Sag moon & mars (and also Eris). I think all my Libran energies (including Venus as well as Sun) kept me more passionate about mental subjects (though ironically more willing to experience it younger out of curiosity) instead which probably kept me from being more sexual than I was...though I suspect other things that might not be astrology-related also made a difference. Maybe I'm naive (or perhaps the opposite of naive) but I'd think it would be the kids who DIDN'T kiss and fool around a little (as opposed to actual sex) who'd be the exception to the rule. IP: Logged |
L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 1255 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 18, 2012 11:01 PM
interesting and i hope it doesn't get moved!this wasn't meant as some tell me your sex fantasy thread! hahai get thrown off when i hear of people who didn't do things. like how did they avoid it? and why weren't they curious about that stuff? hmm IP: Logged |
vertiver Knowflake Posts: 1817 From: Firey Jupiter Registered: May 2009
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posted August 18, 2012 11:05 PM
Interesting post, hopefully this isn't tmi...I was a highly sexual kid or to put it less creepily - highly aroused. I understood the basics of what sex was at age five. I remember in kindergarten observing a boy and girl in my class kissing and getting aroused by it, we were also under a "parachute" so it made it some how more intoxicating. I also often touched myself "inappropriately" as a child, I got called out on it a lot. I was never told "lady like" manners because my mom was really open with me about sexuality and how its natural and not something to be disgusted by. I also did a few "role" playing games with my girl friends as a kid and I always played the "boy." It was all highly erotic for a 8 year old, now that I think about it. But nothing sexually abnormal happened to me, I was just a highly energetic and highly aroused child. I think having Leo Sun in the 8th H made me really fascinated with all aspects of sex - even though I didn't actually have sex until I was 21. Also I have Pisces Moon -so I have a very vivid imagination and can get aroused by my little fantasies so easily. IP: Logged |
L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 1255 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 18, 2012 11:12 PM
nice nice! i think that as kids it always feels thrilling because its new. And we take sexual things naturally, we don't really question why it feels good, it just does.also 8h sun huh? i know someone with mars 8h but they didn't discover all that stuff early on. Maybe because sun is the self? So it is expressed more apparently. IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 811 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 18, 2012 11:12 PM
I was a kisser in kindergarten, I liked grabbing a boy and kissing them. I don't remember it being a sexual feeling at least not in the same way I would feel now as a adult. I don't remember feeling anything sexual until I was about 11 years old and the kissing behavior been stopped before then. As I got older all sexual behavior became more repressed if anything.Gemini Moon 1ST house, Mars,Eros,Sappho in Taurus 12th house. IP: Logged |
vertiver Knowflake Posts: 1817 From: Firey Jupiter Registered: May 2009
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posted August 18, 2012 11:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by L0veLess: nice nice! i think that as kids it always feels thrilling because its new. And we take sexual things naturally, we don't really question why it feels good, it just does.also 8h sun huh? i know someone with mars 8h but they didn't discover all that stuff early on. Maybe because sun is the self? So it is expressed more apparently.
Yeah the Sun is all about self-expression and as children we start to develop it. And the 8th H at its most basic level is about sexuality. Also Leo is a strong placement for the Sun and I also have Aries Mars on the IC and it trines my Leo Sun - lots of fire energy going on with me.
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L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 1255 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 18, 2012 11:17 PM
Ahh and isn't IC linked to childhood and past? hm hm hmIP: Logged |
L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 1255 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 18, 2012 11:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by ail221: I was a kisser in kindergarten, I liked grabbing a boy and kissing them. I don't remember it being a sexual feeling at least not in the same way I would feel now as a adult. I don't remember feeling anything sexual until I was about 11 years old and the kissing behavior been stopped before then. As I got older all sexual behavior became more repressed if anything.Gemini Moon 1ST house, Mars,Eros,Sappho in Taurus 12th house.
my little cousin got in trouble for that recently! haha IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 1852 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted August 18, 2012 11:35 PM
I had crushes on guys since I was in preschool. This one boy I would pick flowers for before school.And then the next year this boy would always say hi to me. So I was like oh that's my boyfriend. I would kiss him sometimes. There is even a picture of me putting him in a headlock and kissing him. Then by elementary school I got shy. Oh but there was a boy I had a crush on from 1st to 4th grade. I would write about him in my diary. I even drew a picture in my 3rd grade diary. Of us laying on a heart shaped bed holding hands in our underwear!!! Didn't have a boyfriend til middle school. Nothing happened. I had walls up at that point. Was just a total prude. Didn't make out with a boy until I was 17. ------------------ Rising: Gemini Sun: Aries 11 Moon: Scorpio 6 Mercury: Taurus 12 Mars: Aquarius 10 Venus: Pisces 10 N.Node: Aquarius 9 Saturn: Capricorn 9 Jupiter: Cancer 2 Pluto: Scorpio 6 rx IP: Logged |
L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 1255 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 19, 2012 12:07 AM
LOL thats kinda creepy cute the drawing in your diaryIP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 1852 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted August 19, 2012 03:14 AM
haha yeahIP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 5205 From: 14.5530° N, 121.0199° E Registered: May 2011
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posted August 19, 2012 05:25 AM
I have never experienced a wet dream. I think i started too early. Too curious. IP: Logged |