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Topic: Immaturity in the birth chart?
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Capricorn Sun Knowflake Posts: 274 From: Planet Saturn Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 19, 2012 10:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by sand: just brings a whole new image to mind when i think of gold digging! 
You betcha baby! We Caps can't help it. We were born to shine.  ------------------ ~Sunny~ IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Knowflake Posts: 669 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 19, 2012 11:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by peachbeigeblue: OK I can be NC 17 but in general I have to be very comfortable first. Perhaps that capability is more my Scorp ASC or Gemini Venus. I LOVE sleepovers. I always have. I say when I hang out "it's for keeps" If I go out to a friends at night I always want to stay. Girlfriends. Boyfriends. BOYfriends. I know Leo's who aren't like this though. I always figured it may have to do with my Taurus moon. Being stubborn at night and not feelings like going home/changing my location. I have Sag moon friends who NEVER want to sleep out. Theyd rather drive home, even if it's far. I thought my Taurus moon might be why it's difficult for me to get up and go when I have already decided what I was going to do that might. Perhaps it's just a triple fixed thing with my Leo liking slumber parties and my other fixed placements. What's this guys moon?
I'm also like that. I'm a Venus-Saturn and Chiron-Venus person so it definitely takes me some time to be able to go NC-17. I have trust problems but they aren't obvious. Cancer Mars and Scorp Venus make me more sexual on the surface but I can be cold very easily... still, I do have a higher sex drive from Mars being in the 8th, and when I want to kiss and get in the moment of passion while I'm up for it I want it. But sometimes he doesn't and that hurts me so much, from the Cancer Mars thing.  It gets worse, because he has Scorpio Moon in the 4th house so he's EXTREMELY home oriented to begin with and then fixed/obsessive about it from the Scorp placement...he prefers doing most intimate things at home. Hates kissing in public and the car. He won't outright reject me but just seems not into it. I like sleepovers too, but I'm also into more adult interests like intellectual dates to museums and other unique places like dance halls and poetry readings, and he seems not to be. So this just irks me a little bit. I feel this part really goes more with close mindedness versus immaturity actually. But a little immaturity in a way since he can act too silly with sleepovers. I have a Virgo Moon so staying over at someone's house if I visit and end up there too late is a big faux pas to me for some reason. I don't want to invade their personal space and if I didn't pre-plan the whole thing and take a tooth brush and all that, it ain't gonna happen. IP: Logged |
C1ND3R Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 19, 2012 11:47 PM
I feel that way.. Yesterday i took my dog for a walk and had the urge to run and while, my keys flew out of my pocket and fell into the grass.. Wasn't long before the lights were turned off. I had to call my mom and told her about how i took the longest leak known to man in plain sight while i was there because all the bathroom's were locked up. She looked at me in disappoint. Then, she laughed. I had to break my deadbolted bedroom door down to get my car's spare.. I got the "responsibility" talk.. Today, i got the talk about paying for my own insurance.. Mind you, i don't have a "job". I'm not mature enough to wanna deal with any of those things but, i'm luckily old enough for vodka.  IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 867 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 19, 2012 11:55 PM
Not quite sure..I'd rather act immature when I am alone, watch cartoons early on a saturday morning eating breakfast. Dress like a kid on my days off from work etc.Generally I am a mature person I don't like the fact that I have to age and grow up but isn't that just a part of the whole being in your 20s phase. I don't do sleepovers, I really don't wanna see what anyone looks like in the morning, girl or guy. Sure we can hangout all night in the city until daybreak but I shall drag myself home to my own comfy bed. =P IP: Logged |
C1ND3R Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 19, 2012 11:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by ail221: Not quite sure..I'd rather act immature when I am alone, watch cartoons early on a saturday morning eating breakfast. Dress like a kid on my days off from work etc.Generally I am a mature person I don't like the fact that I have to age and grow up but isn't that just a part of the whole being in your 20s phase. I don't do sleepovers, I really don't wanna see what anyone looks like in the morning, girl or guy. Sure we can hangout all night in the city until daybreak but I shall drag myself home to my own comfy bed. =P
Ditto! I've been doing lots of sleepovers but i'm luckily one of those that looks exactly the same way as i did the night before.. It helps that i keep my clothes on just as they were, too! I hate, hate, hate being in pj's or anything ordinary.. Last sleepover i had was at someone's house and it did my ego in a bit because i did not have a change of clothes so i did not bathe for about two days! IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 867 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 20, 2012 12:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by C1ND3R: Ditto! I've been doing lots of sleepovers but i'm luckily one of those that looks exactly the same way as i did the night before.. It helps that i keep my clothes on just as they were, too! I hate, hate, hate being in pj's or anything ordinary.. Last sleepover i had was at someone's house and it did my ego in a bit because i did not have a change of clothes so i did not bathe for about two days!
ROFL that last time I did a sleepover it was Prom night and it was only because I had brought everything I needed both clothing wise and food wise. I also hate PJS I like the cool breeze LOL IP: Logged |
C1ND3R Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 20, 2012 05:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by ail221: ROFL that last time I did a sleepover it was Prom night and it was only because I had brought everything I needed both clothing wise and food wise. I also hate PJS I like the cool breeze LOL
All we needed was a bonfire because i seriously felt that i smelled of camp. IP: Logged |
ShadowLeo Knowflake Posts: 89 From: IL, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 20, 2012 07:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by peachbeigeblue: Ahhh, that's right. We re astro twins. I wonder if we look similar!
Nope, not at all. I've seen your pictures on the other thread (the one with pics & charts). You're beautiful, I'm this stereotypical witch/Romani fortune teller looking little thing, LOL. I have Uranus conjunct Asc and this pretty much changes my appearance, I guess. I'll post my chart and stuff... IP: Logged |
bambam Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted August 20, 2012 10:43 PM
I've read somewhere that planets in the 12th conjunct the ascendant give somewhat of an immature energy to the individual. These planets apparently have much potential for mastery and maturity though.IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 536 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 20, 2012 10:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by bambam: I've read somewhere that planets in the 12th conjunct the ascendant give somewhat of an immature energy to the individual. These planets apparently have much potential for mastery and maturity though.
Venus in Pisces in the 12th conjunct asc. Never been called immature... but I love to have a gooooood time! lol  IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 867 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 21, 2012 12:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by C1ND3R: All we needed was a bonfire because i seriously felt that i smelled of camp.
ROFL Well awkwardness is a part of all sleepovers IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 1715 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 21, 2012 05:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by ShadowLeo: Nope, not at all. I've seen your pictures on the other thread (the one with pics & charts). You're beautiful, I'm this stereotypical witch/Romani fortune teller looking little thing, LOL. I have Uranus conjunct Asc and this pretty much changes my appearance, I guess. I'll post my chart and stuff...
Awww thank you! You're very pretty too. You do look like a fortune teller! But maybe that's bc the tarot cards pictured. There was a girl with our big 3 on personal readings before who looked like a combo of us. I was born with blonde hair and it gradually got darker. By middle school I started lightening and then eventually dyed it shades of red and black. I actually had black hair for a good length of time. Now my hair is very dark but I get it highlighted dark blonde. It's interesting I'm the only one of the 3 of us who colors their hair light. Most of high school and a little after I looked much more like a Scorpio/Scorpio rising. Well sometimes, I'd pretty much alternate from platinum to black. I think once I've gotten older I might have identified more with my Taurus moon or something? Because over the past 4 years I haven't really changed anything up and intend to appear softer and more innocent than I naturally would. I don't know where that is in the birth chart but I seem to want to tone down and repress my Scorpio. Possibly because my chart ruler is in the 12th? Let me know if you can relate. IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 2843 From: The Capitol Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 21, 2012 05:28 PM
I think immaturity would come from Fire. Ever youthful, full of life and vigour, but that's not saying that they can't be mature! Emotional maturity, in your case, could come from Scorpio, as Scorpio is a nuclear fission reactor with lotsa power stored deep down...you just gotta know how to use it, which I'm sure you know!  IP: Logged |
lindaGreg Knowflake Posts: 483 From: Bermuda Triangle Registered: Feb 2010
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posted August 21, 2012 07:47 PM
Aries = immaturityIP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 3925 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 21, 2012 07:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by RedScorp: I think immaturity would come from Fire. Ever youthful, full of life and vigour, but that's not saying that they can't be mature! Emotional maturity, in your case, could come from Scorpio, as Scorpio is a nuclear fission reactor with lotsa power stored deep down...you just gotta know how to use it, which I'm sure you know! 
I really think scorpios run the gamut from very mature to very immature.
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sand Knowflake Posts: 5311 From: 14.5530° N, 121.0199° E Registered: May 2011
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posted August 21, 2012 08:07 PM
i look fantastic in the mornings. scorpio rising, taurus sun, leo moon. IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 2843 From: The Capitol Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 21, 2012 08:08 PM
^Which is an accurate observation. Scorpio can run from worst to best on so many fronts.  IP: Logged |
Capricorn Sun Knowflake Posts: 274 From: Planet Saturn Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 21, 2012 08:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by sand: i look fantastic in the mornings. scorpio rising, taurus sun, leo moon.
Just keep bragging about it buddy. Next you'll be the poster guy for Scorpios. ------------------ ~Sunny~ IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 867 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 21, 2012 08:20 PM
How did this become a how I look in the morning thread? Rofl
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ShadowLeo Knowflake Posts: 89 From: IL, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 21, 2012 08:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by peachbeigeblue: Awww thank you! You're very pretty too. You do look like a fortune teller! But maybe that's bc the tarot cards pictured. There was a girl with our big 3 on personal readings before who looked like a combo of us. I was born with blonde hair and it gradually got darker. By middle school I started lightening and then eventually dyed it shades of red and black. I actually had black hair for a good length of time. Now my hair is very dark but I get it highlighted dark blonde. It's interesting I'm the only one of the 3 of us who colors their hair light. Most of high school and a little after I looked much more like a Scorpio/Scorpio rising. Well sometimes, I'd pretty much alternate from platinum to black. I think once I've gotten older I might have identified more with my Taurus moon or something? Because over the past 4 years I haven't really changed anything up and intend to appear softer and more innocent than I naturally would. I don't know where that is in the birth chart but I seem to want to tone down and repress my Scorpio. Possibly because my chart ruler is in the 12th? Let me know if you can relate.
If your chart ruler is in the 12th, that would it explain why you're trying to hide it (Pluto or Mars, though?). I dye my hair black, its natural color is the one from the upper middle photo (a very dark... something, LOL). I was a blonde only once, for like 2 weeks, hehehe. My skin is really fair, but yellowish, and my eyes looked yellow-green (they're normally hazel) when I was a blonde, so I looked really faded, I hated it. Personality wise... Right now, being married and having kids, I'm expressing the Leo part of me the best (meaning I'm the lord and master of my domain, LOL). Back when I was a teen, I was very true to my Scorpio Asc. As far as my Moon goes... I don't know... It's at 29 degrees 56 minutes Taurus and, although I'm mostly true to it, I have a lot of Moon in Gemini moments too, LOL. IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 2843 From: The Capitol Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 21, 2012 08:31 PM
quote: i look fantastic in the mornings.
I look horrible in the mornings omg I'm always in dire need of a hot, refreshing shower to become glowing and nice again.  IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 1715 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 21, 2012 09:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by RedScorp: I look horrible in the mornings omg I'm always in dire need of a hot, refreshing shower to become glowing and nice again. 
I have some good mornings. As well as some where I look like water trash. I'm sure to vocally express to anyone who will listen which of those it is when. Awwwww I miss having a boyfriend. I would always tell him when I looked like water trash IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 1715 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 21, 2012 10:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by ShadowLeo: If your chart ruler is in the 12th, that would it explain why you're trying to hide it (Pluto or Mars, though?). I dye my hair black, its natural color is the one from the upper middle photo (a very dark... something, LOL). I was a blonde only once, for like 2 weeks, hehehe. My skin is really fair, but yellowish, and my eyes looked yellow-green (they're normally hazel) when I was a blonde, so I looked really faded, I hated it. Personality wise... Right now, being married and having kids, I'm expressing the Leo part of me the best (meaning I'm the lord and master of my domain, LOL). Back when I was a teen, I was very true to my Scorpio Asc. As far as my Moon goes... I don't know... It's at 29 degrees 56 minutes Taurus and, although I'm mostly true to it, I have a lot of Moon in Gemini moments too, LOL.
Yes it totally makes sense. My moon is part of my tsquare and conjunct my dsc by like 20 minutes so Ive read that any planets that touch an angle would affect how you look. Taurus is conjunct my DC, Pluto conjunct my AC by 3 degrees and my sun has a loose conjunction by 9 degrees to my MC. Ahhh you're married and have kids? I cant wait to be in your spot. What is your husbands big 3? I am so interested to see what someone with my big 3 settled down with
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 3925 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 21, 2012 10:03 PM
I always feel yucky when I wake up in the morning, I don't see how some people get away with only showering at night and still look decent in the morning.
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sand Knowflake Posts: 5311 From: 14.5530° N, 121.0199° E Registered: May 2011
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posted August 21, 2012 10:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by Capricorn Sun: Just keep bragging about it buddy. Next you'll be the poster guy for Scorpios.
i just said i was a taurus! i cannot imagine in any way how a sun in scorpio would act/ feel/ think. but yes when i wake up it's like an drive thru car wash and my hair automatically parts and my torso is delish in the mornings.  IP: Logged |