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bullseye
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posted August 19, 2012 12:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bullseye     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So I've heard conflicting statements, that some aqua sun cap mooners are forward but will lose interest after they get what they want, while some are very cautious when feelings are involved.

I just recently saw the guy I like after a few months of buildup while he was out of the country. We got together and when I said goodbye we went our separate ways. I thanked him through text and he replied that he wanted to hang out more if I wanted to, despite us having friends we both had plans to see that night. He ended up coming over and we cuddled and he kissed me but nothing serious happened. He said really reassuring things but the skeptic in me almost feels like any guy would if they're in that situation, it's almost obligatory...right?

He kissed me goodbye the be t day and we made plans for when he's back in a month. He left, texted me thank you, and we spoke throughout the day. Since then though he hasn't said anything. We never spoke on a daily basis because what he does is pretty social and he doesn't communicate that often, but a simple text is very easy to send so I'm confused. Do Aquas lose interest right away? He didn't get much but he got to sleep over and maybe the cap in him (very strong cap influence in his chart) didn't respect that? I feel somewhat slighted but I know that caps think just as much as a Taurus soni also don't want to leave it alone and have him feel like I don't admire him.

I'm terribly confused.

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Capricorn Sun
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posted August 19, 2012 12:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capricorn Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Perhaps he's like me, sends a text, gets distracted by something else and forgets to respond. Or maybe he's like my idiot friend, will answer one and answer again days later cuz he's beyond A.D.D., OR he's like my brother, cant text at all or only for so long and the texting annoys him. Can you call him?

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bullseye
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posted August 19, 2012 01:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bullseye     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He's with people most of the time, I wouldn't want to call him because that makes the vulnerability phone in me catch on fire, and I think it would seem a little forward. It's been three days so it's not too long, but aqua sun/cap moon and a mars in sag make me realize that I probably lost this one. They're known for losing interest quickly. I guess the Taurus aspect if my personality makes me resent myself for liking him and I'm just looking for justification when it's pretty obvious that he's not thinking about me.

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Capricorn Sun
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posted August 19, 2012 01:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capricorn Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm Miss Optimistic. Many, many times when it seems like there is no interest because of what WE want, doesn't always mean its true. There are very many probables in the equation. The obvious seems since they ain't "on" it like we are or want them to be, doesn't mean they are not in the thought process of it. Like my friend above, he's a good guy and he does care about people, he just totally gets consumed for so many days and then when he has time he commits. He wants to make sure he isn't dead tired or sounding stupid. The guy could just wait until a good time. Give it some time. Don't rush things. Patience is a Virtue.

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bullseye
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posted August 19, 2012 05:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bullseye     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah I know you're right, I just tend to take things really personally. I assume so I don't have to hear the truth I guess.

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ail221
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posted August 19, 2012 05:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Capricorn Sun:
I'm Miss Optimistic. Many, many times when it seems like there is no interest because of what WE want, doesn't always mean its true. There are very many probables in the equation. The obvious seems since they ain't "on" it like we are or want them to be, doesn't mean they are not in the thought process of it. Like my friend above, he's a good guy and he does care about people, he just totally gets consumed for so many days and then when he has time he commits. He wants to make sure he isn't dead tired or sounding stupid. The guy could just wait until a good time. Give it some time. Don't rush things. Patience is a Virtue.


Yup^ Don't give into the Mars in Sag stereotypes. First examine his Sun/Moon combo:
11-10 Aquarius/Capricorn
The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign produces a positive and authoritative personality; a very solid and practical individual with individualistic qualities. The Aquarius side of this nature brings originality and independence, but this is tempered by the conservatism, deep ambition and caution of Capricorn. Your calm persistence, deep determination and talent for cold calculation or prudent thinking assure sound judgment and realistic evaluation of conditions or situations. You know your course in life and you are not one to be diverted by emotional factors. Restless at times, you need to keep busy in your profession, business or public life. You have a powerful sense of responsibility and deep seriousness to your nature. Business responsibilities may be heavy. You have great inner sources that enhance your personality. This is a combination that shows the talent to cope with large enterprises and for handling large numbers of people. You have strong, deeply rooted convictions and ideals, and you conduct your business with a strict code of ethics. You are a natural executive with humanitarian leanings, as you combine friendliness and fair play with your strict business principles. You strive more for power and authority than for wealth and material success.

If He's working let him work, when it comes to work usually when this combo is focused their focused. Aside from a family death or birth of a child there gonna stay focused on their work related responsibilities just chill, technically your not in a relationship yet if you haven't come to that verbal agreement yet.

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Capricorn Sun
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posted August 19, 2012 06:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capricorn Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Alleluia! lol I sure hope y'all are way more patient then me!

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