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Topic: Advice needed
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starmoon
Knowflake Posts: 184
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted August 19, 2012 03:01 PM
  
Ok, so my bf of 15 months and I have good synastry (venus c mars, venus c pluto/sun/uranus), and some other interesting contacts (like venus c neptune and pluto c moon), but none of the typically BIG ONES like sun/moon, sun/mars, mars/moon, etc. and we don't share any planets in common. the relationship is happy but not GREAT. so, along comes a female into the picture and after running her chart, she and my bf have TONS of synastry, like moon/venus, sun/moon, moon/mars, and planets falling in the 1st, 5th, 7th and 8th houses. When you can see the better synastry (on paper) between your partner and someone else, should you step aside and end the relationship??? Wouldn't that be putting faith in astrology and it's magic? They are, as of now, just co-worker friendly, but I see a big interest from him (not her) despite an 18 year age gap, and they have an emotional connection that comes easily - one he and I have to work at.IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 4009
From: Surfing Kite. Seriously.
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted August 19, 2012 03:08 PM
Wouldn't end it. Real life has to back up that possibility.however,what you mention is interesting... And that gap! IP: Logged |
redshift
Knowflake Posts: 187
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted August 19, 2012 03:39 PM
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Originally posted by starmoon:
Ok, so my bf of 15 months and I have good synastry (venus c mars, venus c pluto/sun/uranus), and some other interesting contacts (like venus c neptune and pluto c moon), but none of the typically BIG ONES like sun/moon, sun/mars, mars/moon, etc. and we don't share any planets in common. the relationship is happy but not GREAT. so, along comes a female into the picture and after running her chart, she and my bf have TONS of synastry, like moon/venus, sun/moon, moon/mars, and planets falling in the 1st, 5th, 7th and 8th houses. When you can see the better synastry (on paper) between your partner and someone else, should you step aside and end the relationship??? Wouldn't that be putting faith in astrology and it's magic? They are, as of now, just co-worker friendly, but I see a big interest from him (not her) despite an 18 year age gap, and they have an emotional connection that comes easily - one he and I have to work at.
Astrology can give you insight, but not straight answers about how other people feel. However, you can get more clear about how you feel yourself. Do YOU want to be with your BF? Has he asked for permission to explore other relationships? Would you like to do that? Are you looking for a reason to let him go? I think maybe this is one of those times to look away from their charts and look within for some answers. What do you think? IP: Logged |
Capricorn Sun
Knowflake Posts: 193
From: Planet Saturn
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 19, 2012 10:37 PM
If you have to ask if you should end the relatio and hand it over to another, you already answered your own question.  ------------------
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Dreaming111
Knowflake Posts: 631
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted August 20, 2012 12:59 AM
See what happens in real life without astrology. If in your stomach you feel like something isn't sitting right or something is up, communicate it. If you still don't feel right, step back, observe, analyze and then finally decide. IP: Logged |
popcorn
Knowflake Posts: 2975
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Registered: Aug 2009
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posted August 20, 2012 02:53 AM
Starmoon. Dont look at the chart. Its not always meant to be love. The good synastry could also be a good friendship. Talk to him instead and figure out how he is as person. Maybe he is a man who has many female friends. I cant think he is a man who want have every new woman.IP: Logged | |
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