posted August 19, 2012 07:37 PM            

To me it would make sense, because people with 7th house planets want equal relationships, not equal in the status but more equal in that both people are just as much invested in it. But I am not really sure how it could manifest.

posted August 19, 2012 08:04 PM            

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Originally posted by ueharaa:
does his saturn make a hard aspect to some of his personal planets?

To me it would make sense, because people with 7th house planets want equal relationships, not equal in the status but more equal in that both people are just as much invested in it. But I am not really sure how it could manifest.

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Yes Saturn makes nasty hits with his personal planets.Sun,Venus,Mars,Mercury all squares his Saturn.

posted August 20, 2012 10:09 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
i have sun and venus in 7th and iv never felt that way..

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posted August 20, 2012 10:23 AM            

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Originally posted by ueharaa:
It's good to know that it might not come only from 7th house planets.
Do you have any 1st house planets making an opposition to your venus or sun?
I have noticed people with an opposition between a 1st house planet and a 7th house planet are less likely to lose themselves in a relationship.
This seems to be more difficult for those who only have 7th house planets and no 1st house planets. They invest a lot in their relationships. Not just romantic ones but friendships, family relationship and overall relationship with people.

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yes i do. pluto, mars and saturn in scorpio.

pluto and saturn oppose my venus.

posted August 20, 2012 10:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Yes, I give and give and get taken for granted. It's not really perception, it's just fact.

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I can relate It's not a nice feeling.

posted August 20, 2012 11:04 AM            

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Originally posted by ueharaa:
I can relate It's not a nice feeling.

Which planet do you have in your 7th? Do you have any 1st house planets?

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posted August 20, 2012 11:06 AM            

I'm not sure how I feel about being under-appreciated or effort not reciprocated. Somewhat ambivalent. I sure put a lot of effort into relationships.

posted August 24, 2012 07:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Sun, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter. No 1st-house planets.

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You have a huge 7th house stellium, that has mainly personal planets furthermore.

Do you find this to be true?

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7th HOUSE: Individuals with a 7th House stellium as the least likely to marry or stay married. So many energies come out in a relationship that they feel swallowed up by other people in close relationships. They are often loners or they suddenly end relationships to break the relationship obsession. Libran traits manifest in relationships, specifically indecision when dealing with others. It is excellent for work in counseling or consultant occupations. These de-personalize the one-on-one relationships. The many planets in the 7th can describe many types of clients with whom the individual would deal. This is excellent for a lawyer, arbitrator, psychologist and business consultant.

I have observed this stellium firsthand. The individual complains that the relationships takes up so much of their energy that they lose their own identity. It is easier to be a loner. However, upon closer inspection, I observed that, when involved in a relationship, the individual obsesses upon that relationship to the point wherein he or she loses perspective, becoming oblivious to anyone or anything else.

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posted August 24, 2012 07:09 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I have Pluto and Uranus together in the 7th House in Virgo, and I have those Opposite my Chiron in the 1st House. There are multiple harsh and easy aspects to my 7th House planets.

I'm not sure how I feel about being under-appreciated or effort not reciprocated. Somewhat ambivalent. I sure put a lot of effort into relationships.

My marriage Composite chart is 7th House heavy, with Venus, Neptune, Mercury in Scorpio, and Sun and Mars in the 6th House on the border of the 7th House, also in Scorpio.

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posted August 24, 2012 07:28 AM            

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Originally posted by ueharaa:
7th house planets in a composite are fantastic. It emphasizes the feeling of being a team, and just feeling right. I have found that the 7th house planets in a composite are usually a key component in the relationship.

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And that's my perception as well.

However, I perpetually also have to deal with a bunch of stereotypical nonsense. One example is Uranus being in the 7th House. I've been reminded again and again that it is a divorce prone indication. One individual said that she is an expert so divorce is going to happen. It is maddening.

posted August 24, 2012 07:39 AM            

And your composite looks really great, with this 7th house stellium in scorpio and the sun near the descendant.

posted August 24, 2012 10:05 AM            

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Originally posted by ueharaa:
I think the whole chart should be taken into consideration. One placement alone doesn't necessarily imply that "this" will happen.
And you may have uranus in the 7th which gets interpreted as either lots of disruption in one's relationships or being attracted to unusual partners, out of the ordinary partnerships, but you also have pluto, which tends to make me think that you don't take relationships lightly.

And your composite looks really great, with this 7th house stellium in scorpio and the sun near the descendant.

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