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Topic: do cancer moons do this alot?
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aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 21, 2012 11:53 PM
  
my cancer moon friend has a tendency to think of his ex girlfriend randomly and get drunk and emotional and cry, even though they have been broken up for 3 years. it always seems like he is finally over her and he will break down and text her and she ends up making him cry, is this kind of behavior typical for cancer moons?IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
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posted August 21, 2012 11:57 PM
It must be an off & on relationship  IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
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From: Silent Hill
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posted August 21, 2012 11:58 PM
Yes. I have a Cancer moon girl friend that could not get over her ex. It did not help that they went to the same school, and shared classes. But every time she would see him (and he didn't make it easy because he would cling to her - she had more friends than him) She would have these wild outbursts, tears and cursing, and start re-living the past. We tried to be understanding at first...but my Aries sun Taurus moon friend got irritated with it because she would do this every time.And she has difficulty cutting contact with toxic people. IP: Logged |
violet7887
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From: maya
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 21, 2012 11:58 PM
well...i am only answering this on the basis that i am one my self and maybe he has something in common with me...when we truly love someone...we never get over it, the love always remains as some form of our emotion...and yes, when it is really that bad...we like to look for excuses to get it out of our system...how long that takes...god only knows.. IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 21, 2012 11:59 PM
When we truly love someone, It's hard for us to let go. Our attachment roots go very very deep and far  for cancer moons. Time and distance changes very little for us in terms of feelings of affection and such. Our hearts just grows fonder and we keep memories alive in our hearts. We just hold on (cling) we can't help it IP: Logged |
violet7887
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From: maya
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posted August 22, 2012 12:01 AM
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aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 22, 2012 12:02 AM
[QOTE]Originally posted by ariesdragon:
It must be an off & on relationship [/QUOTE]no they broke up 3 years ago, the whole situation is effed up because he dumped her because she made him miserable and now he cries about her moving on, its like wtf. she is now married and has a kid and lives halfway across the country,I wish he would get over it. IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
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posted August 22, 2012 12:16 AM
Wow really? Ya that's pretty harsh... He must've really loved her & never got over it violet lol  cheers Bam!IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 22, 2012 12:26 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QOTE]Originally posted by ariesdragon:
[b]It must be an off & on relationship
no they broke up 3 years ago, the whole situation is effed up because he dumped her because she made him miserable and now he cries about her moving on, its like wtf. she is now married and has a kid and lives halfway across the country,I wish he would get over it.[/B][/QUOTE] Regrets have the worst effects on cancer moons IP: Logged |
sand
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posted August 22, 2012 12:27 AM
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
cheers Bam!
i can't find any info on silent bam! redscorp must be drinking bootleg vodka! ..or it really is silent! IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted August 22, 2012 12:37 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
my cancer moon friend has a tendency to think of his ex girlfriend randomly and get drunk and emotional and cry, even though they have been broken up for 3 years. it always seems like he is finally over her and he will break down and text her and she ends up making him cry, is this kind of behavior typical for cancer moons?
I noticed water sign moons like those kind of escapism tendencies (or not "like" rather but fall into) easier than other moon signs. But yes, Cancer moons can be extremely nostalgic and they cling to things forever. (Cue some cancer moon opposing everything I just said.) IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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From: GMT-5
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posted August 22, 2012 12:50 AM
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And she has difficulty cutting contact with toxic people.
I like that term. Toxic people...how is someone toxic? They have a largely negative influence on your life? I wanna be labelled a toxic person, that way I can more intimidating than usual and people will stick away from me!  I'm good at drawing people in when I want to...but I don't particularly like people seeking me out, lol! quote:
i can't find any info on silent bam! redscorp must be drinking bootleg vodka! ..or it really is silent!
LMAO I'm so frickin done with sand IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 22, 2012 12:57 AM
@redscorp, bathe yourself in atomic sludge! problem solved or you could tell people you have aids.IP: Logged |
Lava Flower
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posted August 22, 2012 01:04 AM
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Originally posted by Junethird:
When we truly love someone, It's hard for us to let go. Our attachment roots go very very deep and far for cancer moons. Time and distance changes very little for us in terms of feelings of affection and such. Our hearts just grows fonder and we keep memories alive in our hearts. We just hold on (cling) we can't help it
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Originally posted by Junethird:
Regrets have the worst effects on cancer moons
That's so sad about your friends situation. Its nice of you for being so patient with him I personally would have either gotten over it, or shut up about it by now. Sounds pretty heavy. IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted August 22, 2012 01:05 AM
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or you could tell people you have aids.
oh ym f UCK I WANT THEM TO FEAR ME not think I'm dirty HAHA... IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
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posted August 22, 2012 01:24 AM
hey at least it's not moonshine lmaoIP: Logged |
sexyaqua30
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Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 22, 2012 03:46 AM
Yes they do. My cancer sun/moon ex still does this and it's been 8 years since we broke up and 204 miles between us. He still apologizes for how he treated me and says I'm the one whom he missed out on and that he wishes his son was mine. I still care for him as a friend but my feelings have long since changed. He hates that I'm in a relationship and have two kids that are not his and he's admitted that he secretly checks out my fb page all the time to see how life is treating me. I have no problem with it because he's harmless. And yes.....he LOVES to drink.IP: Logged |
AscTaurus
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From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa
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posted August 22, 2012 04:39 AM
This reminds me of George Michael; who used to pine over his deceased lover in his songs(Cancer sun)Or Bill Cosby; who pines over "the good old days" in his warnings of doom and gloom for the youngsters(especially those of African American descent). Also a Cancer sun. Its no wonder Cancer/4th house rules old age as it is an extremely nostalgic energy. Thing is,the memory is very selctive; we remember the extremes and never really the mundane(bad or good). Being a Moon in Cancer, I tend to be nostalgic myself about relationships(but not to the point of crying. I cry for world related issues and not relationships: Sagittarius Sun)But that is because we tend to be over sentimental of a lost opportunity or "what was", rather than embracing the alternative; what is here and now-because it is so unfamiliar. In a way, I also used to LOVE the emotional drama that past relationships afforded me and so, playing them back again and again in my mind, made me feel emotionaly vibrant: Like I connected with someone. Its an emotional DRUG that can only be stopped when a question is asked:" What if I am missing out on making an even better emotional connection with someone right now?" . What about now? Its not that past relationships in my case were that spectacular(that is why they didn't work out. Duh) But its just that they provide some sort of weird emotional drug /a twisted reference of the depth of feeling that is possible within myself. They have very little to do with the other person actualy. IP: Logged |
awakemer
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From: sherman oaks, ca,USA
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 22, 2012 03:20 PM
my cancer moon ex is still not over me after umm 4 or so years.. he has another ex too before me.. NOT OVER.. he is in love with both of us.. he cannot get over us. THEY are loyal to a fault... i dunno it bothered me while i was with him that he still loved his ex and that prevented me from wanting to take things further. I need to be the only one.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 22, 2012 03:45 PM
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Originally posted by awakemer:
my cancer moon ex is still not over me after umm 4 or so years.. he has another ex too before me.. NOT OVER.. he is in love with both of us.. he cannot get over us. THEY are loyal to a fault... i dunno it bothered me while i was with him that he still loved his ex and that prevented me from wanting to takethat things further. I need to be the only one.
that sounds just like my friend! haha IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 22, 2012 03:47 PM
I am a Cancer Moon.I cry easily but I don't mind. I have a tender heart  ------------------
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VenusDiSirius
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From: Surfing Kite. Seriously.
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted August 22, 2012 03:53 PM
They hold onto past emotions,for the sake of keeping them,as if they are relics. They treasure everything.I have seen drunk texting and singing,yeah... to impossibly old relationships.No crying,though. God forbid if the past love is TEEN love. In those instances they can make complete fools out of themselves. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted August 22, 2012 06:42 PM
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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
Being a Moon in Cancer, I tend to be nostalgic myself about relationships(but not to the point of crying. I cry for world related issues and not relationships: Sagittarius Sun)But that is because we tend to be over sentimental of a lost opportunity or "what was", rather than embracing the alternative; what is here and now-because it is so unfamiliar.In a way, I also used to LOVE the emotional drama that past relationships afforded me and so, playing them back again and again in my mind, made me feel emotionaly vibrant: Like I connected with someone. Its an emotional DRUG that can only be stopped when a question is asked:" What if I am missing out on making an even better emotional connection with someone right now?" . What about now? Its not that past relationships in my case were that spectacular(that is why they didn't work out. Duh) But its just that they provide some sort of weird emotional drug /a twisted reference of the depth of feeling that is possible within myself. They have very little to do with the other person actualy.
Wow, that is so like me.
What does your Moon do? house, aspects?
I don't have a Cancer Moon but IC in Cancer and well, I can relate to you guys a lot.
I can't let go of people I once cared about to the point where it gets ridiculous. Drama.. yeah I cannot deny the fact that I almost feel the *need* to have it in my life. When things are too stable/settled I get bored and restless. I need emotional rollercoasters to feel alive, but it kinda sucks cause when I get it, I want it to stop. Oh God, I sound like an immature kid. Terrible.
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AscTaurus
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From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa
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posted August 23, 2012 02:12 AM
Doux Rêve
My Moon is in the 3rd house. It makes aspects to Mars(tight square) in the 6th Aspects to Mercury(tight opposition) in the 9th Aspects to Venus(exact trine) in 7th. Aspects to Saturn(close trine) in the 7th too. It also makes a relaxed(7 degree orb) sextile with the Ascendant.
I can see the mercury opposition manifests in my communication style. I always wonder, after talking, if I covered all the bases(mercury in 9th).I tend to ramble a lot.Lol
I also see the Mars square manifestation in my communication style by focusing on whether what I have said was communicated clearly/efficiently enough. This aspects "edits" the rambling obsessively. So, on the other hand, I wonder if I've said too much.lol Mercury also forms a tight square with Mars: I just can't wait to let other people know of my opinion and force it down their throats.lmfao. IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty
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From: Always Sunshine here :heart:
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 23, 2012 02:40 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
my cancer moon friend has a tendency to think of his ex- randomly
For me , only this sentences is true !
I have cancer moon , water mars and mecury  IP: Logged |
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