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Topic: Importance of Looks - Venus
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C1ND3R Knowflake Posts: 189 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 28, 2012 08:10 PM
How important are looks to you?The topic has been discussed verbatim, i know.. I'm just having behavioral issues with my dog. He's new, so we're still getting the hang of things.. I would've done away with him so long ago but just now he upset me and i looked at him and thought: "he's a good looking dog.." I guess improvement is what i should focus on, not "fixing".. Had he been a not so cute dog, i would've been singing a different tune, though. Moon conjunct Venus, here. The dog thing is an example but i just realized that the textbook interp of moon/venus people liking aesthetically pleasing things around them almost at all times is blatantly.. well, true. How important are looks to you and what are the aspects and placement of your Venus? Your Moon? I recall now a short friendship that i had with someone primarily just because they were attractive and we looked good together... It's safe to say i'd even overlook certain things for that added benefit which satisfies both my moon AND venus. IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 561 From: En Cee Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 28, 2012 08:15 PM
Not at all.Moon in Aries, Leo Venus (Not aspecting whatsoever) Moon is afflicted by Sun, and Venus is afflicted by Saturn and Pluto, though. A lot of people have told me that my friends/family are better looking than I am. This is something I would never dream of telling someone or even noticing. I think people put too much importance into how a person appears, but eh that is human nature, you can't fight it as it is what it is. My 8th house placements can't settle for superficiality. I am not a judgmental person by appearance anyway, I am far more picky when it comes to behavior. I tend to accept people. IP: Logged |
C1ND3R Knowflake Posts: 189 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 28, 2012 08:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow: Not at all.Moon in Aries, Leo Venus (Not aspecting whatsoever) A lot of people have told me that my friends/family are better looking than I am. I think people put too much importance into how a person appears, but eh that is human nature, you can't fight it as it is what it is. I am not a judgmental person by appearance anyway, I am far more picky when it comes to behavior. I tend to accept people.
What are the aspects? My moon and venus don't really make lots of other aspects to anything other than each other.. Where does the "lazy" come in? Are you a libra? lol jk
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virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 450 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 28, 2012 08:18 PM
I try my best not to be.. but I'm really shallow. I don't say it out loud but in my mind I notice myself being that way. I try to control myself. I hate that I'm admitting this lolVenus in Libra sq Neptune,Uranus tr Saturn Moon Cap tr Jupiter IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 1167 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted August 28, 2012 08:23 PM
Venus in Taurus...I like pretty things. I won't put up with bad behavior, or rough treatment, nonetheless I won't compromise on the pretty - earthy pretty not Libra fluff.IP: Logged |
awakemer Knowflake Posts: 556 From: sherman oaks, ca,USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 28, 2012 08:24 PM
my looks are important my partners not so much. I have learned growing up that my beauty is my value.. and nothing else so its hard to get out of my system.. I do like beautiful things and feel very unpleasant if i'm in a unattractive surrounding. I have venus in virgo. conjuncts mercury, squares mars and jupiter and trines my ASC. i have moon in leo. squaring jupiter. I can have a crush on a guy who is not good looking and not care. IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 561 From: En Cee Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 28, 2012 08:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by C1ND3R: What are the aspects? My moon and venus don't really make lots of other aspects to anything other than each other.. Where does the "lazy" come in? Are you a libra? lol jk
I edited my post to add the rest of the stuff, but my Venus is in the 8th squared by 12th Pluto and opposite Saturn in the 2nd. My Moon is in the 5th squared by my 8th house Sun.My 8th house placement are another reason why I can't accept surface appearances. If there's no substance then I am just indifferent, no matter how good it looks. This applies to people, art, anything almost. Only thing I am superficial about is my environment. If it is ugly, I get in a negative mood. I think Uranus and Neptune squares can lead to superficiality, since Uranus just wants to shock and be different, and Neptune while it can represent beauty and art, it can also be illusion. Smoke and mirrors and such. Also, I have no Libra anywhere in my chart, lmao. I am just really fixed and slow...hence Lazy scarecrow lol IP: Logged |
C1ND3R Knowflake Posts: 189 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 28, 2012 08:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by virgolotus: I try my best not to be.. but I'm really shallow. I don't say it out loud but in my mind I notice myself being that way. I try to control myself. I hate that I'm admitting this lolVenus in Libra sq Neptune,Uranus tr Saturn Moon Cap tr Jupiter
LOL!! how come!? I love your honesty right now! IP: Logged |
C1ND3R Knowflake Posts: 189 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 28, 2012 08:28 PM
quote:
I edited my post to add the rest of the stuff, but my Venus is in the 8th squared by 12th Pluto and opposite Saturn in the 2nd. My Moon is in the 5th squared by my 8th house Sun.My 8th house placement are another reason why I can't accept surface appearances. If there's no substance then I am just indifferent, no matter how good it looks. This applies to people, art, anything almost. Only thing I am superficial about is my environment. If it is ugly, I get in a negative mood. I think Uranus and Neptune squares can lead to superficiality, since Uranus just wants to shock and be different, and Neptune while it can represent beauty and art, it can also be illusion. Smoke and mirrors and such. Also, I have no Libra anywhere in my chart, lmao. I am just really fixed and slow...hence Lazy scarecrow lol[/B]
Lol! I love the name and the reason behind it. I think the square to pluto is what makes it one not to be so concerned with the outer stuff.. You could square your statement by infinity with the aspect to s-a-t-u-r-n
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 35840 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 28, 2012 08:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by virgolotus: I try my best not to be.. but I'm really shallow. I don't say it out loud but in my mind I notice myself being that way. I try to control myself. I hate that I'm admitting this lolVenus in Libra sq Neptune,Uranus tr Saturn Moon Cap tr Jupiter
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C1ND3R Knowflake Posts: 189 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 28, 2012 08:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by awakemer: my looks are important my partners not so much. I have learned growing up that my beauty is my value.. and nothing else so its hard to get out of my system.. I do like beautiful things and feel very unpleasant if i'm in a unattractive surrounding. I have venus in virgo. conjuncts mercury, squares mars and jupiter and trines my ASC. i have moon in leo. squaring jupiter. I can have a crush on a guy who is not good looking and not care.
Not care about the guy or the crush? I read that venus in virgo is more selective than most yet, very simple. IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 1031 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 28, 2012 08:35 PM
Venus in Gemini I like symmetry on faces. Venus semi-sextile Sun, Venus opposite Uranus, Venus semi-square Pluto, I like slightly androgynous beauty on men; feminine and masculine features. IP: Logged |
virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 450 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 28, 2012 08:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by C1ND3R: LOL!! how come!? I love your honesty right now!
I hate being superficial. Most of the time the thoughts and feelings just come across but I try to ignore them--and I do. I don't think I come across as that but I am on the inside. LOL I guess its my Virgo sun (I criticize and analyze) and Libra Venus (likes attractive things and superficiality). I just have to tell myself to stop. I think most people are like this though.. >.> IP: Logged |
C1ND3R Knowflake Posts: 189 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 28, 2012 08:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: Venus in Taurus...I like pretty things. I won't put up with bad behavior, or rough treatment, nonetheless I won't compromise on the pretty - earthy pretty not Libra fluff.
My hero. If only i could keep in mind that moon pleasing, thing... I've overlooked the bad behavior in the past to satisfy that venus. I wouldn't say that i'm shallow or particularly superficial... Just... enduring. I've endured a whooole lot in the past just for those things. I don't know exactly what to call it. I find my Venus sings this song a whole lot: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rJesM_gdD7c IP: Logged |
C1ND3R Knowflake Posts: 189 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 28, 2012 08:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by virgolotus: I hate being superficial. Most of the time the thoughts and feelings just come across but I try to ignore them--and I do. I don't think I come across as that but I am on the inside. LOL I guess its my Virgo sun (I criticize and analyze) and Libra Venus (likes attractive things and superficiality). I just have to tell myself to stop. I think most people are like this though.. >.>
I dunno.. Where's your north node? If the virgo critical thing is being turned inwards something may not be all the way right. Discrimination is virgo's gift but if it turns into being critical, too much energy is being left unfocused and so it gets turned inwards. I don't think you should beat yourself up for it.. Just find someone who gets that you like pretty things, that's attractive and buys you gifts. ya gotta work with what you've got.
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virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 450 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 28, 2012 08:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by C1ND3R: I dunno.. Where's your north node? If the virgo critical thing is being turned inwards something may not be all the way right. Discrimination is virgo's gift but if it turns into being critical, too much energy is being left unfocused and so it gets turned inwards.I don't think you should beat yourself up for it.. Just find someone who gets that you like pretty things, that's attractive and buys you gifts. ya gotta work with what you've got.
Sag NN I don't beat myself up for it I just dislike it. Working on it though hahahahaha IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4019 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 28, 2012 08:51 PM
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EmpressMendez Knowflake Posts: 851 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted August 28, 2012 08:53 PM
I like intelligence better (top of my list). Good looking + dumb = eww/turn off. next.Normal (could be "ugly" to some) + very intelligent = sexy, come to me ;P I remember in grade school the cutest guy in the school "in love" with me and I just didn't like him because he wasn't smart, lol! Venus in libra 8th house. Moon sq Venus, Venus sextile Uranus (bwaha, I'm a weirdo), Venus trine ascendant. Aqua rising soo yeahhhh... Venus sextile Uranus: "You find yourself attracted to partners who are quite different from the norm; the stranger the person, the more you like them." ...
"You’re playful and unorthodox. People from all walks of life call you their friend; your tolerance and interest in anything different gives you a great ability to talk to just about anyone, although people who are stupid or uncreative bore you." Yep! stupid people bore me Moon in Cancer 6th house. Sq pluto (8th house scorp) and Venus in 8th house Libra, trine Jupiter in 1st house Pisces, trine Saturn 9th house sag. IP: Logged |
Aeline Knowflake Posts: 390 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 28, 2012 08:56 PM
I like beautiful things and i like beautiful people. I know, it's not a good thing, but i've noticed that i tend to notice that first. I've even rejected men who asked me to dance just because i didn't like their looks. (blush) But that doesn't mean, however, that there are any beauty standards, no, just some kind of attraction which either is or is not present. Oh, fine, it's just my Libra Venus talking here. So - Libra Venus conjunct Sun in 2nd House, conjunct Mercury, sextile Moon, sextile Mars, sextile Jupiter, square Saturn, square Uranus, square Neptune, semisextile Pluto, semisextile ASC. Yeah, hugely aspected. Moon in Leo 11th or 12th house, conjunct Jupiter, sextile Venus, sextile Mars, quincunx Neptune, square Pluto.
P.S. But for sure, the looks are not enough! I also need intelect, loving and caring nature, and a soul connection. So that makes me really picky and therefore i struggle with that.
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Pure Knowflake Posts: 90 From: England Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 28, 2012 08:58 PM
I have Venus in Virgo.As awakemer said, my looks are important to me but nobody else's. I know that if I wasn't physically attractive the majority of people wouldn't bother with me. I don't care what my friends and romantic interests look like as long as long as they have charisma, take care of themselves, make an effort and have some social status. I'm extremely picky when it comes to personalities though. IP: Logged |
C1ND3R Knowflake Posts: 189 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 28, 2012 09:02 PM
You guys are all so wonderful!! IP: Logged |
awakemer Knowflake Posts: 556 From: sherman oaks, ca,USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 28, 2012 09:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by C1ND3R: Not care about the guy or the crush? I read that venus in virgo is more selective than most yet, very simple.
I will not date a very overweight person so an extend that is important? but if he is just ok looking i'm ok with that. IP: Logged |
L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 1293 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 28, 2012 09:15 PM
if thinggs aren't cool looking i can lose my enthusiasm. like school is so ugly looking especially the library its got ugly chairs! it makes me unhappy. as for people i'd be friends with an ugly person if they had a good personality and weren't dirty looking. but for me its more about my surroundings looking cool or picturesque that i worry about as opposed to people.moon in scorp Q retro venus in cap. i don't know if that means anything though lol and my venus is conj sun. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 3574 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted August 28, 2012 09:18 PM
I like them pretty. If I were to say otherwise, then I'll be full of sh1t. Venus in Aquarius in 12th. IP: Logged |
C1ND3R Knowflake Posts: 189 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 28, 2012 09:21 PM
I'm so glad you guys are participating and sharing in this discussion. I think it's wonderful to talk about this because i think it's taught that one shouldn't be superficial and i have no idea who made up that rule and i don't really want to know. I just as easily want to say that one shoudln't be intrusive? I think it is my life loving right to be downright materialistic and vain if i want to be and if i want to be superficial, so much the better! More so if it makes me happy and whomever else i care about happy along with me!That being said, i think you're all beautiful and think it's awesome that you opened up and shared about yourselves! => IP: Logged |