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Topic: Good Idea/Bad Idea
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Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1816 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 03, 2012 07:15 PM
I'm an Aquarius with a fixed stellium and I'm going on a date this week with a Taurus sun, Taurus moon, Venus in Cancer, Mars in Taurus journalist.Is this a very bad idea or can two super-fixed people actually work out? IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 1186 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted September 03, 2012 07:53 PM
Mars on Sun & Moon will add a little fire to his personality.However, it's hard to say at this point. My guess would be - hot in the short term, problematic long term. IP: Logged |
ShyVirgo1979 Knowflake Posts: 1176 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 03, 2012 08:21 PM
Well I'm thinking u should have a nice time. Taurus is a nice and easy going energy. I was married to a taurus for 8 yrs. Not only that but my 8 yr old son has a taurus moon and he's quite affectionate. Stable emotions. I don't have a lot of problems with him. However, if it should ever turn into a relationship or dating, he will prolly wanna possess u. That's the nature of taurus. I say go out on the date regardless of what astrology says. U should have a nice easy going time. IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 603 From: En Cee Registered: Aug 2011
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posted September 03, 2012 08:27 PM
Yup, it can work. I honestly think some of the best relationships are with a sign of the same mode (ex. Aqua/Taurus, Sag/Virgo, Aries/Cap) but of course everyone is different so therefore it doesn't apply to everyone...and of course same mode can be bad in other cases.I think you will appreciate the consistency of the Taurus being a fixed sign, unless he has some squares to Uranus in his chart. Then again you may find this okay too being an Aquarius. I think I read somewhere that you have 7th house placements, so you both are rather Venusian. That's a plus. The only slight problem area I see may be his Cancer Venus. Cancer and Aquarius energy is totally different, and with the combo of Taurus and Cancer, he could be a bit smothering or possessive. Other than that, I see nothing wrong. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1816 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 03, 2012 11:47 PM
Thanks everyone for your feedback I am looking forward to it. He seems rather brilliant. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1816 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 05, 2012 09:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: Mars on Sun & Moon will add a little fire to his personality.However, it's hard to say at this point. My guess would be - hot in the short term, problematic long term.
This is definitely true. He was a chatty Cathy! We talked for four hours straight. It was the best first date I've been on in years (well, having said that, I haven't been on a first date in years .) He definitely dresses like an earth sign, though.
I'm going to a film festival screening with him on Saturday night. There are other guys (some of whom are conventionally more attractive) asking me out on dates still and I know they say you should keep your options open until they're closed, so I'm probably going to go on a few more with others, but the truth is that I'm not sure I'm interested in meeting with anyone else. I was extremely impressed with his personality and his ambition and I see a lot of potential there. Very good chance I'll be reporting back in the coming months on two fixed-stellium-squares in a relationship, lol. Also, I think I might just be done with the pretty boys/bad boys for awhile... forever. IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 1806 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted September 05, 2012 09:30 AM
I can only date other fixed people!! I like the steadiness. In general, almost everyone I like has at least 2 of their big 3 in fixed signs. I'm triple fixed. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1816 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 05, 2012 09:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by peachbeigeblue: I can only date other fixed people!! I like the steadiness. In general, almost everyone I like has at least 2 of their big 3 in fixed signs. I'm triple fixed.
to this!!! It's weird, I have three other cute guys who are actively pursuing me right now (two Cancers and a Leo... always Cancers, always Cancers, lol. They love me for some reason), but I have literally no desire to see anyone else after the four-hour extravaganza. I am forcing myself to respond to these other guys in case things don't work out with the Taurus! But I just know that they will. I have a very good feeling about this one . IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1816 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 05, 2012 05:25 PM
I just did our free compatibility rating on CafeAstrology and it gave us -625..That's extremely depressing IP: Logged |
Lava Flower Knowflake Posts: 319 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 05, 2012 06:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aquacheeka: I just did our free compatibility rating on CafeAstrology and it gave us [b]-625..That's extremely depressing [/B]
Very unreliable love calculator, in my experience, with couples around me. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1816 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 06, 2012 09:38 AM
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Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1816 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 06, 2012 09:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lava Flower: Very unreliable love calculator, in my experience, with couples around me.
That's reassuring. I'm trying to ignore their synastry calculator and focus on the natal, since I find his fascinating. He has four planets in Taurus, including his Mercury (so Mercury on Sun, the same as me, explains why he was such a Chatty Cathy lol). He's as Taurean as I am Aquarian. I am thoroughly intrigued, this should be interesting. One point of concern though; he has Venus opposite Neptune. Doesn't this indicate a love of relationship drama?
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sand Knowflake Posts: 5887 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 06, 2012 10:38 AM
edited for the sake of the young ones. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1816 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 06, 2012 11:59 AM
Thanks, sand! Where did you find that, what book? That is the most interesting take on it I've ever seen!IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 5887 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 06, 2012 12:14 PM
i think it's called cosmic coupling. violet scanned it for me awhile back. http://www.starskyandcox.com/cosmiccoupling.html my great grandparents are taurus man and aqua female. the part where they work together is very true in their case. perhaps the part about aqua upping the taurus' status as well though not necessarily monetarily. good luck btw! IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 603 From: En Cee Registered: Aug 2011
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posted September 06, 2012 12:51 PM
BTW Aquacheeka, should you ever want a composite or synastry reading, let me know. You don't have to, with it being so early at this point but I'm just letting you know Good luck! IP: Logged |
the89freespirit Knowflake Posts: 188 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 06, 2012 09:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by peachbeigeblue: I can only date other fixed people!! I like the steadiness. In general, almost everyone I like has at least 2 of their big 3 in fixed signs. I'm triple fixed.
Yeah I'm double fixed and I feel the same. Every one of my close friends is either a Fixed Sun or a Fixed Moon. I love the mutual energy: determined, loyal, strong-minded, generally consistent and dependable. Birds of a feather! ------------------ Check out My Astrology Blog: http://astroarena12.blogspot.com IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1816 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 07, 2012 03:03 PM
Well, my ex broke up with me during his Saturn Return, and the Taurus and I look to be about to embark on a new relationship (yesterday was our first kiss ). He's going through his Saturn Return now.What does it mean to start a relationship during a Saturn Return? IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1816 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 07, 2012 03:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow: BTW Aquacheeka, should you ever want a composite or synastry reading, let me know. You don't have to, with it being so early at this point but I'm just letting you know Good luck!
Thank you so much! I may just have to take you up on that if I can get his tob.
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4068 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 07, 2012 03:09 PM
I'm a triple fixed person and prefer others with fixed placements as well.IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 5887 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 07, 2012 07:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aquacheeka: Well, my ex broke up with me during his Saturn Return, and the Taurus and I look to be about to embark on a new relationship (yesterday was our first kiss ). He's going through his Saturn Return now.What does it mean to start a relationship during a Saturn Return?
1984/83? i'm 84. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1816 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 07, 2012 08:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by sand: 1984/83? i'm 84.
He's '83.
I don't know, I just read that relationships begun during a SR are karmic. Another karmic relationship is the last thing I need. IP: Logged |