posted September 04, 2012 06:37 AM            

Libra venus AND mars here.

Am interested in Mr Taurus who has mars in Gemini (venus in Aries). I really thought a mars in Gemini would be a player type but think I may have misread him.

We bumped into each other yesterday and chatted, it is like air fireworks! We banter, laugh, tease, he brings out a funny side of me as sometimes I don't "get" sarcasm, I blame it on my saggie sun and we generally have a verbal tennis match.

The time before when I saw him, I had stitches in my mouth and was out for a walk in the early evening, wishing not to bump into anyone. I did not wish to talk as was self conscious, I explained I had surgery but not where and he said to me yesterday that he thought I did not want to talk to him anymore. He also seemed to think I had been on my way to meet a guy! I said he is assuming conclusions that are not true, he said if I should have been resting at home, why was I out? So many questions! I explained that I had been resting for two long weeks and needed fresh air and was meeting a girlie friend. He was posing all the questions in a jokey light manner but he was direct in what he wished to know.

I also suggested we re-arrange coffee and he looked at me seriously and said “it will happen”. He is finishing an important project and I am heading overseas soon so not sure IF it will ever happen.

I do not have the patience of a saint...and if he is not interested I rather he come out and say it.

Any mars in Gemini people can enlighten me?

posted September 04, 2012 07:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Aeline:
I have very well aspected Mars in Gemini, but i'm a girl.

What do you want to hear?

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Hmm, well I am so libran in love and friendship and often get friendship/love confused. Mars in Gemini is wonderful I would think at chatting and talking but doesn't necessarily mean something?

posted September 04, 2012 08:00 AM            

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Originally posted by SparklingSag:
Hmm, well I am so libran in love and friendship and often get friendship/love confused. Mars in Gemini is wonderful I would think at chatting and talking but doesn't necessarily mean something?

Sparkling

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Oh, i think i'll be no help here. I am so Libran, too + Neptune which squares all of my Libra - Sun, Venus, Mercury.

posted September 04, 2012 11:47 AM            

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Originally posted by 7thGuardian:
Well, i have Mars in Gemini - but it's in house 12... so... different story.

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I think its more complicated, I certaintly don't understand this Taurean sun/leo moon/mars gemini/venus aries male...maybe that is what has kept me interested?? As a saggie, I love investigating and going on an adventure.

posted September 04, 2012 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreamy_AriesGirl:
My bf is Aqua Sun with Gemini Mars and he is one of the most honest person i've ever known. He IS playful though and wants to have fun whenever he can, but in love matters he is quite seroius and he told me clearly that he was interested in me. We did have a lot of conversations and fun though before anything happened, so mental stimulation is important to him. And he is quite curious, but he hates mind games.

maybe it helps

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Yes it helps. It feels we are building up to something....lots of chats and interraction but he is Taurean too....he told me take it slow kind of. We will have coffee but it seems in his timing.

I am an impatient Saggie cannot wait, I just want to know.

posted September 04, 2012 10:10 PM            

As for the above comment about sex not being important. Flase for me. I'm waiting until marriage and won't give it up to just anyone. Again I think that might have to do with my other aspects and not really related to mars in gemini.

posted September 04, 2012 10:30 PM            

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Originally posted by SparklingSag:
I think its more complicated, I certaintly don't understand this Taurean sun/leo moon/mars gemini/venus aries male...maybe that is what has kept me interested?? As a saggie, I love investigating and going on an adventure.

Sparkling

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Woah, I'm a Taurean sun/Leo moon/Mars in Gemini/Venus in Aries female! Maybe I can help?

The Venus in Aries means that if he likes you, he will waste no time in going after you. Trust me, if you're getting any attention from him at all, it's a very good thing.

Mars in Gem can be a little flakey, but if you keep him mentally stimulated, he won't lose interest. Attraction killers = predictability, no spontaneity, bad communication, etc. Our flirting style is witty banter/teasing... tease him back and he'll adore you. Nothing too mean though; the Leo moon needs some ego stroking too.

For the record, I'm all over people with Venus or Mars in Libra like white on rice. I always have amazing chemistry with them. I've never met anyone with both Mars and Venus in Libra, but I imagine I'd be really attracted to them.

Do you know his rising sign? Or full birthday? I wonder if it's the same as mine.

posted September 05, 2012 04:16 AM            

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Originally posted by featherlightly:
Woah, I'm a Taurean sun/Leo moon/Mars in Gemini/Venus in Aries female! Maybe I can help?

The Venus in Aries means that if he likes you, he will waste no time in going after you. Trust me, if you're getting any attention from him at all, it's a very good thing.

Mars in Gem can be a little flakey, but if you keep him mentally stimulated, he won't lose interest. Attraction killers = predictability, no spontaneity, bad communication, etc. Our flirting style is witty banter/teasing... tease him back and he'll adore you. Nothing too mean though; the Leo moon needs some ego stroking too.

For the record, I'm all over people with Venus or Mars in Libra like white on rice. I always have amazing chemistry with them. I've never met anyone with both Mars and Venus in Libra, but I imagine I'd be really attracted to them.

Do you know his rising sign? Or full birthday? I wonder if it's the same as mine.

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Hi Featherlightly!

I really need some insight. His birthday is 29/04/1985 (Iran, his parents moved to Europe after his birth.

The chemistry feels amazing, like I could talk all day long and plus I think he is hot! From data, he may have leo moon, he has a lovely smile, not flashy, calm. I can't get asc as really not sure.

I realised last night that he may be finding out if I have a bf so he is off the hook. He seemed intent on finding out why I had come to campus late when recovering from surgery, was I coming to meet a guy? He was thinking aloud through his conclusion...which was totally wrong by the way. I am used to men in my past who made it clear they were interested (they were also players and not trustworthy) so have worked really hard this year on self worth and dealing with my family issues. Have come through the other side.

On my mars and venus in libra, its soooo hard having double libran energy. It means I can be too accomodating, I use charm and wit to tell someone I like them. In so many ways I was telling Mr Taurus I liked him but not sure the message was getting through but he had got the impression I did not wish to talk to him before.

I put his birth time at 12:00 noon as have no idea. Just to see potential venus/mars etc.

MR M

Sun Taurus
Moon Leo
Mercury Aries
Venus Aries
Mars Gemini
Jupiter Aquarius
Saturn Scorpio
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
True Node Taurus

SParkling:

Sun Sagittarius
Moon Leo
Mercury Sagittarius
Venus Libra
Mars Libra
Jupiter Sagittarius
Saturn Scorpio
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Scorpio
True Node Gemini

Hmmmm.. I should not feel despondent. I am doing great at being happy with myself and that is super important!

posted September 07, 2012 05:01 PM            

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Originally posted by butterflyxoxxo:
sex is not taken as serious so beware
and yes we love to talk and you have to keep things interesting in the bedroom, lots of sexy talk

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posted September 08, 2012 04:36 AM            

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Originally posted by geea:
sexy talk and verbal teasing.
We love to play with words,(outside the bed too)and i'd never stay with someone who can't keep up with me.Like someone said, we like the unpredictable..make him curious. Geminis are curious by nature, as long as you are different from what he's encountered before you are on the right track.

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Oh yes he is right on with the teasing, teases me ALL THE TIME, finds is amusing to bring up embarrasing moments, he is playful and my libra planets adore this..makes me feel all lively. He was showing off last time, threw something in the rubbish/trash bin and wanted me affirmation, that it had been an "impressive shot". I think he finds me entertaining, he forgets nothing I tell him or say to him, including over the last ten years.
If we are both leo moons....we need a mixture of compliments and attention. But I am not sure if he is truly interested...so couldn't go on charm offensive.

Sparkling

posted September 08, 2012 06:32 PM            

It sounds like he is definitely interested in you. Gemini Mars people know how to get information (even personal info) without coming across as creepy unless there is something else in their chart that's highly negative.

It's clear he was trying to find out whether you have a boyfriend. Men don't do this unless they are interested in you beyond a friendship level. The key to keeping his interest is to be entertaining and witty. You're a Sag, so I doubt you'll have problems there.

posted September 09, 2012 04:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
I'm a Gemini sun with a Gemini Mars and Venus in Aries.

It sounds like he is definitely interested in you. Gemini Mars people know how to get information (even personal info) without coming across as creepy unless there is something else in their chart that's highly negative.

It's clear he was trying to find out whether you have a boyfriend. Men don't do this unless they are interested in you beyond a friendship level. The key to keeping his interest is to be entertaining and witty. You're a Sag, so I doubt you'll have problems there.

Take it slow with him (I know it's hard!). Get to know him. I have no idea whether he's a player. All of the Gemini Mars guys I've known have NOT been players, but they do move slow to try to figure out compatibility. It isn't likely he'll declare you to be his girlfriend after 1 week. Don't talk about highly emotionally charged topics early on. Keep the conversation light. Be able to talk about anything. Remember, if he talks about a topic that you know nothing about, then feel free to admit that you don't know anything about it, but would like him to teach you. Geminis love to explain things. As long as you show that you are up for anything, then you'll keep his interest.

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Hi Astra! Yes you are spot on, finding out what he needs to know in a friendly, not scary kind of way, is what he has been doing every time we bump into each other. He freely admits he loves banter with me. He did tell me "it will happen, it will" so I think patience is needed. I am going way soon for work, for about 3 and half weeks. My impatience stems from that but he knows where to find me, I will concentrate on my job and career and enjoy my travels! I am a saggie sun, leo moon so being patient and steady is super tough. But I do have Cappie Asc, need to channel that earth energy more.....I will do some meditation and trust that things happen in perfect timing (if it is meant to....).

love and light