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Topic: The Capricorn Man
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G-CALS Newflake Posts: 7 From: Mars Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 06, 2012 12:22 AM
I have a crush on a Cappy. Now, all i hear about them (usually in a jokey, sarcastic manner) is how they are an*l misers! I know thats not true.... but nevertheless, what ARE these Cap men really like? What goes through their heads? How can i wriggle my way into his heart hmm? Now, i know heart wriggling also depends on other placements, but i have no idea what his birthtime is and both his Venus and his Moon are cusping on his birthday. So he is either a Virgo or Libra moon. And either an Aquarius or Capricorn Venus. Guess ill figure it out one day... but now im just delving into his sun! thank you all for any help!! IP: Logged |
Hanneli Newflake Posts: 16 From: United States Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 06, 2012 12:25 AM
i have a crush on a cappy too, he's got a taurus moon and a venus in aquarius. i'm in for a hell of a challenge... IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 3656 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 06, 2012 12:25 AM
I'm a Capricorn man with an Aquarius Venus. Firstly, I'm anything but a miser. I'm extravagant to the umpteenth degree. My Leo wife and I lead a relatively lavish life. Ask your questions and I'll try to answer the best I can. IP: Logged |
Hanneli Newflake Posts: 16 From: United States Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 06, 2012 12:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: I'm a Capricorn man with an Aquarius Venus. Firstly, I'm anything but a miser. I'm extravagant to the umpteenth degree. Ask your questions and I'll try to answer the best I can.
how can we tell when you're interested?
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anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 111 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 06, 2012 12:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by Hanneli: how can we tell when you're interested?
In my experience,they are pretty direct when they are interested in you. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 3656 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 06, 2012 12:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by Hanneli: how can we tell when you're interested?
You will know very well for sure. I won't mince words and would outright walk up and tell you in your face. I'm not into mind manipulation or games. Either it's on or it's off, and when it's off, you wouldnt find me wasting time. Of course, I speak for myself only. IP: Logged |
G-CALS Newflake Posts: 7 From: Mars Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 06, 2012 12:43 AM
Oh dear Haneli!! My bro is a Taurus sun..... ohh boy is all i gotta say! Stubborn. But, i think if i could pick any moon for my man it would be Taurus. They really care for their loved one. They are huge sweethearts no matter what they 'act' like!YTA, thank you for your help here! I just want to know, what would be a good way, in your opinion as a Cap and all, to catch his attention in a good way. I can handle the one night makeout sex symbol thing, but getting their attention, and keeping it, the right way is a whole diffrent story! And glad to hear about the not mincing words thing. I hate that. Just spit it out right?  IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire Knowflake Posts: 700 From: The Crossing Registered: Jun 2009
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posted September 06, 2012 12:43 AM
Capricorn mean are wonderful, and not miserly at all. My dad is a sea goat, and is my hero. My first love is a Capricorn, and to this day still think of him fondly, despite the negative things we experienced. I'm very glad to also be the parent of a goat, as after my own sign this is my absolute favorite sun sign.Capricorns will be direct when they are interested, none of the games and hesitation that may come from their opposite sign Cancer. Capricorns are usually fiercely protective of those they love, and will show this by being dedicated. They wish to be a pillar of strength for you, to dry your tears and hold your heart when things get tough. Cappies are very loyal and it takes a lot for them to give up on you, when they truly love you. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 3656 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 06, 2012 07:08 AM
I personally don't subscribe to the non-committal / unable to commit / takes forever stereotypes. The best way to win hearts is just be supportive. Achievement is extremely important to us, and success in everything we do in life drives our existence. It doesn't matter if it relates to work, school, hobbies, philandering... Just kidding. . There's this other nonsense about slow rise to the top, step by step. I wanna rule the world like right now, damnit. . Patience is a virtue, but don't count on it completely in a Capricorn. So, strike when opportunity knocks. So whatever he likes to do, encourage and motivate him. If you can, participate or at least show an interest. This goes a long way to winning his heart. If his mom is his passion then at least try to get on her good side.  It all depends on age group too. You'll find an 18 year old Capricorn like an irritating 25 year old, but you'll find a 50 year old Capricorn behaving like a 30 year old. I'll write more later  IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 3656 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 06, 2012 07:14 AM
Yeah. Don't give yourself away upfront. The jump into bed thing may be fun, but Capricorns like women who value themselves highly and have a ton of self-respect. For me personally, I like women with massive confidence, arrogance and an overbearing ego. Just kidding. . But my Leo wife would snap anyone's head off when provoked. It's the self worth thing that I find attractive. So, if you can, don't use sex as a tool. It's not effective. One night stands with Capricorns don't work well. Also, don't withhold sex if he wants. It's the fast way to drive him elsewhere. May be conservative or quiet or act boring, but Capricorns may be the most horny creatures on Earth. Withhold sex and he'll go elsewhere to get it if he's not married. I can almost guarantee that. IP: Logged |
AscTaurus Knowflake Posts: 444 From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa Registered: May 2009
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posted September 06, 2012 07:55 AM
Yes, most Capricorns I have met are very direct and not into games.Add to that, the ones I've inter-acted with are quite horny. But there is something too "hard" about these Capricorns that doesn't appeal to me. I am now in a weird situation with a Cancer and so, it can get qute confusing; not really knowing how they feel because how they act contrasts with what they say.So a Capricorn is a much better option. I think it would be ideal if your Cap had a Libra moon; this wouild make him more socially conscious and relationship orientated. Libra moon love all the pleasentries of falling in love and doing the whole courtship thing. If his moon is there, he'll try to charm and "woe" you. He may even be into looking good and projecting a "well rounded" image. If you want to find out if he has the moon there, ask him an opinion on a controversial subject. If he seems diplomatic,politically correct in his answer(notwithstanding that Mars/Asc is not in Libra), he probably has a Libra moon. Libra moons pay attention to how they voice their opinion and are usualy careful not to offend. If he has his moon in Virgo, he may be a little more judgemental and "rigid". This is because Virgo moon's adhere to strict moral standards that they expect themselves to live up to; so don't expect spontaneous/ostentatious displays of affection. The nature is usualy reserved, shy, prudent and careful in its projection. Falling in love, for these moons, can be tricky. You want to find out if his moon is in Virgo? Ask him to analyze a movie you two are watching.Lunar Virgoans do not mince their words and are usualy very aware of sorroundings and so, don't miss a thing. They may come across as rather critical, opinionated, over-analytical or even intellectualy snobby(again notwithstanding a Virgo Asc/Mars is also there).
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 3656 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 06, 2012 08:42 AM
The Sun sign has way too many generalities. It's not possible to go much further without ascertaining the rest of his chart.I am myself a pretty rigid Capricorn, with Mars and Mercury there as well, but balanced by water and fire. Therefore, there may be mitigating or contradicting factors at play. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 3828 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted September 06, 2012 05:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Yeah. Don't give yourself away upfront. The jump into bed thing may be fun, but Capricorns like women who value themselves highly and have a ton of self-respect. For me personally, I like women with massive confidence, arrogance and an overbearing ego. Just kidding. . But my Leo wife would snap anyone's head off when provoked. It's the self worth thing that I find attractive. So, if you can, don't use sex as a tool. It's not effective. One night stands with Capricorns don't work well. Also, don't withhold sex if he wants. It's the fast way to drive him elsewhere. May be conservative or quiet or act boring, but Capricorns may be the most horny creatures on Earth. Withhold sex and he'll go elsewhere to get it if he's not married. I can almost guarantee that.
The part about "don't withhold sex if he wants" is a bit problematic for me, so I want to ask for clarity to make sure that I don't take that the wrong way or misunderstand. When you say "don't withhold", are you speaking about a couple that is married/committed to each other, and sex is already agreed-upon for both people? As in, when you say "don't withhold", are you thinking of people already in a committed relationship who have mutually consented/assuming that the couple is at that level? And in which both people are ready for that step? Again, I'm asking for elaboration so that I understand what you're saying and don't misunderstand anything. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 3828 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted September 06, 2012 05:39 PM
Something that I'll say for Cappies is that many have a delightful sense of humor, under that reserve. Some of them are secretly snarky and can be hilarious, once they let that side of them out. Some Cappies are elegant and dress well (others go to the opposite extreme of looking sloppy and "comfortable" blech). The classy ones have good taste, and I like that in a person. IP: Logged |
G-CALS Newflake Posts: 7 From: Mars Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 06, 2012 05:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by AscTaurus: Yes, most Capricorns I have met are very direct and not into games.Add to that, the ones I've inter-acted with are quite horny. But there is something too "hard" about these Capricorns that doesn't appeal to me. I am now in a weird situation with a Cancer and so, it can get qute confusing; not really knowing how they feel because how they act contrasts with what they say.So a Capricorn is a much better option. I think it would be ideal if your Cap had a Libra moon; this wouild make him more socially conscious and relationship orientated. Libra moon love all the pleasentries of falling in love and doing the whole courtship thing. If his moon is there, he'll try to charm and "woe" you. He may even be into looking good and projecting a "well rounded" image. If you want to find out if he has the moon there, ask him an opinion on a controversial subject. If he seems diplomatic,politically correct in his answer(notwithstanding that Mars/Asc is not in Libra), he probably has a Libra moon. Libra moons pay attention to how they voice their opinion and are usualy careful not to offend. If he has his moon in Virgo, he may be a little more judgemental and "rigid". This is because Virgo moon's adhere to strict moral standards that they expect themselves to live up to; so don't expect spontaneous/ostentatious displays of affection. The nature is usualy reserved, shy, prudent and careful in its projection. Falling in love, for these moons, can be tricky. You want to find out if his moon is in Virgo? Ask him to analyze a movie you two are watching.Lunar Virgoans do not mince their words and are usualy very aware of sorroundings and so, don't miss a thing. They may come across as rather critical, opinionated, over-analytical or even intellectualy snobby(again notwithstanding a Virgo Asc/Mars is also there).
Ok i alwats suspected he is a Libra moon, this totally confirms it!!! They amout of times ive seen him get lost in thought n stuff LOL no way hes a Virgo! Also, Virgo moon is in the first few hours of his bday. So more likely he is Libra. Id also say he is an Aqua Venus lol. About the sex thing. We both believe in waiting till marrige. So there is no issue there. I just meant makingout lol IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 3656 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 06, 2012 05:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by RegardesPlatero: The part about "don't withhold sex if he wants" is a bit problematic for me, so I want to ask for clarity to make sure that I don't take that the wrong way or misunderstand.When you say "don't withhold", are you speaking about a couple that is married/committed to each other, and sex is already agreed-upon for both people? As in, when you say "don't withhold", are you thinking of people already in a committed relationship who have mutually consented/assuming that the couple is at that level? And in which both people are ready for that step? Again, I'm asking for elaboration so that I understand what you're saying and don't misunderstand anything.
Platero, Indeed. You enunciated my thoughts precisely. I was talking strictly about committed relationships. The message is simple. Don't use sex as a negotiation/bargaining tool. It backfires with Capricorns. Of course, I haven't had it withheld from me and honestly have the reverse issue that I'm dealing with.
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 3656 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 06, 2012 05:57 PM
Just to be clear, I'll reiterate. If you are unsure about him and don't want to have sex, then don't enter a committed relationship with a Capricorn. Once in a committed relationship, Capricorns take the commitment super seriously. If he wants intimacy and you don't want, then he'll most probably break off the relationship and move on. I myself married a virgin and she stayed a virgin till we got married. But make no mistake, I married a woman who most definitely wanted physical intimacy and that intimacy has not abated for almost 20 years. Some women think to this elves that if they withhold it, men would want them more. For Capricorns, that is a huge mistake. IP: Logged |
G-CALS Newflake Posts: 7 From: Mars Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 06, 2012 05:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Just to be clear, I'll reiterate. If you are unsure about him and don't want to have sex, then don't enter a committed relationship with a Capricorn. Once in a committed relationship, Capricorns take the commitment super seriously. If he wants intimacy and you don't want, then he'll most probably break off the relationship and move on. I myself married a virgin and she stayed a virgin till we got married. But make no mistake, I married a woman who most definitely wanted physical intimacy and that intimacy has not abated for almost 20 years. Some women think to this elves that if they withhold it, men would want them more. For Capricorns, that is a huge mistake.
Pssssh!!! Thats a huge mistake to do to me!!! Glad you cleared that bit up though IP: Logged |
AriesKat Knowflake Posts: 170 From: Brooklyn, NY USA Registered: May 2011
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posted September 06, 2012 06:08 PM
Im backing all the way off my Cappie crush. This is the second time he said he would call and didnt, still havent heard his voice yet he still text me daily, i dont need a pen pal. This time i said I suppose you dont want to talk to me on the phone, no biggie. his response was I honestly forgot, so I never text him back and wont. only way we will talk again is if he calls me and i doubt that IP: Logged | |