posted September 06, 2012 10:43 PM            

So, as a Capricorn male, you might think I'd know how to talk to woo a Capricorn female. Well, I don't. I don't, because no one really does. Sure, it's important to either be successful already, or have the drive necessary to achieve what both you and she want out of life (Capricorns sometimes will accept sufficient realism and ambition in lieu of current success)but that's only part of it.

This particular woman I'm kinda seeing is a Cap 14'15" with Cancer Rising 27'04", Moon in Sag 11'14", Venus in Sag 22'41" Mercury in Aqu 3'24" and Mars Aries 22'32"

I'm trying to think of questions to ask her to get to know her better. She's already opened up to me a great deal, I can tell, for how she usually operates, but... I can't tell for sure how she feels about me; I can tell she likes me but I can't tell if she's seriously interested or casually interested. I'd prefer the latter. I'm trying to figure that out... and at the same time strengthen what she does feel for me.

Any advice on what kind of questions to ask her would be highly appreciated. Thank you.

posted September 07, 2012 12:51 AM            

Cap sun and Cancer rising is a tough combo lol. I think for me at least it makes me put my guard up even more when people's first impressions of me are that I'm just sweet and innocent... She may appear as the girl next door, or someone you should be talking about family or baking cookies with lol, but with Cap sun and Sag moon probably has an ironic or sarcastic sense of humor and a lot more depth than you might pick up on at first. But at least for me it takes a while before I'm really comfortable enough with someone to show that side of myself. So I guess I would just say keep thing s friendly and casual, pick up on the subtle things she says about her interests and show that you're listening.. If you can make her laugh (genuinely) that's a plus. If she likes traveling and you like traveling, definitely talk about that with her.. If you've had any experiences where work, volunteering, etc. were combined with traveling, you've hit the gold mine lol. Talk about your interests too, and it doesn't just have to be things that revolve around money and status. With those Sag planets she probably would be genuinely interested to hear about any causes or projects you've been involved in supporting, or just generally what you find to be important and worth striving towards in the world...

How did you guys meet?? Mutual friends or interests are of course also good ice breakers..

But sorry this is basically just going off of what I would tell someone from my own perspective, but please take it with a grain of salt since astrology can't determine everything, and I don't want to lead you in the wrong direction lol. Anyway good luck and let me know if you have more questions