posted September 08, 2012 09:53 PM
I'm meeting so many of these people as of late.. I'm noticing consistent patterns and patterns which i like.Chivalry is NOT dead.
My experience has shown that these are the guys that call you up very politely and ask you out on a date. They have a place in mind, have a time picked and even offer to pick you up. It's very traditional and i like it very much.
I've also noticed that age tends to be an issue for them... Hell, sharing ANYTHING is an issue with them. It's refreshing to have relations with guys who aren't fake or hollywood plastics.. It comes with the territory, though; what i like to call the tom & katie aspect.
Remember the couch jumping on oprah? Also remember how katie was on lockdown and became a stepford wife almost over night and didn't say anything to the press probably because of their confidentiality agreement?
You can't ask capricorn south node's their age. You can't ask them their birthdate. You can't ask to see through their porno collection.
They exude "togetherness" but there's some stifling sense of control that they seem to want to hold on all things.
Is it a decent trade-off?
Well, after having dealt with scumbags that have no sense of self-respect, it is certainly refreshing.