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Topic: Mars in Pisces Men
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Hera
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posted September 13, 2012 05:44 AM
  
Thank you for starting the thread, Geea!  I am finding myself fascinated by this placement as well.  It's much too early to give an opinion, but research is always useful  . IP: Logged |
DrewMann
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posted September 13, 2012 08:12 AM
I have back bone, plenty of it, wanna test?IP: Logged |
C1ND3R
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posted September 13, 2012 08:56 AM
^ surrrrrrre you do.We believe ya.  IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted September 13, 2012 02:49 PM
After all ive said...I must say in defense and because of all ive learned from my 12 year old son, a Pisces Sun!!
He is a taurus moon, saggy Ac...he has aries venus@0.35, aries jupiter@2, aries saturn@29...scorpio mars, aqua uranus and neptune, saggy pluto and chiron...He is an amazing Pisces...but he doesnt have any placements of pisces that give him a weak will...only thing i see pisces about him is his ego comes from being a kind person(picses)
He, at 12, go and works so hard to make extra money with her grandpa doing chores then he saves it! The only time i've seen him open up his wallet to spend money(besides the occasional video game) is when he wants to buy his lil brother something or when his big sis couldnt afford something she wanted...he's always trying to buy me thing to! I tell him i really want him to save it!
He's got the good placement of pisces because his mars in scorpio isnt going to put up with anything, its not wishy washy, and his aries mixed with scorpio is a fighter and a go getter, aqua makes him care a bit less about others opinions than the normal pisces, and taurus moon gives a lot of stability with saggy rising again his interest are outward and not drowning in others opinions of him...he is truly comfortable in his own skin without constant worry of how others perceive him or his self confidence isnt shattered by others perceptions of him....
Also he has a very saggy mom, i don't put up with pisces poor me stuff, it get on my nerves! Sorry!
With saggy sun/merc/nep...whenever he has started to wallow in self pity...or be to self sacrificing ive shown him how if he really cares for other ppl, he will take care of himself first because how can you truly be of assistance to others if your falling apart and are in need of assistance yourself? I've went over with him soooo many times, if your in a plane crash, oxygen masks fall, theres a lil child next to you, do you put the mask on them or you first...typical self sacrificing pisces answer...mom, youd give it to the child...i said, NO! you put it on yourself first then the child...because if you don't you'll die, who will save the child then?
The point is to always protect yourself first...so your healthy and have the strength to save many more than just the one person, you would have died trying to save! I believe this is a lesson pisces needs to learn! I don't think they are bad, they are just so sensitive and desperate to make everyone happy they lose sight of protecting themselves and just sway with every wind that comes along....then they become passive aggressive and do mean things to get back at others because they dont have the strength to face them and deal with the issue in an honest straight forward healthy way...thats where the deceit comes in....All in all, pisces intentions are good its they way the go about getting their needs met that brings the trouble and pain into their lives.
they feel their only power is deceit and they just keep going further and further down a destructive path, and wallow in self pity!
I asked my son would you take a bullet for a perfect stranger...of course he would, hes pisces...then i said, but you know for sure your on a path that will help others, you love people....what if that perfect stranger was a child abuser, and now they will live longer and your dead? Your life could have went on to save and help many but instead he gets to live on to continue hurting ppl....you never know?
I told him my point isnt to "not help others", it is to "not to forget that your important to"! Instead of throwing yourself in front and dying to protect them only...protect yourself to!
Maybe try to find a different way...push them out of the way instead of jumping in front and sacrificing yourself! Never forget the world needs you alive...your not here to be the world sacrificial lamb...your here to teach the world how to love purely and we need you alive, emotionally, spiritually and physically to do that!
I think Pisces biggest issue is that they give, give,give until theres nothing left and they become so desperate for anything they become the thieves, liars and manipulators just to try to stay alive, all they really need to realize is they are just as important as everyone else, and they need to learn from an early age protecting yourself isnt selfish...its part of staying alive. If your not alive, you arent here to love anyone...so its actually a kindness of pisces to learn to protect themselves.
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C1ND3R
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posted September 13, 2012 03:24 PM
Ah, that's cute.. I remember being 12, too.Good thing; i'm nothing like that now. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted September 13, 2012 03:30 PM
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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
Ah, that's cute.. I remember being 12, too.Good thing; i'm nothing like that now.
Oh, NO! Your not jaded are you?  Actually its amazing how much Saggy and Pisces get along once Pisces is looking at themselves with value instead of thinking they are here only as a sacrifice to the world...they truly are very Christlike in their innocence...
but you can't be that self sacrificing in human form, the ego will take over once the pain gets too much to bear! The ego ends ups closer to the devil...you end up just as bad...as you were good! Thats why Pisces needs help learning their unconditional love for others needs to be balanced with unconditional love for themselves. IP: Logged |
C1ND3R
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posted September 13, 2012 03:32 PM
Wiser? Certainly.IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted September 13, 2012 03:43 PM
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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
Wiser? Certainly.
Well, i believe if you find a balanced, wise Pisces you truly will find one of the most amazing people ever...there is much to be learned from their kind hearts, i wish more Pisces would stay on the good side of their sign, we need more love in the world! IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted September 13, 2012 03:45 PM
But i still will never date a Pisces Mars again..lol IP: Logged |
AriesKat
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posted September 13, 2012 03:45 PM
I honestly dont know too many pisces who are like they describe on astrology websites and in books. The ones I know have really high self esteem to the point of arrogance, extremley good liars, always scheming to get things from people or get things done by people, really good at playing the victim, good at exploiting weaknesses in others because they have that ability to look right thru you so they already know what buttons to push, I could go on. I like to call them shape shifters. But weak isnt something I associate with this sign or placements. I think they are very powerful, but some of them abuse their power. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted September 13, 2012 04:01 PM
Personally, I find the evolved types of Pisces Marses totally bewitching. Maybe because my own Aries Mars is in the dwad of Pisces and trines Neptune. But their need for idealism and full surrender to their emotions caught my radar and for now I am so smitten by the concept. Hope not to drown my fire in their murky waters. However, I do expect my deep aversion for weak men to come to surface sooner or later. Especially since my father, who sexually abused me, is Pisces Mars. There is potential for dangerous projections here. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted September 13, 2012 09:06 PM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Personally, I find the evolved types of Pisces Marses totally bewitching. Maybe because my own Aries Mars is in the dwad of Pisces and trines Neptune. But their need for idealism and full surrender to their emotions caught my radar and for now I am so smitten by the concept. Hope not to drown my fire in their murky waters. However, I do expect my deep aversion for weak men to come to surface sooner or later. Especially since my father, who sexually abused me, is Pisces Mars. There is potential for dangerous projections here.
hmmm, ive often wondered if we seek out similar men as our abusers because we are trying to fix or somehow replicate the past event, and make it so it comes out right this time? I never realized how much my ex husband looked like my step dad until i found an old picture of my step dad years after i divorced my ex...and he was very over bearing and verbally abusive, but i finally stood up for myself and learned how to fight from the relationship. IP: Logged |
geea
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posted September 14, 2012 02:32 PM
@Hera..  and wow...I didn't know mars in pisces had such a bad reputation..
So they're promiscuous...I still think there's some nice men out there with this placement. The problem is we tend to remember mostly the bad not the good ones. Plus Mars in this water sign seeks spiritual union through sex maybe that's why it's hard for them to find someone really compatible.
I think most of them easily loose themselves on this way,always searching something and not knowing that through perversion they actually seek a deep bonding with a partner.
This is the hardest placements for mars, think about it: mars rules aries, the sign where the ego of the zodiac resides, and when it's in pisces, the last sign, it creates a big contradiction in a person. Mars pushes them to action but pisces holds back or makes them take weird paths. So the will is there but they just can't...because pisces it's like some sort of purgatory where mars is destroyed. In pisces you abandon your will in the hands of the higher forces/universe/God etc.IP: Logged |
DrewMann
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posted September 14, 2012 04:15 PM
Isn't mars in a triplicity in pisces and thats supposed to be very positive.IP: Logged |
vickymadness
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posted September 14, 2012 04:20 PM
I met five men with this placement, they're all SMOKIN' HOT!
Definitely it's not the input you're looking for, but I felt the urge to say it  IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart
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posted September 14, 2012 04:21 PM
My best friend had a fling with a guy who had Mars and Venus conjunct in Pisces.
She said he was terrible in bed.
Every time I find out that a guy has Mars in Pisces I have to think of that! LOL
I'm pretty sure it had nothing to do with his Mars though.IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted September 14, 2012 04:58 PM
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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:
My best friend had a fling with a guy who had Mars and Venus conjunct in Pisces.
She said he was terrible in bed.
Every time I find out that a guy has Mars in Pisces I have to think of that! LOL
I'm pretty sure it had nothing to do with his Mars though.
I can second that one...they do nothing but lay there like a dead fish...lol
You have to do all the work and they don't last very long either! IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted September 14, 2012 05:37 PM
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I can second that one...they do nothing but lay there like a dead fish...lol
You have to do all the work and they don't last very long either!
third... they are sooooo LAZY in bed!!!! nice men, awful lovers. i actually told my mother how bad my bf is in bed; i just couldn't not share the info. thought it was just my guy, but guess not! i do all the work and he just lays there and fantasizes i guess IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted September 14, 2012 05:42 PM
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third... they are sooooo LAZY in bed!!!! nice men, awful lovers. i actually told my mother how bad my bf is in bed; i just couldn't not share the info. thought it was just my guy, but guess not! i do all the work and he just lays there and fantasizes i guess
Lol, exactly... IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted September 14, 2012 09:13 PM
Oh poor Martian Fishes.. Yeah, mom hinted dad was bad in the sack too. He was into a lot of porn and generally a perv. Might have cheated on mom, she doesn't think so, but I do. He was a sleazeball overall but I don't think all Pisces Mars men are. Geea  IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart
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posted September 14, 2012 10:55 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
I can second that one...they do nothing but lay there like a dead fish...lol
You have to do all the work and they don't last very long either!
Oh man...so many people saying that now. It's kinda tragic. IP: Logged |
C1ND3R
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posted September 14, 2012 11:23 PM
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Originally posted by starmoon:
third... they are sooooo LAZY in bed!!!! nice men, awful lovers. i actually told my mother how bad my bf is in bed; i just couldn't not share the info. thought it was just my guy, but guess not! i do all the work and he just lays there and fantasizes i guess
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DepTaurus
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posted September 15, 2012 08:57 PM
I have to say that for me personally i have this placement in the 8th house of all places and i am not overly sexed and or nor am i promiscuous.I am still a virgin and effing proud of that...i can`t trust anybody and to be honest i don`t find that i fantasize about sex as much as i do with either love itself or my space (Aqua Moon) but that is just another subject all on its own. When i think about it i don`t think i ever want to experience it but than again it might be the saturn apsect mars makes with in my chart that has alot of restriction to it. I can`t really relate to any of the things said on this thread because it makes this placement seem like all they care about is getting lost in the clouds of sex.When it`s not the plaecements in our chart that makes us sexual or not...it`s just a placement most people are higly sexed or not because were all born with the desire to express each of our own urges. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted September 16, 2012 01:05 AM
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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:
Oh man...so many people saying that now. It's kinda tragic.
Awe...sorry fishy's!! You have other qualities that are amazing...you think about the most interesting things, and generally have good taste!! IP: Logged |
geea
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posted September 16, 2012 09:17 AM
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Originally posted by DepTaurus:
I have to say that for me personally i have this placement in the 8th house of all places and i am not overly sexed and or nor am i promiscuous.I am still a virgin and effing proud of that...i can`t trust anybody and to be honest i don`t find that i fantasize about sex as much as i do with either love itself or my space (Aqua Moon) but that is just another subject all on its own. When i think about it i don`t think i ever want to experience it but than again it might be the saturn apsect mars makes with in my chart that has alot of restriction to it. I can`t really relate to any of the things said on this thread because it makes this placement seem like all they care about is getting lost in the clouds of sex.When it`s not the plaecements in our chart that makes us sexual or not...it`s just a placement most people are higly sexed or not because were all born with the desire to express each of our own urges.
I was interested more in their approach to love and women,that's why I asked "you" as in you, mars in pisces men, because you can tell me what it feels like. The thread isn't necesarily about sex. Every opinion is welcomed and info is useful so I think is good that you come out & express your opinions;
Plus, the women who had been directly affected by this will usually answer first, so everything will be subjective.
My grandpa was a mars in pisces( him a calm understanding man,while my grandma is a total pain in the1233), my mom is a mars in pisces-very contradictory personality and is the person who harmed me most in my life,but this doesn't make me fear all mars in pisces. @vickymadness,yes i know,right? this guy i was curious about, gemini sun,venus,mercury,mars/eros in pisces. I'm not supposed to think of him(damn!) but it's such a temptation, lol. Dark long hair,green eyes and hot as hell! We know eachother since I was single(he was not) and now I met him again(he's single i'm not), and he's kind of after me, and flirting and stuff. And I can't help it, I love my boyfriend but this guy...damn!damn!damn!damn the mars in scorpio!!! IP: Logged |
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