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Topic: Do Pisces men would appreciate this artistic gift?
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Sarahwood
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From: London, united kingdom
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 13, 2012 05:22 PM
  
Ok we were friends for four years then went in a relationship for four months then he left me, me and him are friends now(small insight us in our relationship).
I couldnt help but to draw him in a portrait ( I oil painted him like picasso drew mona lisa lol) so we are not dating but we r frineds, am sacred of his reaction. I do have strong feelings for him but i accepted that he decided to end it. anyways, am always here for him as a caring compassionate friend. so yea I want to send it to him on his doorway in his mailpost, too scared to show it to him in person. :SAm a sun in libra with rising plus mars , venus in scorpio, Moon - saturn-uranus-neptune in capricorn. mercury in Virgo. North node in aquarius. Him:
Sun & mercury in Pisces. Venus in aquarius. Mars- saturn-uranus-neptune in capricorn. Moon in LEO.
Virgo rising. North node in Aquarius.trining with my ascendent, sun and mars. thanks
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redshift
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posted September 13, 2012 05:41 PM
That must be hard to be friends when you still have strong feelings. If he is a Pisces, he will probably know this. Giving him an intense gift like that may scare him. He may become worried about hurting you by not being able to match your feelings and will pull back emotionally. This is the average Pisces-type reaction in a generalized way. Just prepare yourself for a reaction that you may not be happy with before you give it. I'm not saying that will happen for sure, but it's important to be honest with yourself about what you want his reaction to be and what you want from him. It's ok to want more than he can give, but if that's the case, for your own health and happiness, you need to protect yourself and pour your energy into someone who will not turn you away. Maybe keep the portrait for yourself as a reminder of your ability to love and express yourself.IP: Logged |
oceaneyes9
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From: missouri
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posted September 13, 2012 06:02 PM
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anonymidarkness
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posted September 13, 2012 07:29 PM
Give him,he will be flattered.He is a pisces,if you have started to love him again he should have already picked up the vibe.That venus in aqua will appreciate your originality as well.Moon in Leo would obviously be very flattered and pleased.You will probably get a humble thanks from his virgo rising.I have similar placements and I would be very pleased to get that gift,come on he used to love you once.Just make sure you dont cut him off if he reacts negatively.I have plenty of experience with libras with venus in scorpio,one cut me off for nothing and it still hurts.IP: Logged |
Sarahwood
Knowflake Posts: 237
From: London, united kingdom
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 13, 2012 07:37 PM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Give him,he will be flattered.He is a pisces,if you have started to love him again he should have already picked up the vibe.That venus in aqua will appreciate your originality as well.Moon in Leo would obviously be very flattered and pleased.You will probably get a humble thanks from his virgo rising.I have similar placements and I would be very pleased to get that gift,come on he used to love you once.Just make sure you dont cut him off if he reacts negatively.I have plenty of experience with libras with venus in scorpio,one cut me off for nothing and it still hurts.
U have same placements as him. ur the only one who sounded positive about this. I just sat there and thought, **** why a my that intense when I seriously Feel deep with someone. Well as I said we r friends all I want from his reaction is his feelings for me to be there and will always know that I am here for him is me supporting him, and stand by his side and help him in any obstacles that comes his way. He did not love me, but he had strong feelings for me, and he ended it. Despite, I have a feeling he can come back to me, if I show these sides of me. am trying to get him back but not trying to say it. About u getting hurt, :S is it when they behave cold and bitchy with you (tell me ur story)? cuz I did that when he broke up with me and I felt bad then became nice again with him cuz he was and always is nice to me plus caring. And u have the same placements so just a question, should the person giving u this, giving it in person? or just leaves it on his doorway lol.
am just scared of his reaction.
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JLyn ~
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From: my state of mind
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 13, 2012 08:54 PM
I would read what redshift posted everyday...
that person said it all.pisces rising/moon/mars and my sons father the one I was with for 6years is a pisces sun, trust me. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 13, 2012 11:59 PM
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Originally posted by Sarahwood:
U have same placements as him. ur the only one who sounded positive about this. I just sat there and thought, **** why a my that intense when I seriously Feel deep with someone. Well as I said we r friends all I want from his reaction is his feelings for me to be there and will always know that I am here for him is me supporting him, and stand by his side and help him in any obstacles that comes his way. He did not love me, but he had strong feelings for me, and he ended it. Despite, I have a feeling he can come back to me, if I show these sides of me. am trying to get him back but not trying to say it. About u getting hurt, :S is it when they behave cold and bitchy with you (tell me ur story)? cuz I did that when he broke up with me and I felt bad then became nice again with him cuz he was and always is nice to me plus caring. And u have the same placements so just a question, should the person giving u this, giving it in person? or just leaves it on his doorway lol.
am just scared of his reaction.
I think his venus in aqua would step back if you approach him and have some intense conversations about how you still have feelings for him BUT showing your feelings to him through that gift is a whole different thing because art would appeal to both his pisces and aqua placements.I think you should approach him in person and give him but dont say anything about your feelings,that gift alone will be enough to make him feel that you still have feelings for him. And about my story,yeah I broke up when she started acting cold and bitchy towards me out of the blue,it was all going smoothly and out of nowhere she started ignoring me,I confronted her once about it but she denied that she was ignoring me,it continued and I cut her off. IP: Logged |
Sarahwood
Knowflake Posts: 237
From: London, united kingdom
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 14, 2012 05:46 AM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
I think his venus in aqua would step back if you approach him and have some intense conversations about how you still have feelings for him BUT showing your feelings to him through that gift is a whole different thing because art would appeal to both his pisces and aqua placements.I think you should approach him in person and give him but dont say anything about your feelings,that gift alone will be enough to make him feel that you still have feelings for him. And about my story,yeah I broke up when she started acting cold and bitchy towards me out of the blue,it was all going smoothly and out of nowhere she started ignoring me,I confronted her once about it but she denied that she was ignoring me,it continued and I cut her off.
Thank you for the advice  , and yes it is true about his venus in aquarius, he did step back when I expressed my real feelings (intense) about him, that I am here no matter what and will always wait for him, I do recall he became cold and said see other people. WTH IS wrong with her :S well we behave cold and bitchy if u hurted us, but I do that unintentionally but then stopped it cuz I taught my self to hold my anger and my hurt I ignore or avoid things. Btw is it okay if I contacted u by email. I have few questions I like to ask if u dont mind ^_^ ? IP: Logged |
starmoon
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted September 14, 2012 10:47 AM
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Originally posted by redshift:
That must be hard to be friends when you still have strong feelings. If he is a Pisces, he will probably know this. Giving him an intense gift like that may scare him. He may become worried about hurting you by not being able to match your feelings and will pull back emotionally. This is the average Pisces-type reaction in a generalized way. Just prepare yourself for a reaction that you may not be happy with before you give it. I'm not saying that will happen for sure, but it's important to be honest with yourself about what you want his reaction to be and what you want from him. It's ok to want more than he can give, but if that's the case, for your own health and happiness, you need to protect yourself and pour your energy into someone who will not turn you away. Maybe keep the portrait for yourself as a reminder of your ability to love and express yourself.
very good insight/advice into this situation. hopefully the op will follow it; keep the painting for yourself and spend your energies searching for a man who can return your loving feelings IP: Logged |
vickymadness
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From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 14, 2012 10:51 AM
A BIG YES! He will adore it , not only like it.IP: Logged |
Sarahwood
Knowflake Posts: 237
From: London, united kingdom
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 14, 2012 02:39 PM
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Originally posted by starmoon:
very good insight/advice into this situation. hopefully the op will follow it; keep the painting for yourself and spend your energies searching for a man who can return your loving feelings
her advice is excellent!! I dont know I cant help but to wonder! IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted September 14, 2012 03:19 PM
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Originally posted by Sarahwood:
her advice is excellent!! I dont know I cant help but to wonder!
that's cuz you're a libra sun and rising - you're weighing options and debating what to do. just don't go chasing after a man, especially a pisces one.. they swim away IP: Logged |
Sarahwood
Knowflake Posts: 237
From: London, united kingdom
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 14, 2012 04:20 PM
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Originally posted by starmoon:
that's cuz you're a libra sun and rising - you're weighing options and debating what to do. just don't go chasing after a man, especially a pisces one.. they swim away
SPOT ON O_O I do like to hear peoples opinion then weigh it then decide. although if it was my scorpio venus i would go for it but my sin and rising would not allow it :S
and my cappy moon very cautious. I dont want him to swim away..... IP: Logged |
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