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Lioness
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posted September 13, 2012 10:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Share your experiences

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C1ND3R
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posted September 13, 2012 10:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for C1ND3R     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nope. Never. Not even in composite. It's exactly as it sounds. There one minute, gone the next and really, it happens at the drop of a hat.

Only time i would recommend it is when someone has that aspect natally or a link between the two.

Otherwise, consider it a one-nighter.

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posted September 13, 2012 10:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know...

The guy I was involved with had this natally but notin his progressed chart. While I don't have it natally, it's part of my progressed chart. I have venus trine uranus natally though.

We had this aspect in synastry, we were in a different sort of relationship. And while he was not someone I would expect to fall for, I really cared for him. Faults and all.

My venus qquintile his uranus.
His venus squared my uranus.

It wasn't a fling or superficial. It was more spiritual, and I see him still affected by it as I am. Ending it was really hard. It was my idea to stop talking to him.

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posted September 13, 2012 11:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think it always shows a one night stand.. I guess it depends on it it's some how out of the norm.

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted September 14, 2012 12:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have the Conjunction. Not the same as a Square but still a harsh aspect.

It's just wonderful.


From Sky View Zone:

Venus Conjunct Uranus in Synastry

What does it mean to your relationship when your natal Venus is in conjunction with your partner’s Uranus? Your relationship begins with instantaneous attraction, originality, and unconventional attitudes. Be ready for surprises. Your romantic partner challenges you to be open, flexible, and willing to change. If your romantic partner’s Venus is in conjunction with your Uranus, he/she is attracted to your spontaneity and unpredictability, willing to experiment with some of your new ideas about love and relationship. Seize happiness in the moment, every moment, and don't ever take your partnership for granted. Keep it forever fresh.

This is one indication of a powerful, sudden, and electric attraction. It is often indicative of a situation where one feels "love at first sight". If you get together, a sexual relationship may begin quickly, before you truly get to know each other. A mutual sharing of unusual interests is indicated. The attraction to and fascination with each other may be erratic or variable; or it may subside as suddenly as it started. It is vital that each gives the other freedom in order for this relationship to work. Attempts to give this relationship too much structure can drive a wedge between the two. It is likely that the Venus person will eventually crave more constancy from the Uranus person than he or she is willing to give.

Union or love will be very strong, not at all intellectual, but sensual and full of romanticism and originality.

http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch/venussynastryaspects.htm

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posted September 14, 2012 12:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CRCRINCON     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I have the Conjunction. Not the same as a Square but still a harsh aspect.

It's just wonderful.


From Sky View Zone:

Venus Conjunct Uranus in Synastry

What does it mean to your relationship when your natal Venus is in conjunction with your partner’s Uranus? Your relationship begins with instantaneous attraction, originality, and unconventional attitudes. Be ready for surprises. Your romantic partner challenges you to be open, flexible, and willing to change. If your romantic partner’s Venus is in conjunction with your Uranus, he/she is attracted to your spontaneity and unpredictability, willing to experiment with some of your new ideas about love and relationship. Seize happiness in the moment, every moment, and don't ever take your partnership for granted. Keep it forever fresh.

This is one indication of a powerful, sudden, and electric attraction. It is often indicative of a situation where one feels "love at first sight". If you get together, a sexual relationship may begin quickly, before you truly get to know each other. A mutual sharing of unusual interests is indicated. The attraction to and fascination with each other may be erratic or variable; or it may subside as suddenly as it started. It is vital that each gives the other freedom in order for this relationship to work. Attempts to give this relationship too much structure can drive a wedge between the two. It is likely that the Venus person will eventually crave more constancy from the Uranus person than he or she is willing to give.

Union or love will be very strong, not at all intellectual, but sensual and full of romanticism and originality.

http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch/venussynastryaspects.htm


My husband has the square it natally. We have it in synastry as well. I am Aquarius moon and have Sun parallel Uranus. He is Mexican and I am white and this aspect can indicate biracial relationships. We have everything listed above! We have been married for 4 yrs together since 2006. I'm still as madly inlove as day one! We have a magical love story and I feel very blessed! So definitely not always a bad aspect!

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sweet-scorpion
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posted September 14, 2012 01:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It is REALLY difficult, I am not going to lie. I hate to sound discouraging but this aspect in composite and/or synastry will give you a run for your money if the rest of the charts are difficult.

I have had this one before and it shows that romance comes and goes, up and down, changing with the tides... it isn't a consistent romance. One partner might want to be closer and more affectionate (that was usually me) while the other is turned off by that or just doesn't go for it, wanting to be more aloof (the guy) without really not being in love. But the erratic behaviors like these will confuse you until you feel like the love nature of the other person or even yourself when you are with them is just so unstable and 'out there' at times that you feel like you're going a little crazy in love....

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posted September 14, 2012 01:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CRCRINCON:
My husband has the square it natally. We have it in synastry as well. I am Aquarius moon and have Sun parallel Uranus. He is Mexican and I am white and this aspect can indicate biracial relationships. We have everything listed above! We have been married for 4 yrs together since 2006. I'm still as madly inlove as day one! We have a magical love story and I feel very blessed! So definitely not always a bad aspect!

I'm glad you brought that up because I've noticed time and time again that this aspect works for "orignal, unique, and quirky" relationships. Whether it be there culture, age, and maybe even physical differences like height/weight. Also, I think it's best if there are strong uranus aspects in there own charts, like your husband. Otherwise, it could be too much to handle ( I have this aspect as well )

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Dreaming111
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posted September 14, 2012 02:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
I'm glad you brought that up because I've noticed time and time again that this aspect works for "orignal, unique, and quirky" relationships. Whether it be there culture, age, and maybe even physical differences like height/weight. Also, I think it's best if there are strong uranus aspects in there own charts, like your husband. Otherwise, it could be too much to handle ( I have this aspect as well )

Ours was a difference in

- religion
- education
- race
- location ( It was a long distance thing)
- social standing
- even politically we are of two different parties. : /
- huge height difference

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posted September 14, 2012 02:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Ours was a difference in

- religion
- education
- race
- location ( It was a long distance thing)
- social standing
- even politically we are of two different parties. : /
- huge height difference


Interesting, and would you agree that this aspect "worked" for you despite leaving later on?

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posted September 14, 2012 03:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for awakemer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
falling in love really fast, lots of excitement. unusual relationship (eccentric) ends just as quickly.

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JLyn ~
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posted September 14, 2012 03:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for JLyn ~     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
we both do not have this in our natal

this guy I'm been seeing for literally a year now.
he's 10 years older than me and living with his ex wife. the first second we met was instant-gaga attraction i never felt before and the attraction is still exciting and passionate. PHENOMENAL

My logic catches up with me and I have the "talk" with him about this relationship ain't going no where and I feel stuck... I'm the uranus... he just can't leave me alone tho

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posted September 14, 2012 06:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CRCRINCON:
My husband has the square it natally. We have it in synastry as well. I am Aquarius moon and have Sun parallel Uranus. He is Mexican and I am white and this aspect can indicate biracial relationships. We have everything listed above! We have been married for 4 yrs together since 2006. I'm still as madly inlove as day one! We have a magical love story and I feel very blessed! So definitely not always a bad aspect!

Congratulations! Wife is Caucasian and I'm Asian. 20 years next May.

We both have this in our natals as well.

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posted September 14, 2012 10:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Interesting, and would you agree that this aspect "worked" for you despite leaving later on?

Yeah, the differences eventually became nonissues. It wasn't that big of a deal because we shared the same life principles. That was one thing that we hadn't seen in others and though was quite rare. We were at ease with each other and were very comfortable.

The reason for the break was probably the neptune and 12th house effects. There was lots we were holding back, while we did divulge the most to one another. I've never told anyone about my "secrets" and neither has he, but eventually we started telling each other very sensitive and exclusive info. lol But after a point, even that wasn't enough, we realized that it was just too much that wasn't expressed and hidden.

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posted September 14, 2012 07:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CRCRINCON     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Congratulations! Wife is Caucasian and I'm Asian. 20 years next May.

We both have this in our natals as well.


Thank you! And to you too!

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posted September 14, 2012 09:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In composite has been very erratic. In synastry is more manageable. I have the opp with someone I am interested in.

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posted September 15, 2012 01:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
To CRCRINCON and Love TrulyAlways, I have some questions for you:

In which houses does your natal Venus and Uranus fall in your chart and also in your partner's chart. In which houses in your chart your partner's Venus and Uranus fall?

I am trying to determine if the houses placements of Venus and Uranus determine whether or not this challenging aspect can be tolerated or not. Thanks a lot.

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posted September 15, 2012 01:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lioness:
I guess it depends on it it's some how out of the norm.

Yes, in synastry we got together suddenly, and we weren't a traditional pair up in the least.

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posted September 15, 2012 02:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CRCRINCON     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Belage:
To CRCRINCON and Love TrulyAlways, I have some questions for you:

In which houses does your natal Venus and Uranus fall in your chart and also in your partner's chart. In which houses in your chart your partner's Venus and Uranus fall?

I am trying to determine if the houses placements of Venus and Uranus determine whether or not this challenging aspect can be tolerated or not. Thanks a lot.


Hi Belage! My husbands Venus leo is in my 7th. My Leo Venus is in his 5th. His 7th house libra Uranus lands exactly on my MC. And my 9th uranus libra lands in his 7th. I think I said this before, but I also have sun parallel Uranus and Aquarius moon in 1st house.

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posted September 15, 2012 09:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Taking note, CRCRINCON. that these planets fall in each other's important relationship's sectors. I also wonder if either or both of you also have Aquarius sun, venus or rising, or natal Uranus powerful in the natal chart.

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posted September 15, 2012 11:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CRCRINCON     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Belage:
Taking note, CRCRINCON. that these planets fall in each other's important relationship's sectors. I also wonder if either or both of you also have Aquarius sun, venus or rising, or natal Uranus powerful in the natal chart.

Hi Belage. No. He has gemini sun Third house. My Virgo sun is 8th house and that is where my Venus is too. (forgot to tell you that in last post). But along with that moon Aquarius in the 1st I have my sun parallel Uranus is a strong aspect to have in a chart. And I have Uranus conjunct mc natally. I have uranus square saturn natally. My husband has sun semi sequadrate Uranus, mercury trine Uranus, Uranus inconjunct AC and Uranus sextile MC. So it's strong in both our charts! We also share the generational Chiron opposed Uranus natally and through synastry. I've spent a great deal of time trying to figure out the Uranus aspects in our chart and have concluded our biracial marriage is part of it, we also got together in an unusual way, and then personality wise we are unique.

His rising is Aries and mine is cap btw.

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posted September 15, 2012 01:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CRCRINCON:
Hi Belage. No. He has gemini sun Third house. My Virgo sun is 8th house and that is where my Venus is too. (forgot to tell you that in last post). But along with that moon Aquarius in the 1st I have my sun parallel Uranus is a strong aspect to have in a chart. And I have Uranus conjunct mc natally. I have uranus square saturn natally. My husband has sun semi sequadrate Uranus, mercury trine Uranus, Uranus inconjunct AC and Uranus sextile MC. So it's strong in both our charts! We also share the generational Chiron opposed Uranus natally and through synastry. I've spent a great deal of time trying to figure out the Uranus aspects in our chart and have concluded our biracial marriage is part of it, we also got together in an unusual way, and then personality wise we are unique.

His rising is Aries and mine is cap btw.


Fascinating. Thanks for the breakdown.

Both charts do seem to have unusual Uranian aspects, and I guess that makes it easier to deal with Venus square Uranus in synastry.

How did the Uranus play out in the composite? Still many challenging aspects?

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posted September 16, 2012 09:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It was instant attraction on their part. Didn't think they were my type. That until we spoke, then I was charmed and magnetized...besotted.

We had two blissful days, hooking up since has been tricky, something always comes up.

Their Uranus oppose my Sun & square my Asc/Dsc axis.

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posted September 16, 2012 02:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CRCRINCON     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Belage:
Fascinating. Thanks for the breakdown.

Both charts do seem to have unusual Uranian aspects, and I guess that makes it easier to deal with Venus square Uranus in synastry.

How did the Uranus play out in the composite? Still many challenging aspects?


I will post our composite. It is simply beautiful if I do say do myself! and there is no Venus square Uranus in the composite.

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posted September 16, 2012 03:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Belage:
To CRCRINCON and Love TrulyAlways, I have some questions for you:

In which houses does your natal Venus and Uranus fall in your chart and also in your partner's chart. In which houses in your chart your partner's Venus and Uranus fall?

I am trying to determine if the houses placements of Venus and Uranus determine whether or not this challenging aspect can be tolerated or not. Thanks a lot.


Hi Belage,

I'm no expert, so I'm going to direct you to all the charts for your expert analysis.

Sorry it took me some time to get back to you.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/002836.html

Thank you.

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