posted September 17, 2012 10:02 AM            

so...I'd like to know, how do you know the difference? is there any difference? between just trusting someone and to fall for someone? Are they from different spectrum for you? Is it possible for you to trust someone so close to you but not a chance to fall for them?

posted September 17, 2012 04:54 PM            

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Originally posted by crabbypatty:
I'm a Scorpio sun, and I've been known to tell very personal things to people of the opposite sex who I know I can trust, even if otherwise the feelings are platonic. So I don't think this is necessarily an indicator he's fallen for you. Not saying he hasn't, anyway. Time will tell (I hope).

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^ Yes and yes.

Trust and love are different things, oh trust me on this.

It's easier for me to trust people who I see as just friends, because when my feelings get in the way I get paranoid and suspicious and find it hard to actually open up to the other person.

So I guess it really depends.

If it looks like he likes you romantically then it's definitely a great plus.

Either way, having a Scorpio trust you is a big thing so you can consider yourself lucky.

posted September 17, 2012 08:31 PM            

i can feel his pain somehow, I feel the exact same way for my dad the way he feels for his mum which I guess made me and him connect quite well. I just thought it was sad that his mum never planned to have him, the thought of having him aborted, ugh, it just give me chills I was so close to crying just imagining him not being by my side. He means so much to me and to be honest, I wouldn't have any idea what to do if I lost him I'm so glad his mum kept him

posted September 17, 2012 08:49 PM            

Having said that, there was a barrier that I kept with him. It's a weird thing but since it was online, I felt it was ok to tell him.
One I loved him. Two if I felt that he was wrong I could up and leave and that would be that. He didn't have my real name. So....yeah.

I have not told people in real life certain things because I'm really reputation conscience. I don't like people in my business because a couple times I couldn't get them out after. LOL

posted September 21, 2012 01:56 PM            

I will say now that I trust more easily. It takes ALOT of conscious effort but I'm getting there. I have learned that our thoughts really do attract said things into our lives. That sounds like some "The Secret" mumbo jumbo but it's true, just in a common sense way. Our thoughts affect our behavior and our behavior affects how others feel about us and subsequently treat us. So the more suspicious and controlling I am, and anxious about being betrayed or abandoned, the more my behavior drives people away and then I feel like my worst fear has just happened.

I still don't tell everything about myself to everyone, even those closest to me. But, I'm getting much better at self-disclosure. And, of course, if I can do that with someone, it means they matter a lot to me.

posted September 22, 2012 08:40 AM            

From a good number of the Scorpio moon men I've known/been involved with platonically and romantically, none of them ever beat around the bush when they had to tell me anything. I often think that if a male with Scorpio moon likes a girl, he would have gone out and gotten her. I don't think he'd wait for her to make any moves.They're not someone who will string a person along, either. Scorpio moon is intense, possessive, obsessive, and emotionally very involved. They are not ones to sit around and wait for stuff to happen but they are ones who go out and create action... for worst or better. They always said things in a straight to the point sort of way but open to discussion and welcomed dialog. I'm a Pisces moon and often encounter Scorpio moon people and we instantly care and understand each other (male or female).