posted September 17, 2012 08:32 PM            

1. How do you approach life? Optimistically, realistcally, or anything I haven't mentioned.

2. What are your feelings and thoughts regarding one night stands?

3. What are your feelings and thoughts you feel regarding sex in a relationship?

4. Do you feel as if you are highly sensitive?

5. Have you been taken for granted or hurt deeply by people you love?

6. How do you handle disputes? Do you lash out, become quiet, cry, punch things, walk away, get even?

7. Do you feel as if the world can be against you and you have no one to really count on? If not was there a long phase in your life where you felt that way?

8. When you fall in love, do you doubt the feeling or love?

9. What are somethings your significant other has done in a relationship to turn you off or somehow hurt your sentiments?

10. Pick one: foreplay, cuddling, sex, talking?

I know this might be to cliched but what do you think:
11...of kids,

12...about having a family,

13...and getting pregnant?

14. If someone breaks up with you, what is the natural progression of your feelings?

15. If you want to break up with soemone, how do you tend to go about it?

16. What are your turn ons?

17. What are your turn offs?

18. What's your gender?

19. What do you classify yourself as: straight, bisexual, homosexual, transexual, transvestite, bi-curious, confused --lol?

20. Do you consider yourself a rebel or would like to rebel against the norm?

21. If people looked through your stuff one day, would they be surprised at what they find?

22. Are you creative?

Alrighty, so answer what you can. This is just because I'm really curious about how you think and what goes on up there.

Thanks

posted September 17, 2012 09:20 PM            

Well, the crab kept it up and was so paranoid about me that it didn't realize there was a huge bulldozer driving along the shore sweeping up and flattening the sand..

The rest is crab history.

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"To PLAY is human.

posted September 17, 2012 09:25 PM            

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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
I meditated on the beach after a long night of partying and drinking til sunrise and saw a crab come out of it's hole in the morning.. I sat there and watched it come out and go back into it's little hole even though i didn't move and had no intentions of catching it.

Well, the crab kept it up and was so paranoid about me that it didn't realize there was a huge bulldozer driving along the shore sweeping up and flattening the sand..

The rest is crab history.

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posted September 17, 2012 09:31 PM            

First and foremost, I'll list important aspects. I have Mars in the 29th so it's an uncomfortable and erratic Mars. I have it in the 8th with a strong trine to Scorpio Pluto in the 12th, so my Mars feels a little Scorponic, especially in relationships, since it's my 5H ruler. It opposes 2h Cap Neptune-Uranus. It sextiles my Virgo MC. It biquintiles my Libra Sun.

Now, onto questions.

1. My approach to life fluctuates. I have to be emotionally invested to really care. I'm extremely intense, and this can sometimes freak people out... even the way I can look at them, I've been told, is a little much. I have a very magnetic appeal to some but I can just as easily turn off with it. Optimistically I just want to be myself around people I care about, and get away from having too many close family ties. This Mars made a lot of strife in a household of women growing up for me. Realistically I'll never fully escape them but I need to cut the cord and move on.

2. One-night stands are absolutely not for me. I wouldn't mind fooling around a little but having sex with a stranger would be humiliating and disturbing to me. This also speaks of my Scorpio Venus. I have to feel loyal to someone and really obsessed before sex.

3. See the above. But also, I have a bit of power play/dominance issues. Like many Cancer Mars and/or Venus people BDSM appeals to me, to a healthy and moderate degree, and I can be quite possessive... and very up and down about my conquests. I can be overly emotional and flighty and then pummel my partner with possessiveness and control when I'm at my worst. At my best, I'm quite sensual and like to incorporate light dominance/submission aspects to simulate spiritual closeness on a physical level with someone. This sort of thing might freak people out but I'm not into it on a freaky, over the top level.

4. YES. Especially to female family members, female relatives. Often have dreams about them, can sense their moods easily, fight with them a lot. Can be verbally abusive to them since my Mercury squares my Mars, always felt they were to me too.

5. YES. Especially female family members... but I easily feel slighted and not appreciated enough by others and it can happen in love too. I just want them to appreciate me and be sensual, acknowledge my efforts.

6. Lash out, verbally - Merc square, in Scorpio, so man it can get intense, intense, intense. I also hide my deep sense of anger unless it explodes out - that's 12H Pluto trine, where I have actually punched an abuser out of anger before. But most of the time I'll keep my control and cry or scream in private.

7. Yeah. Basically for a lot of my life I've felt this way, since I'm a very unique person. I feel this is more to do with my lack of familial support from the start more than anything though. Cancer Mars for me = family strife

8. I'm a very suspicious and paranoid person at times, but this is also more from Mars-Pluto and Scorpio Venus combined. I just need to have so much emotional submersion, intensity, etc. that it can be too much for people... and even when I get it with others I sometimes have a little voice in my head that doubts the whole thing. It's hard to shut it up.

9. I hate it when my current boyfriend ignores my sensual efforts or is way too practical concerning our relationship. I also find it a turn-off when someone doesn't try to be sensual and romantic, like cuddling a little bit and falling asleep in the same bed. It's funny since today I just read on an astro site that a turn-off for Cancer Mars is just falling asleep and dreaming together... it is so true for me. How about that.

10. Sex with talking. Incorporate both. Communication is key.

11. I don't want to have children. I have BML in the 5th, Moon-Chiron conjunct, and other indicators that represent the mindset that I don't have the time or ability to raise kids. Adopting is a possibility but the idea of giving birth physically makes me ill.

12. I don't want to have a family. My life is going to be extremely busy and I don't have the time or emotional ability to settle down.

13. Worries me, makes me feel weird... yet BML in the 5th makes me have this weird desire, as I've always had, to do what repulses me. It's how Lilith operates, it gives you weird desires that make your skin crawl. I think deep down inside I would want to be pregnant but I know I never could. My Mars supports this also.

14. It's very intense. A lot of heartbreak, feeling extremely depressed and blue. Unable to eat, since my Cancer Mars and Virgo Moon give me stomach issues, and with emotional issues and anxiety I either can't eat at all for more than a day or two, or overeat, but usually the former. I would actually get to a point where I'd probably try to reconcile since Mars-Pluto never gives up... even when it's useless to try.

15. I really have so much guilt with it. That's Mars-Neptune. I'd be really gentle but would probably get unexpectedly emotional and cry. My moods are unexpected. That's Mars-Uranus.

16. Cuddling, holding each other, sensual rubbing [like massages, etc.], a little bondage, the neck and lower back, anything sexual outdoors, etc.

17. Bad hygiene, a partner rejecting a playful advance, not seeing someone on a weekly basis, a lack of communication, really bad breath [I'm super sensitive about this one omg], poor fashion sense [more of my Libra Sun snob lol], sexual acts without any kissing involved, no foreplay

18. Female.

19. I'm sexually adventurous so I'm probably bi-curious, if not a little bisexual. I see no harm in it, since I mostly think I prefer male partners but I'm sure the day will come when I'm meant to explore that side of myself.

20. Yes, Mars-Uranus makes me sexually exhilarating but a little out there and pushing the envelope at times... and moody. I'm rebellious in many other ways too. I have a lot of 11th house planets and I'm Moon-Uranus and quite Uranian.

21. No. 12H Pluto makes me good at concealing my darker side and darker possessions, not that I even have many.

22. EXTREMELY, can you tell? Poet, abstract artist, blogger, etc.

posted September 18, 2012 12:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
I just want to know what it's like with mars in cancer.

1. How do you approach life? Optimistically, realistcally, or anything I haven't mentioned.

2. What are your feelings and thoughts regarding one night stands?

3. What are your feelings and thoughts you feel regarding sex in a relationship?

4. Do you feel as if you are highly sensitive?

5. Have you been taken for granted or hurt deeply by people you love?

6. How do you handle disputes? Do you lash out, become quiet, cry, punch things, walk away, get even?

7. Do you feel as if the world can be against you and you have no one to really count on? If not was there a long phase in your life where you felt that way?

8. When you fall in love, do you doubt the feeling or love?

9. What are somethings your significant other has done in a relationship to turn you off or somehow hurt your sentiments?

10. Pick one: foreplay, cuddling, sex, talking?

I know this might be to cliched but what do you think:
11...of kids,

12...about having a family,

13...and getting pregnant?

14. If someone breaks up with you, what is the natural progression of your feelings?

15. If you want to break up with soemone, how do you tend to go about it?

16. What are your turn ons?

17. What are your turn offs?

18. What's your gender?

19. What do you classify yourself as: straight, bisexual, homosexual, transexual, transvestite, bi-curious, confused --lol?

20. Do you consider yourself a rebel or would like to rebel against the norm?

21. If people looked through your stuff one day, would they be surprised at what they find?

22. Are you creative?

Alrighty, so answer what you can. This is just because I'm really curious about how you think and what goes on up there.

Thanks

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I'm trying to figure out whether everyone with Mars in Cancer should be flattered by this laundry list of questions, or offended. I'm also trying to figure out if your interest is innocent in nature or more malevolent...

posted September 18, 2012 01:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Gray:
I'm trying to figure out whether everyone with Mars in Cancer should be flattered by this laundry list of questions, or offended. I'm also trying to figure out if your interest is innocent in nature or more malevolent...

Until I figure it out, I'm saying jacksh*t...

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No, I'm genuinely interested, but why do you get so offended so quickly by things? Of course I'm going ot ask a few cliched and odd ball questions. that was bound to happen because these are questions that I am not sure apply to mars in cancer. I'm just trying to find out. You need to relax just a tad. No one is out to get you.

posted September 18, 2012 01:25 AM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
Oh, so you want to know about our kind... well, you're in for it. It's not an easy cross to bear, Mars in Cancer. I feel I got the short end of the stick since it's also in my 8th house. Fun times.

First and foremost, I'll list important aspects. I have Mars in the 29th so it's an uncomfortable and erratic Mars. I have it in the 8th with a strong trine to Scorpio Pluto in the 12th, so my Mars feels a little Scorponic, especially in relationships, since it's my 5H ruler. It opposes 2h Cap Neptune-Uranus. It sextiles my Virgo MC. It biquintiles my Libra Sun.

Now, onto questions.

1. My approach to life fluctuates. I have to be emotionally invested to really care. I'm extremely intense, and this can sometimes freak people out... even the way I can look at them, I've been told, is a little much. I have a very magnetic appeal to some but I can just as easily turn off with it. Optimistically I just want to be myself around people I care about, and get away from having too many close family ties. This Mars made a lot of strife in a household of women growing up for me. Realistically I'll never fully escape them but I need to cut the cord and move on.

2. One-night stands are absolutely not for me. I wouldn't mind fooling around a little but having sex with a stranger would be humiliating and disturbing to me. This also speaks of my Scorpio Venus. I have to feel loyal to someone and really obsessed before sex.

3. See the above. But also, I have a bit of power play/dominance issues. Like many Cancer Mars and/or Venus people BDSM appeals to me, to a healthy and moderate degree, and I can be quite possessive... and very up and down about my conquests. I can be overly emotional and flighty and then pummel my partner with possessiveness and control when I'm at my worst. At my best, I'm quite sensual and like to incorporate light dominance/submission aspects to simulate spiritual closeness on a physical level with someone. This sort of thing might freak people out but I'm not into it on a freaky, over the top level.

4. YES. Especially to female family members, female relatives. Often have dreams about them, can sense their moods easily, fight with them a lot. Can be verbally abusive to them since my Mercury squares my Mars, always felt they were to me too.

5. YES. Especially female family members... but I easily feel slighted and not appreciated enough by others and it can happen in love too. I just want them to appreciate me and be sensual, acknowledge my efforts.

6. Lash out, verbally - Merc square, in Scorpio, so man it can get intense, intense, intense. I also hide my deep sense of anger unless it explodes out - that's 12H Pluto trine, where I have actually punched an abuser out of anger before. But most of the time I'll keep my control and cry or scream in private.

7. Yeah. Basically for a lot of my life I've felt this way, since I'm a very unique person. I feel this is more to do with my lack of familial support from the start more than anything though. Cancer Mars for me = family strife

8. I'm a very suspicious and paranoid person at times, but this is also more from Mars-Pluto and Scorpio Venus combined. I just need to have so much emotional submersion, intensity, etc. that it can be too much for people... and even when I get it with others I sometimes have a little voice in my head that doubts the whole thing. It's hard to shut it up.

9. I hate it when my current boyfriend ignores my sensual efforts or is way too practical concerning our relationship. I also find it a turn-off when someone doesn't try to be sensual and romantic, like cuddling a little bit and falling asleep in the same bed. It's funny since today I just read on an astro site that a turn-off for Cancer Mars is just falling asleep and dreaming together... it is so true for me. How about that.

10. Sex with talking. Incorporate both. Communication is key.

11. I don't want to have children. I have BML in the 5th, Moon-Chiron conjunct, and other indicators that represent the mindset that I don't have the time or ability to raise kids. Adopting is a possibility but the idea of giving birth physically makes me ill.

12. I don't want to have a family. My life is going to be extremely busy and I don't have the time or emotional ability to settle down.

13. Worries me, makes me feel weird... yet BML in the 5th makes me have this weird desire, as I've always had, to do what repulses me. It's how Lilith operates, it gives you weird desires that make your skin crawl. I think deep down inside I would want to be pregnant but I know I never could. My Mars supports this also.

14. It's very intense. A lot of heartbreak, feeling extremely depressed and blue. Unable to eat, since my Cancer Mars and Virgo Moon give me stomach issues, and with emotional issues and anxiety I either can't eat at all for more than a day or two, or overeat, but usually the former. I would actually get to a point where I'd probably try to reconcile since Mars-Pluto never gives up... even when it's useless to try.

15. I really have so much guilt with it. That's Mars-Neptune. I'd be really gentle but would probably get unexpectedly emotional and cry. My moods are unexpected. That's Mars-Uranus.

16. Cuddling, holding each other, sensual rubbing [like massages, etc.], a little bondage, the neck and lower back, anything sexual outdoors, etc.

17. Bad hygiene, a partner rejecting a playful advance, not seeing someone on a weekly basis, a lack of communication, really bad breath [I'm super sensitive about this one omg], poor fashion sense [more of my Libra Sun snob lol], sexual acts without any kissing involved, no foreplay

18. Female.

19. I'm sexually adventurous so I'm probably bi-curious, if not a little bisexual. I see no harm in it, since I mostly think I prefer male partners but I'm sure the day will come when I'm meant to explore that side of myself.

20. Yes, Mars-Uranus makes me sexually exhilarating but a little out there and pushing the envelope at times... and moody. I'm rebellious in many other ways too. I have a lot of 11th house planets and I'm Moon-Uranus and quite Uranian.

21. No. 12H Pluto makes me good at concealing my darker side and darker possessions, not that I even have many.

22. EXTREMELY, can you tell? Poet, abstract artist, blogger, etc.

I hope this wasn't too long for you. That's a window into a Mars in Cancer's mind, and really, heart. Mine at least.

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Hey thanks so much!

Actually it's a bit tough asking these questions about one aspect because your personality is flowered with everything else going on in your chart. Yet, it does shine some light, thank you for taking the time to explain yourself. hehe

posted September 21, 2012 05:03 PM            

2. What are your feelings and thoughts regarding one night stands?
Each to their own. Wouldn't do it myself though!

3. What are your feelings and thoughts you feel regarding sex in a relationship?
Not that high a priority. Companionship and mental rapport are top of the list for me.

4. Do you feel as if you are highly sensitive?
This is hard to answer. I think I am and aren't. I have empathy for others but I can also be very contained. I am sentitive to criticism but don't tend to show it.

5. Have you been taken for granted or hurt deeply by people you love?
Never hurt. Family and parents do lean on me a lot. I was always the dependable one.

6. How do you handle disputes?
I don't like confrontations. I like an easy life with no hassle. Charged atmospheres and emotional undercurrents make me nervous. I prefer it when everything is running smoothly.

7. Do you feel as if the world can be against you and you have no one to really count on? If not was there a long phase in your life where you felt that way?
I always had to stand on my own two feet. I never had emotional support from my parents. I felt the outsider. Childhood was a lonely place. Happier to be older. I have come to realise that support comes from within. I am my own emotional support and stronger for it.

8. When you fall in love, do you doubt the feeling or love?
I believe in love at first sight. The first time I met my future husband, i *just knew* he was the one. We got engaged within 3 months and now been married 18 years, 2 kids, and still going strong.

9. What are somethings your significant other has done in a relationship to turn you off or somehow hurt your sentiments?
He forgot Mother's Day - that hurt. I get sentimental about special days.

10. Pick one: foreplay, cuddling, sex, talking?
Got to be the talking! Could talk all night if we got into a juicy conversation.

I know this might be to cliched but what do you think:
11...of kids,
Always wanted to be a mum. Have two boys. Neighbourhood kids like hanging around my kitchen.

12...about having a family,
Always wanted my own family. Was incredibly broody before having first child - noticed babies and prams everywhere and it hurt because I wanted one so much!

13...and getting pregnant?
Both pregnancies were very easy like I was suited to it. Don't feel the need for any more. Feel complete.

14. If someone breaks up with you, what is the natural progression of your feelings?
Have never gone through a break up. First relationship is still going strong after 21 years together.

15. If you want to break up with soemone, how do you tend to go about it?
Have never had to do this.

16. What are your turn ons?
Mental rapport, touchy-feely stuff like a good back rub or massage, friendly banter and a bit of cheeky flirting (with husband - we still flirt with each other)

17. What are your turn offs?
Feeling under pressure to perform when I'm not in the mood.

18. What's your gender?
Female

19. What do you classify yourself as: straight, bisexual, homosexual, transexual, transvestite, bi-curious, confused --lol?
Straight with an enquiring mind

20. Do you consider yourself a rebel or would like to rebel against the norm?
I've always done little things to rebel in my own quiet way. Nothing dramatic. Just little things. Proud to be unique and individualistic. Who wants to follow the flock anyway?

21. If people looked through your stuff one day, would they be surprised at what they find?
Yes, because I am extremely private and even my nearest and dearest don't really *know* me.