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posted September 19, 2012 12:32 AM            

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say you are in a group setting with the object of your affection.. you are the most outgoing being making eye contact and all. BUT, when you are one on one....why the sudden coldness?

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posted September 19, 2012 12:40 AM            

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posted September 19, 2012 12:50 AM            

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I do not mind doing all the talking i just want the other person to sit and listen, loool.

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posted September 19, 2012 12:58 AM            

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I know someone with the two conjunct (my sister) and her problem isn't a lack of self-esteem; in fact, far from it - her desktop background on her own iPad is usually a picture of herself. It manifests more as just being a cold, hard-hearted person. At one point I was going back and forth with her in an email trying to explain to her why a person should care what happens to their family members and then I realized that she was just incapable of understanding something like that, because she isn't 'hardwired' to, and gave up. This is someone with Venus in SCORPIO conjunct Saturn, mind you...

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posted September 19, 2012 08:15 AM            

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mhmmm! but maybe they do feel but not show it?

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posted September 19, 2012 11:18 AM            

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I don't know I have this aspect, pretty weak though, but I'm not like that at all. I can talk and whatnot. Im not uncomfortable with being one on one if I really want it. If I don't fancy the person then yeah will give them the ride, make a point of my indifference etc

Generally I think people who make their lovers emotionally uncomfortable had better stay single and not date

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