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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12853 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 20, 2012 07:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: Who RedScorp? He only trolls you, because of the reasons that I mentioned. Because you are rude. And Sand isn't a troll..I don't know who else you mean.
hmm actually he has been a smart alec to me from day 1 , you can choose to justify it if you wish. I have chosen to ignore it for the most part and have tried to be the bigger person, but it has been trying to say the least. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 8223 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 20, 2012 07:45 AM
He probably just noticed the passive aggressiveness in you and decided he didnt like you and then that was the first time he talked to you. I agree that its not the best way to handle the situation on his part and I do admire your tendency to stay quiet around him and not pick a fight, but at least he's being honest about his dislike and not playing games, and also, at least, he is not going to everyone of your posts and trolling you. I mean, that's kinda what you do, often, generally, on anyone's posts. And look let's just leave it at that. Do whatever suits you. like I said. Makes no sense in going around pointing fingers saying "but he does it, too!" That doesn't make what you do any less wrong. I feel he says what he says to you for a good reason (which he says if rarely, even).I felt bad because I thought you werent aware of how you were coming across, but now I see you're even doing it purposely. That's fine. Trolls always get what's coming to them. A lot of people already dislike you on the forum. I don't want you to feel excluded, because that's not my goal. But it's disturbing that you're saying people get applauded on the forum for being smart alecs? and you're admitting to being a smart alec. Let's just end it here. Like I said, I was trying to be helpful and point out something to you because I thought maybe you weren't aware, but i see you do it on purpose. I'll just ignore it from now on. It's fine. ------------------ $3.50 ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility | Q&A IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12853 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 20, 2012 08:18 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: He probably just noticed the passive aggressiveness in you and decided he didnt like you and then that was the first time he talked to you. I agree that its not the best way to handle the situation on his part and I do admire your tendency to stay quiet around him and not pick a fight, but at least he's being honest about his dislike and not playing games, and also, at least, he is not going to everyone of your posts and trolling you. I mean, that's kinda what you do, often, generally, on anyone's posts. And look let's just leave it at that. Do whatever suits you. like I said. Makes no sense in going around pointing fingers saying "but he does it, too!" That doesn't make what you do any less wrong. I feel he says what he says to you for a good reason (which he says if rarely, even).I felt bad because I thought you werent aware of how you were coming across, but now I see you're even doing it purposely. That's fine. Trolls always get what's coming to them. A lot of people already dislike you on the forum. I don't want you to feel excluded, because that's not my goal. But it's disturbing that you're saying people get applauded on the forum for being smart alecs? and you're admitting to being a smart alec. Let's just end it here. Like I said, I was trying to be helpful and point out something to you because I thought maybe you weren't aware, but i see you do it on purpose. I'll just ignore it from now on. It's fine.
you can choose to dislike me if you want, I don't give a flying f*ck! but the fact is redscorp has been far and away more disrespectful then I have ever been. he came out of nowhere in one thread and basically called me ugly, and when I objected to being disrespected like that, his only response was "let it go!" and wouldn't you know several members defended him, they said "I'm sure he didn't mean it to be mean" and I was thinking really?!?!? have I ever been that disrespectful to you ras? no I have not. the fact of the matter is I have never tried to be mean or nasty to anyone here, I have become unpopular because I disagree with stuff others say, but I have always tried to voice my disagreement in a polite manner, I have not stooped to personal attacks even though I myself have been personally attacked. I admit teasing you somewhat, but I mean no harm, I'll stop since it offends you. but I'm no troll and I'm not passive agresssive. also you said I never contribute anything useful, which is the epitome of hypocrisy! lots of people get off topic in every single thread and your gonna call me out on it? also since your giving me the third degree, I just thought I should let you know that you come across as an elitist know it all who gets offended when anybody disagrees with what you say.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 8223 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 20, 2012 08:31 AM
Some of the things I have seen you say are good reason to stir up so many hurt feelings from others. You might say you're not passive aggressive, but that's what it comes off as. You may not realize it, but probably because you don't express your anger right out, like say, calling someone ugly, it comes out in little ways which are obvious to others...little ways...here and there..like little mean comments that are played off as a joke. That's it. That's being passive aggressive. It's hard to see oneself objectively sometimes, and it's easy to feel like a victim. But don't. You are not a victim, aquaguy. And nobody is after you. You do that to yourself. But if you think about it, that's the most empowering thing you can realize. Because once you see that, you'll see it's nothing personal against you. I mean no one on the forum even knows you. Just try to look more objectively at how you write things.There's no problem in disagreeing with others, it's just the teasing and apparent mind games. Yep, I know i come off that way. I am trying to work on it. ------------------ $3.50 ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility | Q&A IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 20, 2012 08:39 AM
sags dey always late! oh i said that already. sup holmes? IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 8223 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 20, 2012 08:45 AM
How're ya sand?  Good mornin' to ya big guy! ------------------ $3.50 ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility | Q&A IP: Logged |
earthypisces Knowflake Posts: 544 From: Greenville, South Carolina Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 20, 2012 08:46 AM
I wish we could all get along like we used to in middle school. I wish I could bake a cake filled with rainbows and smiles and everyone would eat and be happy.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 8223 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 20, 2012 08:49 AM
lol at above comment. haha.i realize that i could've just ignored the post, it's just that i've ignored aquaguy for a long time now and i felt bad that he seemed to get a lot of hate and may not know why this might sound kind mushy, but i'd rather cause some disharmony temporarily than see someone feel like they're a victim everywhere they go and see them suffer ------------------ $3.50 ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility | Q&A IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 1385 From: Silent Hill Registered: Aug 2011
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posted September 20, 2012 08:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by earthypisces: I wish we could all get along like we used to in middle school. I wish I could bake a cake filled with rainbows and smiles and everyone would eat and be happy.
I'm so sorry. I couldn't resist. I just love cake... I would partake in it, at least  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12853 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 20, 2012 08:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: Some of the things I have seen you say are good reason to stir up so many hurt feelings from others. You might say you're not passive aggressive, but that's what it comes off as. You may not realize it, but probably because you don't express your anger right out, like say, calling someone ugly, it comes out in little ways which are obvious to others...little ways...here and there..like little mean comments that are played off as a joke. That's it. That's being passive aggressive. It's hard to see oneself objectively sometimes, and it's easy to feel like a victim. But don't. You are not a victim, aquaguy. And nobody is after you. You do that to yourself. But if you think about it, that's the most empowering thing you can realize. Because once you see that, you'll see it's nothing personal against you. I mean no one on the forum even knows you. Just try to look more objectively at how you write things.There's no problem in disagreeing with others, it's just the teasing and apparent mind games. Yep, I know i come off that way. I am trying to work on it.
honestly I don't try to be mean or hurtful, I'll try to work on it. I honestly just try to be playful. this isn't about me trying to be a victim or make others look bad, its about fairness, I feel like if I'm getting called out and lectured, its only fair that we also take note of others whose behavior is questionable. back a few months ago when there was lots of drama going on here, everybody was ganging up and blaming one member and I stepped in and basically said" yea she's kind of in the wrong, but so are ya'll!" that's the way I think it should be,if we're gonna call out one person for being disrespectful or whatever, we need to call out everybody who does the same thing, otherwise its kind of hypocritical.
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RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 8223 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 20, 2012 09:04 AM
Ok. promise me ull work on it? I appreciate your feedback too about the way i come across. 
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ail221 Moderator Posts: 7119 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 20, 2012 09:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow: I'm so sorry. I couldn't resist. I just love cake... I would partake in it, at least 
I came just in time for the cake  IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 8223 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 20, 2012 09:09 AM
^haha!Hmm i wonder what rainbow-flavored tastes like  pfft..probably heaven. obviously.
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sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 20, 2012 09:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: How're ya sand?  Good mornin' to ya big guy!
i have no more hair!!  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12853 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 20, 2012 09:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: Ok. promise me ull work on it? I appreciate your feedback too about the way i come across. 
I will. honestly I don't try to be mean. my sense of humor does not go over well on the internet, but ppl think its funny IRL. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 8223 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 20, 2012 09:18 AM
mmm mmkay i understand  Yeah i have a uranian sense of humor too so i can kind of relate, it's hard to express it online since it's shocking but all about ur tone, which is hard to tell online------------------ $3.50 ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility | Q&A IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 8223 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 20, 2012 09:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by sand: i have no more hair!! 
whaaaat WHY D: ------------------ $3.50 ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility | Q&A IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 7119 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 20, 2012 09:40 AM
Sags seriously needs friends if not they'll cry ALOT OR drink A LOT.Aquas are uncomfortable with loneliness IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 8223 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 20, 2012 09:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by ail221: Sags seriously needs friends if not they'll cry ALOT OR drink A LOT.Aquas are uncomfortable with loneliness
awww that's so sad lol. i had no idea aquas? ooo i thought they were supposed to be the loners or something like that. I never really understood that concept. I think it was that they have lots of friends but never get too close to any of them. Think that was it. Remind me, though? ------------------ $3.50 ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility | Q&A IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 7119 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 20, 2012 09:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: awww that's so sad lol. i had no ideaaquas? ooo i thought they were supposed to be the loners or something like that. I never really understood that concept. I think it was that they have lots of friends but never get too close to any of them. Think that was it.
I have a trolley of Sagittarius friends both male and female and I don't know if its the water in me that makes them want to lay out their problems and deep emotions its really surprising. I think its because their mutable like Gemini, Virgo, Pisces etc they can be so happy go luckly but then repress whatever they're truly feeling in order to keep everyone's mood up.Literally two different personalities I used to think Aquas were natural loners like Scorpio or Cancer no their uncomfortable being alone, one Aqua friend that stands out in general has thousands of fb friends almost like a cult following and if no one is paying her the attention she wants she'll spam fb, call everyone she knows in the area she does not like being alone IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 8223 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 20, 2012 09:59 AM
omg that makes so much sense about aquas!Yes, i think bc we are cancers in general ppl tend to spill how they really feel to us. A sagittarius guy friend of mine also told me something like that...specifically that he often has a lot of friends but still feels very depressed even though he always seemse happy go lucky. I dunno if that was bc he has scorp moon gem rising tho but omg! that is so true about aquas! I had an aqua best friend and she stopped hanging out with me my senior yr of high school.when she was a sophomore, so she could acquaint herself with other people at school, so she wouldnt be all alone when i graduated. And about the attention thing on facebook, i have seen aquas do that on fb too but i never thought much of it, just thought they were just being friendly. I knew that aqua was the sign of groups of friends..like the 11th house is groups and bonding with groups and the house of friendships.....but i still had this image of aqua being portrayed in astrology as the mad scientist loner even tho i havent really seen that in real life. Always seen them surrounded by hoards of friends. heeeyy..u learn something new everyday. lol. thanks for sharing And it makes sense too...bc it seems none of the air signs can bear to be alone then, i guess? i mean we have libra and aqua....im not sure about gemini tho. they dont seem so friend-crazy, but i could be wrong. i know a lot of bookwork geminis who are very talkative for sure but still kind of loners and trying to be social butterflies at the same time. I think they need the friends desperately too, except maybe they are the more independent of the three? i dunno ------------------ $3.50 ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility | Q&A IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 1385 From: Silent Hill Registered: Aug 2011
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posted September 20, 2012 10:04 AM
I notice that with Sags too, they need popularity for their happiness even though they try to give off the rebel vibe or whatever. But all fire signs are attention hoes in some way or another. But Geminis also have the same tendencies.They also CANNOT sit still. I have observed Sag and Gemini men up close and they are fidgety as frick. The only loner signs I've noticed are Aries, Cancer, Capricorn. Like they will have friends and many of them too, but they are happiest in their own company or with a special person. There will often be a Taurus or Libra too that is a loner, and a Leo every now and again. *I think the reason why so many Cardinal signs are loners is cuz many of them have Uranus in Cap squaring or opposing their sun or inner planets. Virgo people are very very popular. I know like a handful of my Virgo colleagues who I am 100% positive are going to be on TV if not the 11 o clock news or something. Mutable signs cannot be loners, I do not know any who are by any means. IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 1385 From: Silent Hill Registered: Aug 2011
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posted September 20, 2012 10:11 AM
Libra men are misogynists.Obviously kidding. But I know a lot of them who are like, upset with the female sex and have nice guy secret jerk syndrome. But on the bright side they are sweethearts. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12853 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 20, 2012 10:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: omg that makes so much sense about aquas!Yes, i think bc we are cancers in general ppl tend to spill how they really feel to us. A sagittarius guy friend of mine also told me something like that...specifically that he often has a lot of friends but still feels very depressed even though he always seemse happy go lucky. I dunno if that was bc he has scorp moon gem rising tho but omg! that is so true about aquas! I had an aqua best friend and she stopped hanging out with me my senior yr of high school.when she was a sophomore, so she could acquaint herself with other people at school, so she wouldnt be all alone when i graduated. And about the attention thing on facebook, i have seen aquas do that on fb too but i never thought much of it, just thought they were just being friendly. I knew that aqua was the sign of groups of friends..like the 11th house is groups and bonding with groups and the house of friendships.....but i still had this image of aqua being portrayed in astrology as the mad scientist loner even tho i havent really seen that in real life. Always seen them surrounded by hoards of friends. heeeyy..u learn something new everyday. lol. thanks for sharing And it makes sense too...bc it seems none of the air signs can bear to be alone then, i guess? i mean we have libra and aqua....im not sure about gemini tho. they dont seem so friend-crazy, but i could be wrong. i know a lot of bookwork geminis who are very talkative for sure but still kind of loners and trying to be social butterflies at the same time. I think they need the friends desperately too, except maybe they are the more independent of the three? i dunno
I have lots of friends but I prefer to be alone a lot of the time though. IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 7119 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 20, 2012 10:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow: Libra men are misogynists.Obviously kidding. But I know a lot of them who are like, upset with the female sex and have nice guy secret jerk syndrome. But on the bright side they are sweethearts.
That reminds me of the time this Libra guy said "Mad Men" is the best show ever I wish I lived there. FACEPALM.
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