posted September 21, 2012 10:42 AM            

I have a crush from way back when that I haven't seen in almost 7 years and I -STILL- have the same re-occuring dream about him.

posted September 21, 2012 10:57 AM            

For telepathic links I'd say look for Moon/Neptune, Moon/Uranus, Mercury/Moon, Mercury/Uranus, Mercury/Neptune aspects keep the orbs small to be the most exact.

posted September 21, 2012 11:06 AM            

Both were sex dreams and one of them came true. The other one would've come true had i been in cinctact with person but i was grossed out by that one and though they pursued me in real life, i wasmn't having it.

posted September 21, 2012 11:08 AM            

Then I woke up.

I've known this man since I was in high school (distant acquaintances) then saw him again 13 years ago when I was a bar-maid. There was a definite mutual attraction but I was married. The psychic part between us- Everyday on my way to work I would drive past this certain road and get a overwhelming vibe pertaining to him as it turn out, he ended up buying a house on that very street.

posted September 21, 2012 11:32 AM            

I'm driving.

posted September 21, 2012 02:51 PM            

I have dreams that are vivid of my S.O. of us just having conversations. Sometimes we will be going through something and can't verbalize to each other but most times we talk it out through my dreams. weird most time...definitely a head scratcher.

posted September 21, 2012 06:48 PM            

To start off, my chart makes a lot of aspects to neptune. I have north node in pisces.. I think it's why i'm able operate on that field in such a way.

I had a dream where they were trying to explain to me reasons why they couldn't let themselves be in a relationship with me... It was very vivid. Tears and everything... This is the same person i had the dream about that i mentioned earlier that came true.

I don't know how it happens... It hasn't been the first time. Both times, though.. As i was getting to bed i'd stop breathing for some reason. It'd freak me out.

My neptune also squared that guys moon... In synastry, i think twelfth house and neptune are what cause those experiences. I think that it may also need to be reflected in the natal, though..

The subconscious mind can really liberate you in so many ways and accomplish a lot, if allow it. Maybe hypnotherapy may be a good outlet for u to vent it through..

I think that having those dreams over and over are saying something.. Are you looking at his chart a lot? Maybe you feel you're violating his privacy if so.

I think that water in dreams symbolizes emotions.. LOTS of water has a more negative meaning..

It sounds like maybe there's an unealthy desire for u to just flat out jump his bones. I mean, he did show up in a towel... You trying to clean up i think might be you playing it cool in front of him.

Maybe what you're bothered about is that perhaps you haven't let on as to how much u are into him and your mind is beating u up for it. Maybe you feel dirty in just wanting to have sex. Or if either of u are still in a relationship (maybe him) it may all be "taboo".

If it is a psychic link, it may mean that the date might've not been as bad as you imagined but he might've been involved and not told u about it.

I think it's interesting that you covered him in a towel as you're cleaning a mess you made in the bathroom.. Are you ok with wanting to sex the guy up?

posted September 21, 2012 06:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Ann7:
What synastry aspects would give two people a psychic link or cause a person to have re-occuring dreams (about a particular person on and off for 13 years-)

I have a crush from way back when that I haven't seen in almost 7 years and I -STILL- have the same re-occuring dream about him.

Has anyone else experienced this? I posted this topic in Astral Realms as well but I'm wondering if synastry placements might be the answer.

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My ex has this going on. It's the "VERBOTEN" subject lol. He has dreams about me on a regular basis - or used to; if he still does I don't know, but every time I mentioned it he'd go into embarrassment/awkward silence mode. After I got curious about it months ago and looked it up, I figured it had to do with the fact that my Neptune is on his moon, and his Hypnos asteroid falls right on my Mars, and there's a few other sleep-related asteroids like Somnium that make some surprising synastry aspects in there too. It probably didn't help any that his Mars-Pluto conjunction lands right on top of my Venus (and not far from my Vertex).

As far as what's causing it - probably some kind of emotional stuff you feel about this crush or situations surrounding them that you haven't really worked out or processed on a conscious level, so it got pushed down into your subconscious where it boils to the surface in your dreams. Whatever you repress, will eventually make itself known at some point in one form or another, dreams is just one possible way it can manifest, if the astrological indicators are there to make it possible. For example, my ex moved on fast - probably too fast, probably before he really had a chance to get over me and what happened with us - and I think that since there were still feelings there but he repressed them, it started to surface in his dreams because the astrological conditions were ripe for it to happen that way.

posted September 21, 2012 07:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Ann7:
I have no clue what these dreams are trying to tell me but they are WHACK, lol. Like something out of an I Love Lucy skit. It's always where I show up at my crush's home, uninvited, and for whatever reason I let myself in his house and then something ridiculous happens and I scramble to get out without him knowing I was there. In last nights dream, I flooded his bathroom and was trying to clean it before he got home - then in he walks wearing nothing but a white towel (and he looked GOOD! (laughing at the silliness of it all). Then we went somewhere to talk.

Then I woke up.

I've known this man since I was in high school (distant acquaintances) then saw him again 13 years ago when I was a bar-maid. There was a definite mutual attraction but I was married. The psychic part between us- Everyday on my way to work I would drive past this certain road and get a overwhelming vibe pertaining to him as it turn out, he ended up buying a house on that very street.

Years passed and I was divorced and we went out for drinks - and it was a disaster. he totally blew me off after that. I haven't seen him face to face in years and have moved on, happily ... But the dreams still happen - why?! And why are they so kooky?!

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There could be a psychic connection you just have to check your planetary aspects; before this was this one guy who I'd constantly dream about every dream was a different scenario him chasing after me, me trying to catch him in every kind of romantic "pursuit " scenario you could think of; him as neptune trying to marry me with huge water waves drowning a city, me as alice and him the white rabbit, then shared lucid dreams, or if I concentrated for a few minutes he'd tweet on twitter out of nowhere and we were not in synchronicity. Then once I accepted how I felt the dreams became peaceful and less sexual as in a scene out of "True Blood". Just talk to the guy.
BTW this guy's neptune was opposite three of my planets and conjunct three.

posted September 21, 2012 07:37 PM            

Anyway, your interpretations hit pretty close to home! Thank you!

Give me a few and I'll be back with some chart info.

posted September 21, 2012 07:49 PM            

His pluto sextiles my neptune and his chiron trines my neptune.

I'm pretty sure that his moon conjuncts my uranus and might even conjunct my mars,jupiter and pluto.

His venus and neptune fall in my 12th house.

I don't know his birth time so I have no clue how I affect his houses.

posted September 21, 2012 08:01 PM            

My experiences with venus in the twelfth... Have been interesting.

With them as venus, they have either been involved already and i knew in my bones that they wanted more and there would be subtle flirting, or, they were involved and because of it, tried to downplay their interest out of insecurity that they might do something like cheat on their lover.

When i was the venus, i wanted to very much let em know that i liked the person but, i had just pretty much dumped a casual thing i had going on right before them.. The person was still calling me and as it turns out, i found out shortly after that they had gotten involved with the person of the "casual" i had left, without my knowing, a few days after.

Another who had his venus in my twelfth, i was certain was already involved though he denied it... But (this is where things get interesting) nothing ever came of he and i. Something did become of his roommate and i, though... I went looking for him once and was warmly welcomed by his roommate, instead.

A friend of mine, who has my venus in her twelfth, is now married with 3 kids after going on a blind date that i set up between her and a guy i was physically attracted to a long time ago... They hit it off right away.

Venus seems to hide the relationships and attraction in the twelfth and also has a knack for playing cupid between two other people without even knowing it.

posted September 21, 2012 08:04 PM            

My guess is that u know it.

It had nothing to do with u.

Find a way to come to terms with that because he obviously was not one for closure.

Maybe you can find a shaman and have a healing circle acted out in your name; go through the motions and words so that your mind can fill in the blanks before it can peacefully release.

In the meantime, try to not get *too* wet

posted September 21, 2012 08:04 PM            

I am extremely unfamiliar with astroids so I'm not sure what the significance is.

posted September 21, 2012 10:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Ann7:
What synastry aspects would give two people a psychic link or cause a person to have re-occuring dreams (about a particular person on and off for 13 years-)

I have a crush from way back when that I haven't seen in almost 7 years and I -STILL- have the same re-occuring dream about him.

Has anyone else experienced this? I posted this topic in Astral Realms as well but I'm wondering if synastry placements might be the answer.

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posted September 21, 2012 11:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Sounds like Neptune or Uranus to personal planets, and perhaps some Vertex synastry or even some synastry involving the 12th house.

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Oh, I just went back and read all of your posts and I see that you do have most of these.

posted September 22, 2012 07:06 AM            

Not sure how that would play out.

posted September 22, 2012 07:25 AM            

I started seeing him in my dreams even before i actually noticed. His SN is conjunct my Moon EXACT, and all of that is conjunct his Hypnos EXACT. I guess, that's the thing.

Also his Neptune squares my Venus EXACT.