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Topic: Your Mars(girls)sign and your venus(boys) sign
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vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1969
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted September 23, 2012 01:37 AM
  
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I think that alot of people miss the point on the issue of men wanting feminine women,it doesn't mean we want a weak woman, it just means we want to be treated with respect. you can't deny the fact that lots of women today think its ok to belittle the men in their lives, and then wonder why men tune them out.lol no man with any self respect is gonna put up with that.
Thats true for women too. I can't be with a man that can't respect women and vice versa.
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4288
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 01:54 AM
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Originally posted by vertiver:
Thats true for women too. I can't be with a man that can't respect women and vice versa.
yep. respect is a two way street. IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms
Knowflake Posts: 658
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 23, 2012 02:44 AM
fo sure, that's why i want a partner in life.IP: Logged |
andstuff
Knowflake Posts: 646
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 03:35 AM
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I think that alot of people miss the point on the issue of men wanting feminine women,it doesn't mean we want a weak woman, it just means we want to be treated with respect. you can't deny the fact that lots of women today think its ok to belittle the men in their lives, and then wonder why men tune them out.lol no man with any self respect is gonna put up with that.
Lol, there's two sides to this. Belittling could mean actual neglect and contempt, an instrumental attitude. Or perhaps certain men can think belittling is NOT ENOUGH admiration, looking up and stuff, I know quite a few who think they are perfectly entitled to mean a lot to the woman, without taking into account what they have done to prove it. Not pretty either I suppose. At any rate not uglier than women "belittling" the value of men. As I always say, every time a plump blond 10 years older than me with no sense of style approaches me and starts treating me as "the one" from the very first moment, obviously he will only think I did him no justice by freaking out and starting to avoid him. Illusions re: entitlement? Yes. Expectations of a better attitude than it turned out to be? Yes. Girl's fault? No. Girl's wrong attitude to men in general? Hell, no! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4288
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 03:59 AM
@andstuff, that's not what I'm talking about, I'm talking about how some womens first instinct is to belittle the man when they are not happy with something within the relationship or his behavior. instead of trying to talk about it in a reasonable respectable manner, they criticize or nag and talk to the
man like a dog .this type of
behavior doesn't help, it only
breeds contempt.so when a
man says he wants a feminine/
submissive woman, he really
means he wants a woman who
isn't mouthy and will appreciate
what he does and not hold his
flaws over his head.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4288
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 03:59 AM
edit.IP: Logged |
3333
Knowflake Posts: 97
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 04:02 AM
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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
Great thread.
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4288
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 04:06 AM
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andstuff
Knowflake Posts: 646
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 04:19 AM
@aquaguy: okay, yeah, see what you mean. my grandma epitomises that, so wholeheartedly agree. but it's probably just bad upbringing. like, even if you go to a festive dinner and your neighbour pinches your breadplate you don't tell them, you ask for a new one. similarly, you don't tell anyone they have stains on their clothes, don't say anything embarrassing aloud. people who do this generally enjoy feeling superior to everyone else, nothing gender-related. IP: Logged |
scorpy_oh
Knowflake Posts: 268
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Registered: May 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 04:24 AM
venus in virgo.prefer a woman who possesses integrity. actually, it is a must. in a world full of deception and hypocrisy, i need a woman who knows herself and is courageous enough to follow through with her convictions even if it means standing up to me when i am being unfair. i can't stand a cold woman. she needs to be compassionate and tender but does not let herself be used up and abused by others. she must be capable of introspection. living without reflection is unattractive to me. a woman with layers so to speak. and when i say layers, i don't mean multiple personalities lol. just someone that i can figure out over time, not in 5 minutes. i like a woman that is comfortable with her masculinity and femininity as well as mine. i am not attracted to women who pressure me to fit into a mold. i am who i am, take it or leave it. you could say a woman who epitomizes the positives of virgo and pisces is more down my alley. i prefer thick women but it doesn't matter so much if she looks healthy and has good hygiene. i like someone that has a healthy self-image. women who possess a sense of entitlement because they are women is a huge turn off. i don't like the idea of being with someone who feels that i owe them something because i am a man. a sense of equality is a must. no way around it. we are and will always be partners, not inferiors or superiors. power couple ftw. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 1886
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 04:48 AM
All I know is that the man who said he wanted a "submissive woman" to me has been arrested for assaulting a former girlfriend. I think these are the types of men with serious control issues and cannot be challenged or questioned in any way or they lose it.IP: Logged |
Slummer
Knowflake Posts: 72
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Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 04:51 AM
Aquacheeka, he probably had some kind of weird mental thing where he's drawn to stronger females, in spite of what he said...and that he likes the idea of trying to 'subdue' or change them somehow. He likes the challenge of trying to break them, probably. The timid girl turned him off cuz then there's no challenge, no work to be done.IP: Logged |
sand
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Registered: May 2011
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posted September 23, 2012 05:47 AM
i don't mind either but i think the more submissive will have a much harder time with me.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4288
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 10:01 AM
venus in aquarius
moon in taurusshe needs to be a good sturdy wench with small feet so she can stand closer to the stove and kitchen sink. haha j/k I want a woman who has old fashioned values in regards to relationships and isnt a religious fundamentalist, lol tricky much? she also has to be intelligent. IP: Logged |
ail221
Knowflake Posts: 1515
From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 10:07 AM
A feminine appearance and a submissive persona are two different things. There are women who dress as if there members of the Skulls and bones club yet they are submissive. There of women ruling nations were they are expected to look regal and very much feminine yet they are some of the most dominant women in the world. So stop equating physical appearance and a social order of dominance and submission. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted September 23, 2012 10:08 AM
hmmm...Winning Your Heart: Your nature calls for patient companions that let a friendship or romance unfold organically. The way to your heart is through the senses, and a lovingly prepared dinner goes a long way. But you respond to touch, too, meaningful gestures from the subtle to the overt. You'll stay bonded if the physical initmacy is strong. You open up in an atmosphere of comfort and stability. You respect dependable types, and those that show they value you. You don't like it when people put on airs, since you tend toward a more natural, simple way of being.
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pancakes22
Knowflake Posts: 59
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Registered: Dec 2011
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posted September 23, 2012 11:36 AM
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
I'm sorry, but you're in no position to claim what God have intended.
You're absolutely right I'm not. The Bible is however. I would almost agree with others. A man cannot be emasculated by women. I' ve had women challenge me and that was the endof the relationship. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 3868
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 23, 2012 11:42 AM
Pandacake22,Dude. How did they challenge you? Are you serious searching for someone to submit to your will in subservience? IP: Logged |
pancakes22
Knowflake Posts: 59
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Registered: Dec 2011
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posted September 23, 2012 11:48 AM
1 Corinthians 11:3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God. 1 Corinthians 11:8-9 For the man is not of the woman: but the woman of the man. Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man. Ephesians 5:22-24 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and He is the Saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Titus 2:3-5 The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the Word of God be not blasphemed. Colossians 3:18 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. 1 Peter 3:1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands ... IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4288
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 11:58 AM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by pancakes22:
1 Corinthians 11:3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God. 1 Corinthians 11:8-9 For the man is not of the woman: but the woman of the man. Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man. Ephesians 5:22-24 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and He is the Saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Titus 2:3-5 The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the Word of God be not blasphemed. Colossians 3:18 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. 1 Peter 3:1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands ...[/Qwould
@pancakes,I gotta say I respect t you for sticking to your convictions. a lot of people would give you flak for this, but your only following your faith 100%, most people conveniently forget little stuff like this. IP: Logged |
pancakes22
Knowflake Posts: 59
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Registered: Dec 2011
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posted September 23, 2012 12:01 PM
@yours. I dont have it happen often. I'm very masculine, muscular,etc. I usually attract more feminine and submissive women. I've had a woman hurl insanely nasty , emasculating insults in the heat of an argument. One other was just very bossy. Rarely let me take the lead or would purposely do the opposite of things I asked so she didn't feel like she was submitting. Aquayguy is correct. I love a woman who actually can give me advice, have a differing oppinion in a constructive way. It all boils down to respect. I remember hearing a quote. "A woman needs a man's love. A man needs a woman's respect." IP: Logged |
ail221
Knowflake Posts: 1515
From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 12:04 PM
The bible is book that has been rewritten thousands of times and primarily by men. One of the very reasons there are so many different groups within Christianity as well as Judaism and Islam are because "holy books" are meant to be interpreted not taken literally unless I have heard the booming voice of god declaring a women to submit to the men of the Earth than I will have to say good day to you sir. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4288
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 12:22 PM
quote:
Originally posted by ail221:
The bible is book that has been rewritten thousands of times and primarily by men. One of the very reasons there are so many different groups within Christianity as well as Judaism and Islam are because "holy books" are meant to be interpreted not taken literally unless I have heard the booming voice of god declaring a women to submit to the men of the Earth than I will have to say good day to you sir.
yes true. but most denominations take it literally word for word, but they pick and choose what they want to follow. they will judge gays but allow women in the pulpits,both of which the bible speaks very strongly against,but they choose to ignore the latter.I'm not saying I neccesarily agree with either, but it is what the bible says.IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 3868
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 23, 2012 12:46 PM
I know exactly what the scriptures are. I'm a proud Christian myself. But somehow I can't help feeling the scripture quoting is out of convenience. My perspective is slightly different, and it drives my preferences. I'm not a nice guy. This is not a nice world. If you're going to be with me, then I don't expect you to be a nice woman. I'm out to kick @$$ and I want my partner to be a flippant butt kicker. There are a dozen of the enemy. There are two of us. I don't want a partner looking to me to shield her @$$ 100% of the time. I want a competent partner to watch my six while I watch hers. If my daughters were here, I would train them to be hard as nails and strong as concrete. No egos. Just objectives. We keep our ears open and our eyes on the prize. The couple which kicks butt wins. IP: Logged |
geea
Knowflake Posts: 268
From: next to willy's factory
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted September 23, 2012 12:59 PM
quote:
Originally posted by pancakes22:
@yours. I dont have it happen often. I'm very masculine, muscular,etc. I usually attract more feminine and submissive women. I've had a woman hurl insanely nasty , emasculating insults in the heat of an argument. One other was just very bossy. Rarely let me take the lead or would purposely do the opposite of things I asked so she didn't feel like she was submitting. Aquayguy is correct. I love a woman who actually can give me advice, have a differing oppinion in a constructive way. It all boils down to respect. I remember hearing a quote. "A woman needs a man's love. A man needs a woman's respect."
It's not about submissive or dominant women. We are women, and if you're man enough u won't be needing to "instruct" her about her role. She'll feel it coming naturally because it brings out our feminine instinct to please. If you got this type of women so far, then you deserve them. ------------------
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