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Topic: All About Capricorn Men
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Aquacheeka
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From: Toronto
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posted September 22, 2012 05:19 PM
  
Can you give me insight into Capricorn men?Casually dating a Cap-stellium, may (likely to) lead to more. I always thought Caps were take-it-slow types; he's been very forward. Could it be Scorpio Mars? Is it true that they (Cappies) always play for keeps? IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted September 22, 2012 06:43 PM
You know as well as I do that the "take it slow" stuff is stereotypical nonsense.The smart and decisive strike while the iron is hot. They are swift and confident. It's simple. If they say they want to "take it slow," they don't like you enough yet to "take it to the next level." Pretty much "game over," unless you like being the consolation prize if some other first choice falls through. I know I don't play unless I play to win and win decisively. I don't mess around and waste anyone's time, and most of all, my time. My Mars is also Capricorn. IP: Logged |
ail221
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From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
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posted September 22, 2012 08:06 PM
Usually they do play for keeps, all four my aunts married Capricorn sun sign men.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted September 22, 2012 08:16 PM
I love Cappy men. I may be attracted to Saggi but when it comes down to settling down, I would choose a Cappy, as they have strong shoulders and I am an earth void with a tender Cancer Moon.I need stability and honor, of which a Cappy has a great deal  ------------------
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HappyCap
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From: The Moon
Registered: May 2010
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posted September 22, 2012 08:59 PM
If he is interested don't keep him waiting. The worst thing you can do is play head games. Mind you, he MAY do the push-pull thing, but this isn't intentional.I have to agree with that YoursTrulyAlways said. The longer you make him wait, the more he will be unsure of himself and think you're not interested at all. When a Cap makes up his mind, it's hard to change it.
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Aquacheeka
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From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 22, 2012 10:02 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I love Cappy men. I may be attracted to Saggi but when it comes down to settling down, I would choose a Cappy, as they have strong shoulders and I am an earth void with a tender Cancer Moon.I need stability and honor, of which a Cappy has a great deal
I can relate to this post a lot, especially as a fellow water moon 
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a_may_gemini
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From: Los Angeles, Calif
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 02:01 AM
I don't like Cap males and I don't see what all the fascination and a$$ kissing towards them is all about. I've had nothing but nonstop Cap males go after me and quite frankly, I'm sick of it. I'm telling the universe to stop sending me Cap dudes!The young ones are really super insecure and need to appear like they achieved material success to show that they're accomplished. The old ones are too money oriented and all of them, no matter how old are too boring and either like being at work or hanging out with their male friends. They're not the best at showing love or even remotely expressing it. Dutiful? Maybe. I'm a Gemini and I'm dutiful. Oh wait, maybe because I have Taurus Mars that I'm earth bound? Either way, my point is, anyone can have Cap characteristics without the boringness and insecurity to push them to the bring of psychotic ambition. Cap males aren't glorious as they're made out to be. I'll pass.
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Aquacheeka
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From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 04:53 AM
Capricorns are tactile, aren't they?I'm just looking at this from a strategic standpoint. I would expect that a Cap man (as opposed to Taurus, who would be more doting) would show affection/love by doing practical things for you and cuddling with you on the couch, instead of romantic acts/little tokens of affection. I would miss the grand Valentine's Day gestures of air sign boyfriends past, but I like cuddliness and stability so I'm thinking I could live with that. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 1886
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 05:18 AM
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Originally posted by a_may_gemini:
The young ones are really super insecure and need to appear like they achieved material success to show that they're accomplished.... either like being at work or hanging out with their male friends.
I definitely know a Cap like this!! lol lol
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crabbypatty
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posted September 23, 2012 02:43 PM
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crabbypatty
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posted September 23, 2012 02:45 PM
oh, and yes, I do believe they mostly play for keeps (the ones I've known at least have).IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 04:19 PM
As much as this would probably be a dream for OTHER women, it concerns me a little that people keep saying they make such solid parents and "put family first" because I don't want any kids. I'm hoping maybe his freedom-loving Sagittarius moon can deter that.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 04:37 PM
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Originally posted by crabbypatty:
AC, having my Mars in Capricorn, I like the Cappie vibe in men. I've been involved with more than one romantically, and I've known a bunch platonically. In my experience, some of them are very forward, physically and otherwise. Probably depends on their Mars and/or aspects.What Ami once said in this forum about Cappie men, I have to second. If you want a rock, a man who is responsible and who puts family first, you have a very good chance of finding this with a Cappie man, assuming no crazy lunatic aspects in his natal. My husband is such an amazing father to our son. He is also generally a good person and generally "capable" in many respects. Not a flake. Nice. Solid. It was some of his idiosyncrasies (and the fact that we couldn't agree on number of kids and some other real basic topics) that drove us apart (divorce), and I don't want to get into detail here, but his Cancer moon really didn't help matters By the way, I myself am a Cancer moon, so I am not bashing this moon placement. I just think that for him, it was not a good combination with his Cap sun and Cap rising. Too much doom and gloom and woe is me.
my good friend has capricorn sun and cancer moon and he is by far the most negative person I know, I can't handle it sometimes......IP: Logged |
Nine
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From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted September 23, 2012 04:55 PM
This is why I dont buy into Dignities. Moon in Cancer is reason #1. It can turn an otherwise great personality into a real pain.IP: Logged |
Lotis White
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted September 23, 2012 06:17 PM
Now, Now people, lets not stereotype. I'm a Capricorn Sun/Cancer Moon and I'm not all doom and gloom etc. I've got plenty of fire elsewhere in my chart though. Not all people with this combo are gonna be the same.IP: Logged |
starfox
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From: London England
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posted September 23, 2012 06:59 PM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Can you give me insight into Capricorn men?Casually dating a Cap-stellium, may (likely to) lead to more. I always thought Caps were take-it-slow types; he's been very forward. Could it be Scorpio Mars? Is it true that they (Cappies) always play for keeps?
Cap sun, mars in scorpio = me I think if we want you we will try our damnedest to have you.. We have loyalty and a willingness to try and see things through, even when we know they are falling apart around our ears.! But conversely we have the winter born coldness to walk away and never see you again. Being a Capricorn man has been a hard path for me to tread. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted September 23, 2012 07:01 PM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
As much as this would probably be a dream for OTHER women, it concerns me a little that people keep saying they make such solid parents and "put family first" because I don't want any kids. I'm hoping maybe his freedom-loving Sagittarius moon can deter that.
Hey. Just ask him point blank. Clear it up now before you go down the road of disappointment. I know I ask all the tough questions upfront. Like I said, I hang out only with the hard nosed ones.
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ail221
Knowflake Posts: 1488
From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 08:22 PM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
As much as this would probably be a dream for OTHER women, it concerns me a little that people keep saying they make such solid parents and "put family first" because I don't want any kids. I'm hoping maybe his freedom-loving Sagittarius moon can deter that.
Your going to have to find a good midpoint you've dealt with relationship flaky partners before now you may have a partner that's interested in the long haul with you. Putting family first could mean anything from having a stable partnership, taking care of your parents when there older and unable to work anymore, etc. Realistically if you really like him you can't be deterred by his stability but just a few hours ago you were worried about his possible flakiness.
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Aquacheeka
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From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 11:27 PM
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Originally posted by ail221:
Your going to have to find a good midpoint you've dealt with relationship flaky partners before now you may have a partner that's interested in the long haul with you. Putting family first could mean anything from having a stable partnership, taking care of your parents when there older and unable to work anymore, etc. Realistically if you really like him you can't be deterred by his stability but just a few hours ago you were worried about his possible flakiness.
Loyalty is a good thing. If a person will leave you because you can't or won't reproduce, I don't consider that loyal. Perhaps I should rephrase so you can better understand me. "I keep reading that Capricorn is the sign of fatherhood. That concerns me."
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Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 1886
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 11:31 PM
In my life I have known four long-married Capricorn men. Three of them were married to Aquarius women, and the third was married to a fellow Cappy. So I consider that a good sign.IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted September 23, 2012 11:32 PM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Loyalty is a good thing. If a person will leave you because you can't or won't reproduce, I don't consider that loyal. Perhaps I should rephrase so you can better understand me. "I keep reading that Capricorn is the sign of fatherhood. That concerns me."
I don't think Capricorn is necessarily the sign of fatherhood, just AS I don't think Cancer is the sign of Motherhood. If you really want your answers about children discuss it with him directly and not ponder if his sun sign archetype representing the entirety of his persona. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 1886
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 11:41 PM
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Originally posted by ail221:
I don't think Capricorn is necessarily the sign of fatherhood, just AS I don't think Cancer is the sign of Motherhood. If you really want your answers about children discuss it with him directly and not ponder if his sun sign archetype representing the entirety of his persona.
Too early to be bringing stuff like that up, we've only hung out twice. Besides, it's rather pointless this early on. Even if you tell a man you don't want kids, they tend to be dismissive and think that you will 'come around' later, as though you are not capable of knowing your own mind. Too many buy into that 'all women have a biological clock' crap.
On the other hand, he made a joke about us getting married on our first real date, so maybe it's not too soon to bring it up. IP: Logged |
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