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Topic: saturn in 7/ venus sq saturn/ venus in capricorn
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curiouswoman
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posted September 25, 2012 12:04 AM
  
wouldn't they all be attracted to a capricorn or someone with capricornian qualities?IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted September 25, 2012 12:18 AM
I have Saturn in Capricorn in the 7th with Venus square Saturn. I'm attracted to guys who want to commit seriously right away. Yes, there is a way you can approach this without being creepy. I like guys who like me, and I like guys who are respectful but sexy, confident or at least comfortable in their own skin. I like guys who approach instead of waiting to be approached and who are down-to-earth with lots of common sense. To me, those are all Capricorn qualities but I understand they may be subjective.Often times you'll hear me going on about commitment making me squeamish but it literally just clicked for me I probably don't want to commit to the guys I'm lusting after, because I know subconsciously they don't want to commit to me. IP: Logged |
curiouswoman
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posted September 25, 2012 04:20 PM
but how do you know they don't want to commit? aren't you subconsciously pushing them away?IP: Logged |
curiouswoman
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posted September 26, 2012 10:14 PM
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starfairy
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posted October 04, 2012 12:28 PM
Love style: When Venus is in Capricorn, duty, commitment, hard work, and reality are at the forefront of our love lives. Venus in Capricorn natives do not take relationships lightly; on the contrary, they see relationships as "work", and thus take their partnerships very seriously. People with this placement suffer from a strong fear of rejection, which can lead to missed opportunities in love. They also may suffer from a lack of confidence in regards to their self-worth; they may feel "unworthy" of love, and are often wary of their partners (at least, in the beginning). Venus in Capricorn natives can appear cold, uninterested, and aloof towards their partners, but this does not mean they are not interested. Opening up one's heart, in their view, is dangerous, as it increases the opportunity for them to get hurt. Vulnerability is what they fear most of all. Venus in Capricorn is also very preoccupied with appearing cool and collected, and dislike showing their emotions. If you hurt a Venus Capricorn, they will do everything to make you think it doesn't bother them, even if it hurts inside.How to get a Venus Capricorn to commit: It can take a very long time for a Venus in Capricorn native to commit to you. It's not that they are not interested, but they prefer to build a strong, secure foundation for a relationship rather than to "jump right in". Indeed, Venus in Capricorn are "risk-averse" when it come to matters of the heart. They must be 100% certain they can trust you, and that you're capable of having a long-term committed relationship before they give their heart to you. The best way to get a Venus Capricorn to commit is to be patient. People with this placement are petrified of getting hurt, so they often hide their feelings about you under a veil of aloofness and emotional distancing, which can be confusing for their partners. When a Venus Capricorn commits, however, they make excellent partners. While they aren't affectionate in the traditional way, they show their love through practical means by doing things for you.
What kind of partner they seek: Venus in Capricorn natives are attracted to older, mature, successful partners. They are also attracted to business types. Basically, stability and security is what attracts them most. Partners who appear to "have it together" are very appealing to them.
http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!venus-in-signs-and-houses/cwic As a venus Capricorn (My chart ruler and 7th house ruler are in Capricorn, as well), I'm VERY attracted to Cappy/Saturnian people. The guy I loved the most had Venus in Capricorn and Saturn square Venus in his natal chart (His Saturn squared my Venus, too). I like the way they behave and look. I hate overaggressive people, and I don't mind a bit of coldness lol. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 04, 2012 06:16 PM
Curious woman - typing from my phone, so I may come off more curt than intended! I'm only 23. Based on my personal dating experience and my age, my definition of commitment is a guy who wants to date exclusively. I'm not sure how I feel about being engaged and married in the next two years. That being said, when a man isn't consistent in his behavior towards our relationship, or doesn't put in effort or show much enthusiasm - I take it that he doesn't take me very seriously. If he's not taking me seriously then obviously he's not going to want to commit to me, right? I feel like that's common sense. I see a lot of girls my age in relationships that are a waste of time. They're not growing from them, and its so patchy (being on/off) that the relationships really aren't going anywhere. So I've concluded the way a guy acts in the beginning is how hell behave throughout our relationship. I'm not a "wait and see" type of perso. First impressions, and the initial stages usually tell me all I need to know. Hope that makes sense and it wasn't too off topic or confusing! Hard to see on such a small screen. IP: Logged |
C1ND3R
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posted October 04, 2012 06:31 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I have Saturn in Capricorn in the 7th with Venus square Saturn. I'm attracted to guys who want to commit seriously right away. Yes, there is a way you can approach this without being creepy. I like guys who like me, and I like guys who are respectful but sexy, confident or at least comfortable in their own skin. I like guys who approach instead of waiting to be approached and who are down-to-earth with lots of common sense. To me, those are all Capricorn qualities but I understand they may be subjective.Often times you'll hear me going on about commitment making me squeamish but it literally just clicked for me I probably don't want to commit to the guys I'm lusting after, because I know subconsciously they don't want to commit to me.
Might it be your Sun? I knew a Cancer i did that "right away" thing with and he just frittered away.
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curiouswoman
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posted October 04, 2012 11:48 PM
hanarama  wise words my friendIP: Logged |
earthypisces
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posted October 05, 2012 01:26 AM
Speaking as someone who has Venus in Capricorn themselves...wow...that description that starfairy posted is so painfully true.  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 05, 2012 02:04 AM
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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
Might it be your Sun? I knew a Cancer i did that "right away" thing with and he just frittered away.
Depends, what about my sun? It's also square Saturn, but it's in the 11th house. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted October 05, 2012 02:33 AM
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I like the way they behave and look. I hate overaggressive people, and I don't mind a bit of coldness lol.
 this was cute. I like aloof too sometimes. I had a thing with a fellow Venus in Capricorn, and thought geez o flip will this guy do anything other than stare when it's convenient for him (ie, not on task elsewhere), so finally I'm like 'hey' and he says 'hey,' and lo and behold we're in it to win it, and then I find the deets: Venus in Cap conj Saturn. But they are kinda cute (!)
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