posted September 26, 2012 10:50 AM            

With Sun opposite Pluto, there is an overwhelming need for privacy, because of Pluto. If you become involved with someone who has this aspect, you MUST respect this need, or you will get nowhere. However, the Sun is involved so there's also a desire to be seen or known, but on their own terms. Pluto represents all that is hidden and below the surface. The Sun represents the basic self, so, in opposition, a person with this placement, it can be said, hides their true being. Personally, this desire to control the image stems from my own insecurities and fear of not being accepted or loved.

Also, it is quite easy for me to see ways that I can manipulate others. It takes a very conscious effort to avoid acting on those intentions. I imagine this would vary with each person with this aspect and whether they are aware of this tendency or not.

Sometimes, I do try to take control of situations and other people, but not too often. More than anything, I try to control how I am perceived in others' eyes, like I mentioned above. I'm not so much a control freak with others, and I think this is because my Pluto sits on my descendant, which represents "the other." With this placement, I give some of my control to others, to put it simply. So, you might want to look at the house where Pluto falls in the chart, for a more clear description of how this aspect will manifest.

On a final note, as this was really long, you can expect someone with this aspect to have a lot of depth, as well as a hard time with being vulnerable or exposed.

posted September 26, 2012 11:50 AM            

I must admit that I think about how to control/manipulate certain people and I intend to do it, but when I notice that I think about it, I try to stay away from it.
I like to get things that I want, but I want it to get it in a FAIR way..

When I was younger, I did however used "that dark side" of me with my parents and my little brother lol