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bella_taurus
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posted September 26, 2012 10:13 AM
  
So, I meet this attractive Libra man from this somewhat well-known free dating site. We started out texting and back and forth. He tells me how attractive I am and that he wants to spoil me, yadda...yadda....yadda...the texting mind you is very sparse and a little too bold, but I was like, well...I'll still meet him. The first date we had planned he cancels an hour before because he had his sons for the weekend, (see, I'm on the aries/taurus cusp, I dont like dating men with kids, I like to be number one, but I do want kids of my own someday...) so, yeah I was mad, but I got over it fast because I was going out that night anyways. So he calls me and forgives me and states he wants to meet that following Monday. So, I never have dates during the week, because I'm always pooped from work and all, so the weekend is my time is time to play and have fun, it's called logic. So..anywho, eventhough I was NOT up for meeting up on a friggin' Monday for a date, and I knew I was going to look tired and be tired, I met up with him. So I put on my best face and did it. There were sparks, we talked over amazing mexican food and drinks. The conversation flowed and he was actually really nice and aplogized about Saturday, he told me how he was tired of being stood up and lied to.. and I told him the same. So I'm thinking in my head, okay, this could turn into something cool. So, he drives me home and walks me to my door and we share a kiss...it was nice. I feel good that I showed up. Later that evening before I go to bed, I text him and thank him graciously for the date, he texts back 30 min later.."cool". I kinda looked at it and thought, okay. I also drop him a compliment about how much I loved his smile, he replies "thanks". I was like........okay. So, it's been two days, and he's still weird. I don't know why he's acting like this, but I think he's one cold ******* for being rude like that. It sucks, but I guess whatever will be, will be. What I am to do? Anybody else been treated rudely by a Libra man? HMMPh. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted September 26, 2012 10:26 AM
yeah does this guy have venus in virgo or any other virgo placement? maybe scorpio as well?i knew a guy with a scorpio moon libra sun, venus in virgo who was like that. he was very short/curt in texts and it was very weird but he would always text me and seek me out. he told me he didnt know how to phrase things properly in texts and felt awkward texting.
but......i will tell you one thing. libra guys have a rep for being two faced. turns out my libra guy wasnt interested and he was just being nice, his words. they will be all sweet and charming when in reality they could care less about you. not all of them are like that, but yeah i have libra rising so i could see myself in that too. its fear of disharmony. we dont want to upset anyone but really its more bc we are just plain cowards...well i dont do that at least i try rly hard not to. but i have to fight it.
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Yin
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posted September 26, 2012 10:35 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
libra guys have a rep for being two faced. turns out my libra guy wasnt interested and he was just being nice, his words. they will be all sweet and charming when in reality they could care less about you.
Same EXACT thing happened to me with a Libra guy many moons ago. Made me swear off Libra men for good. IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted September 26, 2012 10:46 AM
Some Libra man have even more dual personalities than Gemini's......IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted September 26, 2012 10:52 AM
havent found gems to be two-faced. they are gosspiy but thats bc of their chatty and curious nature. doesnt necessarily mean two-facedbut yes, air signs certainly seem to have trouble doing things that are morally right either way. And yea i agree ail, libras def more two faced than gems lol ------------------
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redshift
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posted September 26, 2012 11:16 AM
I find Libra men share the trait with Pisces men of preferring to throw themselves in traffic rather than have a confrontation or hurt someone's feelings. They won't show that they aren't into you in any other way than a distanced attitude. In your presence, they are polite and friendly and smile and maybe even kiss you goodnight rather than say: sorry I'm just not feelin' it. If you put them on the spot, they just get horrified and will lie rather than be the bad guy, unless they have some heavy fire influence in mars or mercury.It sucks, but it could be he's not feeling it and doesn't want to say outright. eta: that trait drives me mental. I have mars in Aries and it makes me want to drop kick men when they are all avoidant like that. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted September 26, 2012 11:35 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
turns out my libra guy wasnt interested and he was just being nice, his words. they will be all sweet and charming when in reality they could care less about you. not all of them are like that, but yeah i have libra rising so i could see myself in that too. its fear of disharmony. we dont want to upset anyone but really its more bc we are just plain cowards...well i dont do that at least i try rly hard not to. but i have to fight it.
i can do that. my sun and venus are in the libra house. but mostly nah i'd just act snooty. IP: Logged |
Blanky
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posted September 26, 2012 11:38 AM
Libras can be indecisive about love. They DO love being with another because their symbol is the scale. A scale with nothing on one side is terribly out of balance. So hopefully he will find balance in this life. And also find love. Blessings!IP: Logged |
Blanky
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posted September 26, 2012 11:53 AM
Dear Bella_Taurus, Forgive me for not being specific as this is my first post that has gone through as I registered several days ago. Something isn't right here with this Libra. Usually Libra enjoys being with another and he does seem to enjoy your company when you are together. But when you are apart he just doeesn't act like he does when you are together. I had an experience with a Libra friend and he would say some of the unkindest things and expect me to take them as a joke! So I think he does better when face to face instead of other means of interactingm such as texting. And if you don't want a mate that has kids then please don't go with a man that has kids. Children always come first and I feel that will make you feel second-best which isn't a good feeling as I too had a long relationship with a man with children. I would wait until he contacts you and mnove on with your life as if seems this Libra doesn't know what he wants. I wish you the best and don't want you to worry about something that first, you don't understand, and second, the fact that he has kids. If he isn't the one then it is good to find out early instead of later. So don't be too available and make sure he isn't just looking for a booty call. Good luck Bella I wish you well. Oh I'd try to find out his moon sign as that always helps explain ones emotions. Relationships are emotional. This will give you the inside scoop on what is going on in his heart..if he has one! lol Good luck Bella.IP: Logged |
Blanky
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posted September 26, 2012 12:21 PM
When you find someone that only wants what is best for you and you only want what is best for them then you have found True Love. Don't accept any less than that. You are deserving of love.IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted September 26, 2012 12:59 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
yeah does this guy have venus in virgo or any other virgo placement? maybe scorpio as well?i knew a guy with a scorpio moon libra sun, venus in virgo who was like that. he was very short/curt in texts and it was very weird but he would always text me and seek me out. he told me he didnt know how to phrase things properly in texts and felt awkward texting.
but......i will tell you one thing. libra guys have a rep for being two faced. turns out my libra guy wasnt interested and he was just being nice, his words. they will be all sweet and charming when in reality they could care less about you. not all of them are like that, but yeah i have libra rising so i could see myself in that too. its fear of disharmony. we dont want to upset anyone but really its more bc we are just plain cowards...well i dont do that at least i try rly hard not to. but i have to fight it.
i know a libra sun scorpio moon with venus in virgo and he has to be one of the most affectionate men i know. SO LOVING and complimenting.
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peachbeigeblue
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posted September 26, 2012 01:01 PM
What's this guys moon by the way? Libras literally will balance out how GOOD they are to you with being jerks sometimes. Just my opinion. At least when i dated one. My first impression was this guy might have a girlfriend or be married or something though. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted September 26, 2012 04:27 PM
Sometimes Libra people do not know what they want... plain and simple. He might be emotionally conflicted about something and that is affecting his thought process. He's emotionally distant to you with text because when a Libra gets the wishy-washy syndrome (I'm a Libra and I get it myself, especially with people I date) he won't feel like putting on sweet, charismatic airs anymore. Libras can have a terrible time with being charming front on a date, while remaining cool on an intellectual level and not feeling any deep passion. But they seem to be so thrilled and into the date that they appear to feel sparks and passion, while well, they really might not. They just come off as feeling it while mentally, they're way more distant than you might believe. At the end of the day, these are Air people so at their worst, they appear sweet and loving while not really feeling it deep down, without intending to be malicious... they just don't. I'm not trying to be harsh but for now, he is probably not interested. Libra people can feel one way about their date, and the awesome time they had, and then a totally different way after weighing things over in their head, rational or not, about it all. It's as I said, the wishy-washy syndrome! You'd be surprised how much the air signs are all alike in a way. I'm scarily similar to my Gemini friends, the 'Twins', as they can also change their minds easily about a date or lover. It's just how Libra people are. But it's not fair to leave you hanging and he needs to get his act together. IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted September 27, 2012 12:04 AM
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Originally posted by bella_taurus:
So, I meet this attractive Libra man from this somewhat well-known free dating site. We started out texting and back and forth. He tells me how attractive I am and that he wants to spoil me, yadda...yadda....yadda...the texting mind you is very sparse and a little too bold, but I was like, well...I'll still meet him. The first date we had planned he cancels an hour before because he had his sons for the weekend, (see, I'm on the aries/taurus cusp, I dont like dating men with kids, I like to be number one, but I do want kids of my own someday...) so, yeah I was mad, but I got over it fast because I was going out that night anyways. So he calls me and forgives me and states he wants to meet that following Monday. So, I never have dates during the week, because I'm always pooped from work and all, so the weekend is my time is time to play and have fun, it's called logic. So..anywho, eventhough I was NOT up for meeting up on a friggin' Monday for a date, and I knew I was going to look tired and be tired, I met up with him. So I put on my best face and did it. There were sparks, we talked over amazing mexican food and drinks. The conversation flowed and he was actually really nice and aplogized about Saturday, he told me how he was tired of being stood up and lied to.. and I told him the same. So I'm thinking in my head, okay, this could turn into something cool. So, he drives me home and walks me to my door and we share a kiss...it was nice. I feel good that I showed up. Later that evening before I go to bed, I text him and thank him graciously for the date, he texts back 30 min later.."cool". I kinda looked at it and thought, okay. I also drop him a compliment about how much I loved his smile, he replies "thanks". I was like........okay. So, it's been two days, and he's still weird. I don't know why he's acting like this, but I think he's one cold ******* for being rude like that. It sucks, but I guess whatever will be, will be. What I am to do? Anybody else been treated rudely by a Libra man? HMMPh.
sadly, it sounds like it has nothing to do with his sign and just with a basic 'he's not into you' situation. since it was all just text/email until that point maybe the date just didn't meet his expectations? an interested man would respond back more favorably, just my opinion IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted September 27, 2012 08:00 AM
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Originally posted by starmoon:
sadly, it sounds like it has nothing to do with his sign and just with a basic 'he's not into you' situation. since it was all just text/email until that point maybe the date just didn't meet his expectations? an interested man would respond back more favorably, just my opinion
^ My guess, too. My dad was a Libra and he would drive women crazy, blowing hot and cold. Sometimes he would get cold just to have his space and time to think (Mercury Scorpio) and then expect them to be up for another fun date like nothing happened. He had a long-time Capricorn girlfriend, I think her ability to freeze him out in return kept him interested.
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libragrrrl0923
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posted September 27, 2012 09:44 AM
As a libra girl, I have been guilty of doing this very same thing. I started dating back in April and even though the dates went well, I would often become distant to the guys that I didn't spark with or I would just blow them off completely. There was one date that I went on with a Leo, he was nice but lacked motivation in his life. The entire date was focused on how to get him motivated and happy - this didn't create any sparks with me. I'm looking for a man with some sort of direction in his life. Anyways... After the date, he texted me and wanted to see me again, but I would only respond with short messages. Finally I told him that I just didn't feel the spark but this was after he just came out and asked, "Do you want to see me again?" I know it's wrong to be like this, but I hate being mean to people and confrontation isn't really my thing. However, when backed into a corner or asked a question directly - I'm as blunt as they come! Since it was only one date, I would do as Blanky suggested and just wait until he contacts you and move on with your life. Hope that helps a little. IP: Logged |
libran taurus
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From: Belo Horizonte, MG, Brazil
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 27, 2012 12:07 PM
Alright, I'm Libra with ascendant Scorpio, Taurus Moon and Virgo Venus. I am not that dry person which some people discribed above. It's actually the opposite.I speak a lot in person, but, indeed, I find hard to say no to peoples face. I prefer just not to pick up calls or dissapear when I don't want anymore. It also feels very hard to break up relationships. Still dont know why, but people with different appearance do not insterest me too. I've recently met a guy online who fits in that. He was Libran like me, but with Aquarius/Aries asc/moon that I couldnt stand... he sounded like the thruth's owner. His jokes were horrible too. But the details that put me off were two: he speaks too loud and eats too much! Librans are too complex and hard to please... IP: Logged |
acousticbob
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Registered: Aug 2010
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posted September 27, 2012 12:44 PM
I've had a very similar experience with a Libra moon girl. The mixed messages are very misleading. But if you're not satisfied with the responses you are getting then it's time to move on  IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
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From: NYC
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted September 27, 2012 12:45 PM
As a Libra female, I have never understood Libra males and their behavior with dating. They seem to have so many changes of heart, and keep who ever may be their current romantic interest in the dark of their true "intentions". It's just to much for most to read into. That's why(as a Libra) I decided a few years back, I would be the one to pursue someone if I was attracted to them. There would be less hurt and explanation that way...IP: Logged | |
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