posted September 26, 2012 11:15 AM            

Reading from Grupo Venus:

Chapter 1
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other

Inthemisosoup's Sun in Saggitarius and V's Sun in Saggitarius

There is great camaraderie between you. A love of traveling and a restless wanderlust are traits that you have in common. Both of you are optimists and you love to shoot for the stars. Minor details annoy you and pettiness is abhorrent to you. You have a youthful enthusiasm, and have a spirited, progressive outlook on life. With so much in common, you are able to have a wonderful time together. Neither one of you takes life too seriously, so you can count on having a lively relationship with lots of variety, new adventure, and play. Both of you are also rather philosophical and if you develop different philosophical or religious viewpoints, you may find it difficult to feel really close to each other! Also, both of you are often blunt and lacking in subtlety and often oblivious or indifferent to others' personal feelings, but fortunately neither of you is insulted very easily. Overall, you are very well-matched in terms of temperaments and interests. You will be good pals if nothing else, and friendship is something you both prize as much as romance.

Inthemisosoup's Moon in Pisces and V's Moon in Cancer

The two of you understand each other very well and you share many of the same traits. You can have a very strong emotional rapport and attachment to one another, so much so that you communicate nonverbally or telepathically quite easily.

Both of you are highly receptive and sensitive to the emotional tone surrounding you. You have an intuitive awareness of others' inner feelings and needs, and are sympathetic almost to a fault. You absorb the moods of the people around you, and are prone to take on others' troubles or emotions, sometimes not even knowing what your own true feelings are and what you have picked up from someone else. It is important for both of you to have a peaceful home to retreat to (near a lake or other body of water, ideally). You need a place where you can withdraw and replenish yourselves, spiritually and emotionally, on a regular basis. You share a tendency to want to escape from the pressures of the world and modern day competition and stress, and both of you need to beware of the tendency to become dependent on alcohol or other substances which enable you to evade reality. Meditation, listening to or creating music, or living close to nature are other, more nurturing ways to do the same thing.

Chapter 2
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together

Venus Mutually Aspects Jupiter

As mentioned below several times, this relationship is blessed with a high degree of good will, harmony, and love for each other. A great deal of merry-making, partying, and socializing makes this relationship an outgoing, enjoyable one. Your appreciation for each other is very strong - this is a relationship that is long-lasting, fulfilling, and rewarding in many ways.

Inthemisosoup's Sun conjunct V's Neptune orb 2° 1'

Imagination, fantasy, and idealism are key elements in your relationship. Inthemisosoup, in particular, tends to see V in glamorous romanticized terms, and may fail to recognize V's actual character. You both need to ask yourselves: Have I fallen in love with a person or an image? Positively, there is a great deal of sympathy, an intuitive or psychic rapport that enables you to be very sensitive to one another's subtle cues and feelings. You also inspire one another's generosity, charitable impulses, and idealism. Negatively, you can deceive one another and tend to avoid clear, precise, direct communication, which may result in disappointments.

Inthemisosoup's Uranus conjunct V's Sun orb 2° 58'

You inspire each other to try new things, experiment, and investigate alternatives. You may have met each other, for example, during a time period when both of you were breaking free from traditional values and exploring new possibilities. There is a lot of excitement and spontaneity in your relationship. The two of you may find it difficult to settle down into a stable life style - there will always be surprises and unexpected turns in your relationship. You encounter lots of new ideas, unusual people, adventure, and exciting times together. You both enjoy a good measure of freedom and independence in this relationship, but either of you may wish that there was more commitment, devotion, seriousness, warmth, and closeness.

Inthemisosoup's Neptune conjunct V's Mars orb 1° 13'

When the two of you are together, you find it difficult to concentrate on mundane affairs. You enjoy sharing more imaginative or unusual interests, and your conversations frequently turn to artistic, psychological, religious, and metaphysical topics. You are more willing to be childish, playful and silly with each other than with others. However, you have difficulty bearing down on more serious matters and coordinating on practical affairs.

You are also fascinated with one another and can have a very dreamy sexual and romantic interest in each other. Your erotic imagination is powerfully stimulated by one another, and you find each other mysteriously desirable, highly provocative, or seductive. You need to be quite honest with one another about what you really want and are willing to give. Inthemisosoup especially should avoid arousing V's passionate desires, teasing or leading V on, unless you truly intend to fulfill your 'promises'.

You tend to have a very unclear or stilted perception of one another, seeing each other through a haze of fantasy, glamour, or romantic imagination. You may be more taken with the image that you have in your mind of this person than the real none-too- perfect human being. You have trouble dealing with the prosaic aspects of life when you are together. You are also able to blend or merge emotionally with one another, and there is a great deal of sympathetic understanding and rapport between you. You 'pick up' on one another's moods very easily and may become confused by this at times, unable to distinguish or separate your own from feelings from those of your partner.

Inthemisosoup's Sun square V's Saturn orb 2° 22'

V must be very careful not to harshly criticize or judge Inthemisosoup. There is a strong tendency for Inthemisosoup to feel blocked, frustrated, and discouraged by V. Typically, V will feel surprised by Inthemisosoup's feelings of frustration and anger, and feel that Inthemisosoup is just being overly sensitive to criticism. There is an element of truth to both viewpoints: V tends to be too critical of Inthemisosoup and Inthemisosoup tends to be too sensitive to the criticism; the combination can be disastrous! Inthemisosoup may try to ignore the problem, but ignoring the problem will not cause the problem to disappear. This is a relationship that can help both of you mature a great deal; you are able to build a secure, stable life together and face many challenges and responsibilities together that you have been trying to avoid. However, the tendency to become overly concerned with your responsibilities and be too conservative, cautious, and restrictive towards each other must not get out of hand, or you will both feel severely confined and restricted by being together.

Inthemisosoup's Moon trine V's Uranus orb 1° 22'

There is an upbeat, enthusiastic, spontaneous quality to your relationship. You spark each other's imagination, creativity, and wit. You feel loose and uninhibited with each other, and you enjoy exploring life and sharing new experiences. Also, if you both enjoy dancing or playing music, you have found a wonderful dance and/or music partner. You spark each other's sense of rhythm, and you can work together very spontaneously, yet gracefully - an indication of sexual compatibility and satisfaction as well.

Inthemisosoup's Moon square V's Neptune orb 2° 3'

You spark each other's imagination and fantasies, but the tendency to deceive each other is also very strong. You fascinate and intrigue each other, clouding your vision and causing you to often misunderstand each other. For example, you tend to project fantasies and hopes on each other - this is not necessarily bad because these fantasies can become a rich source for imaginative, inspiring works of art or music. Do not rush into a serious relationship too quickly, though, because you need time to make sure that you haven't got caught up in a romantic, idealistic vision of each other, from which you will later wake. If either of you has a major problem of a psychological, alcohol-related, or drug-related nature, this relationship can become a partnership in dissolute, self-destructive, negative habits.

Inthemisosoup's Mercury trine V's Moon orb 0° 8'

You enjoy long talks and you feel very much at home with each other. You are able to openly share your feelings about various issues, whether they are political, religious, or personal in nature. You will find that as you spend more time together, your tastes, interests, hobbies, and activities tend to blend together harmoniously. The feeling of friendship and inner understanding of each other is very satisfying and of a very positive nature.

Inthemisosoup's Venus square V's Jupiter orb 0° 28'

You enjoy laughing, having fun, socializing, and going out together. You are great pals, but the relationship may not be serious enough to warrant a lasting commitment to each other. Consequently you both may decide to not marry even though you may love each other very much. If you do marry, you will allow each other a great deal of freedom, but you are likely to disagree on how to handle finances, budgeting, and investments.

Inthemisosoup's Mars square V's Mercury orb 2° 56'

The tendency to argumentativeness, verbal abuse, and mutual misunderstanding is very strong so please heed the following advice, especially if your relationship is a permanent one: try to avoid abusive language towards each other, and do not try to coerce the other person to accept your views. You enjoy challenging each other's ideas, showing the weaknesses, inconsistencies, or superficialities in each other's reasoning. While the intention is good, the net result can be hurt feelings and anger. Typically there is some truth to each other's point of view, but a lack of real appreciation and respect for each other's ideas triggers argumentativeness.

Inthemisosoup's Jupiter trine V's Venus orb 0° 52'

You are generous with one another, always ready to help each other, and you have a great respect and appreciation for one another. You also allow one another a lot of freedom to develop other friendships, rather than clinging possessively to one another. You may also benefit from one another materially as well as emotionally.

Inthemisosoup's Venus sextile V's Ascendant orb 1° 53'

posted September 26, 2012 11:23 AM            

i'm sure a mod will move it soon tho
no worries

posted September 26, 2012 11:30 AM            

comp Sun conjunct neptune and strong neptune squares and conjunctions in synastry....

Whenever I see a relationship or crush probably in this case... that is lacking substance as far as compatibiltiy goes, there is a lot of neptune going on. Doesn't look good. Neptune is illusions, and without a solid foundation once those are slightly broken bc no two people are perfect ull be left with nothing but disappointed. sad but true.

There is nothing else other than neptune going on here, really. Are you guys friends? Hopefully ur not going out. doesn't look like it would last very long.

posted September 26, 2012 12:12 PM            

Did you see the neptune aspects from the report? also comp sun conjunct neptune and sun conjunct neptune in synastry which u have both of these gives similar interps..basically, have u fallen in love with a person, or that person's image? You feel like soulmates, but are you deluding yourself? Find out who they really are before you get involved too seriously.

"Moon square neptune in synastry - You spark each other's imagination and fantasies, but the tendency to deceive each other is also very strong. You fascinate and intrigue each other, clouding your vision and causing you to often misunderstand each other. For example, you tend to project fantasies and hopes on each other - this is not necessarily bad because these fantasies can become a rich source for imaginative, inspiring works of art or music. Do not rush into a serious relationship too quickly, though, because you need time to make sure that you haven't got caught up in a romantic, idealistic vision of each other, from which you will later wake. "

posted September 26, 2012 12:44 PM            

We do have heavy Neptune in our relationship; strong outer planet contacts to personal planets in general. It is pretty karmic, though, with my moon on his SN, his saturn conjuncts my vertex, his Pluto on my SN, my Neptune on his ASC, and his nMooon on my draconic DSC exact.