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Topic: tips on a sagittarius guy
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catulele83 Newflake Posts: 9 From: Woolwich twp. NJ, USA Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 26, 2012 02:44 PM
Hi, I just got approved for this site. I have just recently for 4 months now am dating a man. His signg is Sagittarius, and I am a virgo. I've read loads of articals about the particular signs and it matches up to him faily well, I think he holds a little scorpio in him too. He has recently told me, I'm the one for him and he's really in love with me. He's also has been talking about our "future" and wants to be apart of my life as well as me children's. (their father isn't present!) He is pretty punctual on our chats etc, it's long distant for now. We use skype for the face to face contact. I met him through a mutual friend..So: it was my birthday a month ago. He claimed he has sent me a gift, which I have not recieved yet. He still insists he sent it..I'm wondering if it is the distance, Oh-NJ?? I have asked about the tracking number and he's like well I will get the receipt. My question on that is, do you supose he is telling the truth? My other questions are: Do they tend to lie, cheat, etc? He hasn't had a gf in over a year according to his facebook and himself. He tells me nice things and wants me in his life, and wants a future with us, and tells me how much he loves me. But being a worry-some virgo..what are good tips to help with this? I am not good with relationships. I told him useually the 1st month I run and no one has cought me yet..or I'll break up in other words. He said he wants to prove it to me overtime that he loves me and I'm it for him. IP: Logged |
polysigh Knowflake Posts: 180 From: Chicago, USA Registered: May 2011
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posted September 26, 2012 04:31 PM
BUMPwould love to know this too IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 313 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 26, 2012 08:40 PM
what sign is his moon in? does he have any mercury-neptune contacts in the natal chart? if you post his natal chart, someone will be able to give it a look for sureIP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 313 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 26, 2012 08:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: what sign is his moon in? does he have any mercury-neptune contacts in the natal chart? if you post his actual natal chart, someone will be able to give it a look
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RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 4149 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted September 27, 2012 05:19 AM
My dad is a Sagittarius, and a good guy. Then again, he had really good parents and has a lot of fixed energy in his chart. He is honest.If someone says something was lost, you could try tracking the package online or calling the postal service, and settle the matter. If they have some kind of record of it being sent, he's very likely being honest. IP: Logged |
Lotis White Knowflake Posts: 683 From: USA Registered: Dec 2010
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posted September 27, 2012 06:52 AM
If you want a proper compatibility analysis you'll have to post you and your partner's planetary positions, not just your Sun signs. The best thing to do would be to post both the sign and degree of all of the planets of you and your partner. Try to get accurate birth times too, so we can also analyze the Asc degree and all of your house cusps, which are important in astrology. IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 2597 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 27, 2012 07:13 AM
Hello catulele83! Welcome to LL ![](http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/starsmile.gif)
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Venus Moderator Posts: 1536 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted September 27, 2012 07:31 AM
saggs don't usualy lie, of course that does depend on his planetary positions..when dealing with saggs, a soft Libra like myself, usualy wears an armor of steel, nay PLATINUM! and still those sharp arrows reach the flesh. IP: Logged |
catulele83 Newflake Posts: 9 From: Woolwich twp. NJ, USA Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 27, 2012 01:21 PM
Here is a link to his natal chart. http://alabe.com/cgi-bin/chart/astrobot.cgi?INPUT1=Eric+Camlin&INPUT2=&MONTH=11&DAY=24&YEAR=1982&HOUR=12&MINUTE=00&M=PM&TOWN=Stuttgart&COUNTRY=GER&STATE=&INPUT9=&Submit=Submit Here is my natal chart http://alabe.com/cgi-bin/chart/astrobot.cgi?INPUT1=Cara+Merryfield&INPUT2=&MONTH=08&DAY=30&YEAR=1983&HOUR=7&MINUTE=53&M=PM&TOWN=Woodbury+&COUNTRY=USA&STATE=NJ&INPUT9=&Submit=Sub mit I have no clue what either of them mean.
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 2476 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 27, 2012 03:04 PM
I'm an Aries and not a huge fan of Sagittarius guys, BUT they are actually one sign I don't think would lie, or could lie really. Sagittarius' speech is quite sharp, blunt, abrupt but more than likely as honest as you'll ever get. They don't like being wrong though. Even through all their brash behavior they are ethical signs when it comes to other people. When it comes to themselves however, they would like the freedom to do whatever they please and not deal with the consequences. Which actually poses a question: what will Sags put up with/deal with?They have a bad reputation for being cheaters but these character things like lying, cheating, stealing, manipulation... that's all on the person and every sign can and probably does it. I think signs just separate the degrees in which they do so, how far they will actually go with their shadow selves. IP: Logged |
Blanky Newflake Posts: 14 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 28, 2012 12:04 AM
Dear catulele83,It is weird as my friend is Virgo and is dating a Sag too. She has had some problems with his "need" to be right all the time too! But so far he hasn't been deceitful. Your Sag Guy has a couple of aspects that I would keep an eye on. He has a huge stellium beginning with his 9th House Scorpio Jupiter conjunct his 10th House Sag Sun which sometimes can make one feel that they are "larger than life." And since it is in Scorpio he might be more secretive than the usual Sag. And sometimes Sun/Jupiter hard aspects can promise more than they can deliver. They mean what they say at the time...but then it just doesn't manifest...sometimes anyway. The 10th House stellium continues with his Sag Sun/Mercury/Uranus/Venus. Lots of 10th House energy! Profession, Honors, Career, and how the public sees him. I am curious if he is heavily focused on career as I would imagine he would be with all those planets in "Capricorn's House." His Sag Mercury/Uranus conjunction can possibly find him speaking highly intellectually and also impulsively and sometimes it is easy to "add" a few things that might not be exactly on target or might be a little "shocking" in some way. Maybe anyway... Then his Sag Uranus/Venus conjunction might make it difficult for him to stay in a long-term relationship as Uranus has a way of changing direction quickly. Not that he isn't capable of being in a long-term relationship. He just might have had difficulty with this when he was younger. Maybe anyway... Just talked to my friend about her Sag bf and she said that he LOVES talking about big plans for the future like remodeling or travel, but he does do what he says he is going to do in the short-term. And often does it earlier than promised. That was good to hear! The only thing that might be a problem is that his huge Sag stellium squares his Pisces Moon. Pisces Moon can be rather forgetful about the "real world" as their soul is not really "of this world." Pisces IS ruled by Neptune and that "slippery" planet can be a real problem for us earthlings! With his Pisces Moon squaring all his Sag Planets I would take my time with this one. Pisces "can" be deceitful when hit by hard aspects like the square. And his Pisces Moon squares his Sag Sun, Mercury, Uranus, AND his Venus. He seems to be "saying" all the right things and since you have children choosing an appropriate mate is tantamount to your family's welfare. No "passing fancy" will do when our precious children are also involved. And our priority of course too! So he may have just forgotten to mail your present! But to be on the safe side before you commit long-term I would suggest that you keep a close eye on his behavior as that does reveal the true character of a person. And make sure that his words and actions always "match" too. This is my biggest concern. That he actually does what he says he is going to do. It is easy to say something but it is very "telling" whether he actually DOES what he says he is going to do. So please don't be shy about asking anything and everything at this point in your relationship as some men know exactly what to say to a woman that can sweep us off our feet! But the answer is in his actions. So be very watchful of "what" he does when he says he is "going" to do something. This will reveal much. Good luck to you and your Sag Man. With your eye for detail and the ability to analyze down to a science (lol) I have no doubt you will figure this out all on your own. Oh if you DO find he "fibbed" about the present, I suggest there isn't a second chance. If someone lies once, they will easily lie twice. Again all the best to you and your sweet children! Hugs to each and every one! And you too of course!
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catulele83 Newflake Posts: 9 From: Woolwich twp. NJ, USA Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 28, 2012 08:26 AM
Blanky, thankyou so much it's so weird you've liked pin-pointed Eric correct on most. He is so career orriented he sometimes forgets that we were supose to chat that night or anything. That's the only thing I don't like is how career orriented he is. He told me today he worked since like 6am yesterday and barly gets like 5 hrs sleep. I feel like I want to say well tough pooh, but I can't. I know sag's love listners so I'll let him open the boohoo canal when he's upset..As it being long distant, I am fine with that. The thing about pisces really targted a lot, he is very forgetfull but always sympathetic and apalogetic as well. At the current time I don't know what to think, there is something nagging at me I'm not quite sure if it's good or bad, as sometimes my mind and heart argue a lot, if that makes sense? I thankyou many times for the addvice...IP: Logged |
Blanky Newflake Posts: 14 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 28, 2012 10:33 AM
Dear catulele83, I'm happy to be helpful and single moms are so non-stop busy that it can be hard to make sure that a man is going to be as good for your kids as he is for you. Ultimately the best mate I had as a single mother loved my daughter more than me! First my pride was wounded but then I realized how lucky I was to have a mate that truly loved my child as I did. So the children are priority here. Workaholics can be a problem as my father was always working. They're hardly ever home so even if you move in together you will still feel very "single" at times. I looked at your chart last night and believe you have a Mercury square Neptune (can make it hard to see things as they really are) and I have that aspect too which makes it hard to determine the character of others. That is why I suggested you watch his behavior as that always shows ones true character. Most men know what to "say" to make us fall hard for them, so watching behavior has been a life saver for me. Looking back I realized every relationship I have had in my life began with a lie. None of them lasted in the long run. Except the one that loved my child and he has passsed God Rest His Sweet Soul. So "turn off" your "ears" and "watch" what he does instead. I feel this will give you the answers that you seek about his being your mate. You are a "package deal" when you have children and your mate must understand that AND be agreeable to that too. Bless you again. Glad I saw your question. IP: Logged |
Blanky Newflake Posts: 14 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 28, 2012 10:48 AM
Dear catulele83, I just read your response again and you state that there is something "nagging at you." This is of major importance because I feel your "Woman's Intuition" is "telling" you to take your time with this one. I sometimes call this Red Alert! Red Alert! When we ignore our intuition we usually make poor choices or the road becomes very rocky. So until that 'nagging feeling' goes away I would keep both feet planted on the ground and refuse to move deeper into this relationship until that "nagging feeling" has totally disappeared. We have our Sixth Sense for a reason. I believe our subconscious is trying its best to "warn" us of something or someone. So always trust your gut feelings. We have them for a really good reason...to help us choose a good path. And every path that you choose your children will also follow. This is reason enough to make very sure that he is "the one." Many times our "mates" are temporary but our children are our children for life. My child is very "sensitive" and kicked several suitors out when she was only 10? 11 maybe? She knew they were of poor character. Children know when someone is the Real Deal even when Mom doesn't! Just wanted to encourage you to trust that nagging feeling as you are getting it for a very good reason even though you aren't sure exactly what it is right now. Bless you and your children again. I wish you all the best. IP: Logged |
catulele83 Newflake Posts: 9 From: Woolwich twp. NJ, USA Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 28, 2012 10:58 AM
Blanky, your absolutly right.. I think I'll keep this nagging feeling and not get my hopes up and my mind wander with expectation. I honestly don't think he sent the package, I honestly don't think he's the one. I honestly don't think we'll ever meet...I honeslty feel in the up coming month or less..maybe more, he'll break it off coz he's always working. I think and feel that's what's going to happen, he'll feel sorry and bad and doesn't want to hurt me but the fact that his two jobs and the distance worry him greatly I know that much. I know he is a good honest man but I feel he's going to soon..because of his lack of contact is telling me he's backing off..which honeslty if he does I wont be to hurt over it.IP: Logged |