posted September 26, 2012 02:44 PM            

So: it was my birthday a month ago. He claimed he has sent me a gift, which I have not recieved yet. He still insists he sent it..I'm wondering if it is the distance, Oh-NJ?? I have asked about the tracking number and he's like well I will get the receipt. My question on that is, do you supose he is telling the truth?

posted September 26, 2012 08:40 PM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
what sign is his moon in? does he have any mercury-neptune contacts in the natal chart?
if you post his actual natal chart, someone will be able to give it a look

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posted September 27, 2012 01:21 PM            

Here is my natal chart http://alabe.com/cgi-bin/chart/astrobot.cgi?INPUT1=Cara+Merryfield&INPUT2=&MONTH=08&DAY=30&YEAR=1983&HOUR=7&MINUTE=53&M=PM&TOWN=Woodbury+&COUNTRY=USA&STATE=NJ&INPUT9=&Submit=Sub mit

posted September 28, 2012 12:04 AM            

It is weird as my friend is Virgo and is dating a Sag too. She has had some problems with his "need" to be right all the time too! But so far he hasn't been deceitful.

Your Sag Guy has a couple of aspects that I would keep an eye on. He has a huge stellium beginning with his 9th House Scorpio Jupiter conjunct his 10th House Sag Sun which sometimes can make one feel that they are "larger than life." And since it is in Scorpio he might be more secretive than the usual Sag. And sometimes Sun/Jupiter hard aspects can promise more than they can deliver. They mean what they say at the time...but then it just doesn't manifest...sometimes anyway.

The 10th House stellium continues with his Sag Sun/Mercury/Uranus/Venus. Lots of 10th House energy! Profession, Honors, Career, and how the public sees him. I am curious if he is heavily focused on career as I would imagine he would be with all those planets in "Capricorn's House."

His Sag Mercury/Uranus conjunction can possibly find him speaking highly intellectually and also impulsively and sometimes it is easy to "add" a few things that might not be exactly on target or might be a little "shocking" in some way. Maybe anyway...

Then his Sag Uranus/Venus conjunction might make it difficult for him to stay in a long-term relationship as Uranus has a way of changing direction quickly. Not that he isn't capable of being in a long-term relationship. He just might have had difficulty with this when he was younger. Maybe anyway...

Just talked to my friend about her Sag bf and she said that he LOVES talking about big plans for the future like remodeling or travel, but he does do what he says he is going to do in the short-term. And often does it earlier than promised. That was good to hear!

The only thing that might be a problem is that his huge Sag stellium squares his Pisces Moon. Pisces Moon can be rather forgetful about the "real world" as their soul is not really "of this world." Pisces IS ruled by Neptune and that "slippery" planet can be a real problem for us earthlings! With his Pisces Moon squaring all his Sag Planets I would take my time with this one. Pisces "can" be deceitful when hit by hard aspects like the square. And his Pisces Moon squares his Sag Sun, Mercury, Uranus, AND his Venus.

He seems to be "saying" all the right things and since you have children choosing an appropriate mate is tantamount to your family's welfare. No "passing fancy" will do when our precious children are also involved. And our priority of course too!

So he may have just forgotten to mail your present! But to be on the safe side before you commit long-term I would suggest that you keep a close eye on his behavior as that does reveal the true character of a person. And make sure that his words and actions always "match" too. This is my biggest concern. That he actually does what he says he is going to do. It is easy to say something but it is very "telling" whether he actually DOES what he says he is going to do.

So please don't be shy about asking anything and everything at this point in your relationship as some men know exactly what to say to a woman that can sweep us off our feet! But the answer is in his actions. So be very watchful of "what" he does when he says he is "going" to do something. This will reveal much.

Good luck to you and your Sag Man. With your eye for detail and the ability to analyze down to a science (lol) I have no doubt you will figure this out all on your own.

Oh if you DO find he "fibbed" about the present, I suggest there isn't a second chance. If someone lies once, they will easily lie twice.

Again all the best to you and your sweet children! Hugs to each and every one! And you too of course!

posted September 28, 2012 10:33 AM            

I'm happy to be helpful and single moms are so non-stop busy that it can be hard to make sure that a man is going to be as good for your kids as he is for you.

Ultimately the best mate I had as a single mother loved my daughter more than me! First my pride was wounded but then I realized how lucky I was to have a mate that truly loved my child as I did. So the children are priority here.

Workaholics can be a problem as my father was always working. They're hardly ever home so even if you move in together you will still feel very "single" at times.

I looked at your chart last night and believe you have a Mercury square Neptune (can make it hard to see things as they really are) and I have that aspect too which makes it hard to determine the character of others. That is why I suggested you watch his behavior as that always shows ones true character.

Most men know what to "say" to make us fall hard for them, so watching behavior has been a life saver for me. Looking back I realized every relationship I have had in my life began with a lie. None of them lasted in the long run. Except the one that loved my child and he has passsed God Rest His Sweet Soul. So "turn off" your "ears" and "watch" what he does instead. I feel this will give you the answers that you seek about his being your mate.

posted September 28, 2012 10:48 AM            

I just read your response again and you state that there is something "nagging at you." This is of major importance because I feel your "Woman's Intuition" is "telling" you to take your time with this one. I sometimes call this Red Alert! Red Alert!

When we ignore our intuition we usually make poor choices or the road becomes very rocky. So until that 'nagging feeling' goes away I would keep both feet planted on the ground and refuse to move deeper into this relationship until that "nagging feeling" has totally disappeared.

We have our Sixth Sense for a reason. I believe our subconscious is trying its best to "warn" us of something or someone. So always trust your gut feelings. We have them for a really good reason...to help us choose a good path. And every path that you choose your children will also follow. This is reason enough to make very sure that he is "the one."

Many times our "mates" are temporary but our children are our children for life. My child is very "sensitive" and kicked several suitors out when she was only 10? 11 maybe? She knew they were of poor character. Children know when someone is the Real Deal even when Mom doesn't!

Just wanted to encourage you to trust that nagging feeling as you are getting it for a very good reason even though you aren't sure exactly what it is right now.