posted October 04, 2012 01:11 AM            

Now I'm sure there are Pisces who like commitment and Virgos and Sags and Geminis but this is just *my* experience. Sag sun Pisces moon ex, Gemini sun and moon ex, even know an Aries sun Gem moon with Mars in Pisces kiiiinda like this. They are all kind of light hearted about relationships, don't let them become too heavy and are mostly thrill and fun oriented. Which is not bad anyway.

No, I'm the exact opposite of the flighty heart-breaker who everyone loves and gets left by.

I'm more or less the committed heart-broken who didn't see it coming.

posted October 04, 2012 02:24 AM            

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people with lots of 5th house planets.

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posted October 04, 2012 10:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:

I'm more or less the committed heart-broken who didn't see it coming.

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^^^I'm this as well...

posted October 04, 2012 10:27 AM            

The 11th house rules popularity, social lovability and love received…. People with an active 11th house, and well placed 11th house rulers, are likely to attract many admires, and to be seen in general as a worthy catch. Many people may seek this person, but they can only pick one, or they may pass altogether if they're not interested in any particular person.

The same could be said for an active Uranus, Uranus in the 1st or 10th house, or tons of Aquarius in the chart (Although this tends to be more diluted then the Uranus/11th house stuff). These types of people are often seen as fascinatingly different, in sparking, unique way, which attracts plenty of attention in general. Venus/Uranus squares and oppositions in particular, tend to indicate unpredictable love lives, with drastic changes (in other words a heartbreaker)... Or just an unusual choice for a partner.

The 5th house rules impressive talent, an ability to captivate others with the shear force of your charisma, and love given… This house is all about the glory that comes from being brilliant in your own way, and utilizing your self-expression effectively. It’s also about the initial stages of love and romance, where we become infatuated with how ’special’ a particular person seem to be…. People with an active 5th house, and well placed 5th house rulers, tend to be able to ’cast a spell’ on others with their charisma, and as such attract many admires. Again, this type could be a heartbreaker simply in the sense that many may fall under their spell, and yet they will only pick the one they like the most. Or nobody, if there isn't anybody in particular that makes their heartstrings sing (This type of thing is especially important for 5th house/Solar/Leo types).

The same could be said for an active Sun, Sun in the 1st or 10th house, or tons of Leo in the chart (Again, the sign alone is a more diluted indicator then the 5th house/Sun stuff). These folks tend to ’shine out’ amongst their peers in general.

This is NOT to say that all strongly influenced Uranus/Aqua/11th house and Sun/ Leo/5th house folks are universally attractive to all. It’s just that these types of people tend to attract a lot of attention, and the more you get noticed, and more likely it is that someone will fall for you… Even if unintentionally. The very fact that these people stand out works in their favor in terms of attracting attention. However this attention they attract can be either extremely good or extremely bad, depending on the rest of their chart, and how the aspects play out... With an afflicted 11th house for instance, instead of being well loved by your ‘crowd’, you could find yourself the subject of ridicule, or wind up being notorious, or infamous in some way. Another manifestation of this could be that you do attract plenty of admires but that you also find them to be pesky or irritating in how they pursue your attention. There may even be a stalker -like situation at some point in your life. It can play out in at number of ways.

In my case I’ve got Pluto in the 11th house, and at one point in my life I had a serious stalker situation that was difficult to get through.

I also agree that strong mutable signs having a bit of a ’heartbreaker’ quality . They tend to be very curious and take an interest in people (asking them a lot of questions) which can be misinterpreted as romantic interest, when really they are just mentally intrigued by others in general. They also flit from one thing to another really fast. The may seem fascinated by you one day, and the next it’s like they’re barely aware you exist.

Also there may be those that are heartbreakers in the sense that they know they have charm and use it to their advantage, having multiple sweethearts at one time... This is probably related to an affliction involving the 5th or 11th houses... Or Uranus (erratic, and changeable), Pluto (can be intensely loyal or sexually promiscuous), Neptune (deceptive and always looking for perfection) in harsh aspects to the Sun, Moon, Venus (especially Venus) or Mars. In some cases Venus/Mars aspects, especially the hard ones, can indicate this type of heartbreaker as well. These people usually have a lot of appeal, and if they are so inclined could use this to their advantage in a negative way. Aspects like all the above mentioned can manifest in many ways though, so I wouldn’t be jumping to conclusions to fast. Everyone is different in how they manifest their charts.

posted October 04, 2012 10:33 AM            

1) Gary Goldschneider calls September 28th "The day of the Heartbreakers."

2) August 2nd is another "sudden death for relationships" birthday

posted October 04, 2012 12:14 PM            

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Aquarius is the natural ruler of the 11th house, and is ruled by the planet Uranus. The characteristics of Aquarius are: unpredictability, instability, and freedom-loving. As such, people with planets in Aquarius tend to display these characteristics towards their mates, especially if the Sun, Moon, and/or Venus is in Aquarius. Aquarian men need tons of space and freedom, and feel “trapped” if they feel tied down. This is why this sign is known for commitment-phobia. Aquarius is also the rebel, so anything “traditional” when it comes to relationships just won’t do. Indeed, non-traditional relationships, such as long-distance relationships, work best for these guys.

Aquarius, Uranus & The Detached Lover

Aquarius men are often stuck in their own worlds. They are constantly thinking and processing information, so it’s easy for them to forget to call or write. Also, Aquarius men shun neediness and clingy-ness, so if their partner shows major signs of co-dependency, they will distance themselves from the relationship. Aquas are also very independent, and need space to do their own thing. In addition, Aquarius people tend to see everyone as equals; they’re just as likely to help a stranger as they are likely to help a long-time friend. Because of this, they are less likely to give anyone “special treatment.” Finally, Aquas are known for their emotional detachment. They are often oblivious to the feelings of others, so he might find it difficult to understand that you have needs.

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Aquarius men work best with partners who also have their own lives. If you’re in a relationship with an Aquarius person, don’t give up your life for him. Waiting by the phone for him to call, or nagging him constantly will get you nowhere in this relationship.

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Prominent Uranus Aspects and Placements:

Prominent Uranus aspects include hard aspects to one’s Sun, Moon, Venus, Ascendant/Descendant axis, or Uranus in the fifth or seventh house.

People with prominent Uranus placements tend to have Aquarian traits, as Uranus is the ruler of Aquarius. People with prominent Uranus in their charts are independent, freedom-loving folk who hate to be tied down.

Like Aquarius folk, they have a tremendous need for space and independence, so relationships can be tricky for them. Relationships usually start and end quickly for Uranian people. They are attracted to the “newness” of relationships, which is hard to maintain in the long run. Their relationships are marked by an on-off energy; when their partners get too close, the Uranian person distances himself, but when the partner is nowhere to be found, the Uranian person gains interest again. Instability and unpredictability are the hallmarks of Uranian relationships. These people tend to also be attracted to non-traditional relationships (i.e. long-distance), and are attracted to non-traditional partners (i.e. people from different localities, backgrounds, cultures, etc.).

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posted October 05, 2012 12:38 AM            

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or...it could be Uranus conjunct the Ascendant. They can be noncommittal and they constantly alter their viewpoints.
it's an ongoing process dude

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posted October 05, 2012 09:22 PM            

I LIVE for my friends however and have done and will do anything in my power to keep them happy!

posted October 06, 2012 05:03 AM            

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I have ALL my personal planets in H11 and H5 and I can honestly say that I have gone thru more men that I care to admit
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Not sure if Mars conjunct Asc (virgo)in H1 will add to the "prey/hunter" dynamic?

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I have a stellium in H5 and my Mars is half in H11. I have a Virgo rising too, but nothing in H1 (unless you count Chiron). I can relate to what you say. I personally don't NEED commitment or a relationship, so if I'm unhappy, I'll do away with them. I give them chances, of course! But I'm not very patient if I feel like it's not going to last.

posted October 06, 2012 11:09 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
as an aqua I do need space, but I'm no cheater, atleast I haven't felt the inclination to cheat yet.

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a heartbreaker isn't necessarily a cheater

posted October 09, 2012 03:14 AM            

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uranus in the 5th and many uranus aspects here, i'm sure some consider/have considered me a heartbreaker

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Nods. Same here! I don't know if I'd place mine completely on the shoulders of that placement but it carries its fair share

posted October 09, 2012 03:24 AM            

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Originally posted by RedScorp:
What aspects or placements would lead to someone who is flighty in relationships, or non-committal? Someone who runs around town or drives in cars with boys, but at the end of the day fears or avoids being in one place? It could be for whatever reason - the thrill, it's instinct, etc.

Do you think you're a heartbreaker? Do you know one? Any input, stories, or theories is excellent! Hell, if you don't know, but you have a tale to tell, feel free to speak UP!

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lmfao redscorp teh heartbreaker!

posted October 09, 2012 05:08 AM            

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lmfao redscorp teh heartbreaker!

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Ahahahaha! My friend and I were talking and I was telling her about how I became really close with, ****** off, and got told to "Leave. Just leave and don't even talk to me again." by this one person.