posted October 04, 2012 10:46 PM            

The first thing that cames to mind is the rising sign?

It's hard to tell because this person admitted to me that the reasons behind it is looking for love. But from what it looks like from a distance (my point of view) it seems this person gets off on attention from the many conquest

PLAY'A PLAY'A

posted October 04, 2012 11:50 PM            

One is Capricorn/sag moon/gem rise/sag Venus
She has venus conjunct uranus in her seventh.
Her Venus tribe mars.

2 is libra with scorp moon libra rising Virgo Venus.
He has Venus in his 11th sq his mars and semi sq his Pluto. Trine his Chiron This one is married.

posted October 05, 2012 07:06 AM            

>:| oh well....

But the cheater does have virgo venus & scorpio moon, venus squaring moon/jupiter/saturn/neptune AND neptune squaring venus/mercury/sun

posted October 05, 2012 07:31 AM            

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posted October 05, 2012 08:49 AM            

I know a few Sags who have never cheated--and who wouldn't, either.

And if a Virgo Venus/Scorp moon person can't be faithful, then that leads me to believe that you just can't know that from a chart.

Earth and water seem to get a better reputation for fidelity, but--and I honestly don't mean to offend the earth/water people out there--I don't know that they've earned it. There are many earth and water people/with those influences who cheat, and some fire/air people who don't.

My opinion is that charts just give you raw materials. What you build with them is up to you. I'd say that maybe the only thing really influenced is why a person cheats/doesn't cheat, as opposed to if they will or not--and I'm iffy/on the fence on that, even.

I think personal level of maturity and whether or not one takes the high or low road in life is what would determine that, more than any sign or placement.

posted October 05, 2012 09:47 AM            

But looking at someone's full natal chart could bring out a certain design that could make the person more prone to cheating

posted October 05, 2012 11:24 AM            

Statistics of unfaithfulness

MEN
-neptune and venus or almost always involved.
combo, secret-love affairs.
-venus as the ruler ascendant (tarurus & libra) with aspect to juno orb 3*.
-mercury as the ruler to 8th house (gemini & virgo) with aspect to ascandant orb 3*
-the ruler of the 7th house cusp between 22* 23* scorpio
-mars square uranus
-neptune trine MC
-moon square chiron
-juno retrograde
-moon in aries
-moon in pisces
-moon in 11th house

posted October 05, 2012 01:51 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by JLyn ~:
All the sag people I know are surprisely loyal; even the moons

oh wait..
only till offical commitment

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i know 3 sag moon girls whove cheated
a sag sun guy who cheated and a sag sun girl who cheated

posted October 05, 2012 04:31 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
i know 3 sag moon girls whove cheated
a sag sun guy who cheated and a sag sun girl who cheated

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Oh I believe it : D
i actually think most cheaters are sag men and women
but the ones i know that got married all made a complete change hanging-up their player hat to be family oriented and devoted

But that's just the sags 'i know' that
fell madly in love

posted October 05, 2012 04:55 PM            

Thank you for being straight up : )
but this forum is about being compulsive with cheating, like someone that needs 3,4,5,6 on the side as backups or play

so...
let me ask

Do you keep your phones passcode a secret from girlfriend and get 2am calls from tiff, rachelle, and kristy? : P

posted October 05, 2012 08:53 PM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
I have to say, I know people with some of the supposedly problematic positions who have not cheated.

Basically, in my book, there is no excuse for cheating. Even if one is highly tempted, they DO always have a choice not to do it.

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posted October 05, 2012 09:34 PM            

Can you tell he's a cheater, just by looking at his chart? Here are some indicators in that natal chart that may indicate infidelity. Taken alone, however, these aspects do not guarantee infidelity.

Moon square Venus:

This is especially true for men with this aspect. The Moon and Venus are feminine planets, and often play a role in the kind of partner we desire. The Moon represents our emotions and what makes us feel secure, while Venus represents how we give and receive love.

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When these planets are in square aspect to one another, our emotional needs are at odds with our needs and capacity to love. This can cause many problems, as it is difficult for the Moon square Venus native to have both needs fulfilled by just one person.

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For example, say I have Moon in Aries square Venus in Capricorn: on one hand, I am emotionally fulfilled by aggressive, direct, and passionate people. However, aggression and passion to not "agree" with my Venus in Capricorn nature; it is unattractive to me, as Venus in Capricorn prefers shy, stable, drama-free mates.

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Also, we can think of this in terms of synastry: if my partner's Mars is in Capricorn, and therefore is in conjunct aspect to my Venus, I feel a tremendous sexual attraction to my partner. However, it would also mean that my partner's Mars squares my Moon, which leads to heated arguments and hurt feelings.

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As a result, the native finds it difficult to find a partner who fulfills both their Moon and Venus needs, and might choose to have two partners: one who makes him emotionally secure, and one that makes him feel loved and attracted. This can also indicate a Madonna-***** complex; the native may have the inability to see his or her partner as both a nurturing type (moon) and a sexual being (Venus). To solve this dilemma, the native may choose to take on two partners in order to have these needs fulfilled. JFK had this aspect, and he was known for his affairs.

Uranus in hard aspect (conjunction, square, opposition) to Venus OR Uranus in the 7th house:

Uranus is the planet of freedom, rebellion, unpredictability. When in hard aspect to Venus or in the 7th house, the native craves freedom, variety, and excitement in relationships. It is difficult for these natives to "settle down" into a "normal" relationship because of many reasons. For instance, relationships might make them feel restricted, bored, or they may constantly crave "newness" in relationships. Its the initial feeling of getting into a relationship which excites them, so as time goes by, their interest may gradually decrease for their partner and their relationship. Bored of the everyday, "hum-drum" aspects of "regular" relationships, the Venus-Uranus/Uranus in the 7th house native may seek excitement outside the relationship.

Neptune in hard aspect to Venus/Venus in Pisces/Neptune in the 7th:

With this placement, idealization of partners in common. The native has an idealistic view of relationships and love in general, and is on a constant search for their soul mate. They daydream about their ideal mate, and the kind of relationships they envision are other-worldly. Real relationships, however, are difficult; they require a tremendous amount of work, compromise, and often include conflict. This is the precise reason why people with these placements have such a hard time with relationships.

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Real relationships rarely live up to the ideal relationships they often dream about, and when confronted with these realities, the native may choose to quietly exit the relationship, leaving their partner wondering where it all went wrong.

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People with these placements are attracted to the unattainable. When someone isn't yours, it is easy to keep the fantasy of them alive because you'll never be confronted with the realities of a real relationship with them. This ties in to the fact that Venus in Pisces often find themselves in the role of the "other woman" or "other man"; they get all the romance and fantasy of a relationship without having to deal with the hard work that comes with it.

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Similarly, Venus in Pisces natives are sometimes described as "cheaters" for the same reason; if in a relationships, the "realities" of the relationship may push them away from their mate into the arms of another. Venus in Pisces will not be forthright about their infidelity, however; they are too concerned about hurting you to ever admit they were unfaithful. If confronted, Venus in Pisces may deny the infidelity with an innocent, "who, me?" look. It's rare for a Venus in Pisces to leave their mate; they'd rather you leave them than the other way around.

Venus in Gemini:

Gemini craves variety and gets bored at the drop of a hat. In Venus, Gemini craves variety in relationships. This sign needs to move around, experiment, and communicate with others in order to keep itself happy. The sign Gemini is represented by the twins, which reflects Gemini's dual nature. Indeed, you will often find Gemini-influenced natives having "two" of everything. For a Gemini Venus, this would mean having two relationships. Gemini is a mutable sign; they can adapt to different situations seamlessly, so they have the ability to flutter between two relationships with relative ease. Venus in Gemini are big flirts; Gemini is ruled by Mercury, so they certainly have the gift of the gab and are talented at seducing people with words.

Moon in Aries:

posted October 06, 2012 06:39 PM            

Hmm, my chart suggest I should be a player and have several relationships at once, or one night stands etc.

posted October 07, 2012 01:05 AM            

My negative aspects :
sun square pluto
mercury square pluto
venus square chiron
venus aqaurius
mars square jupiter conjuction uranus
with a triple pisces- ascendant, moon, mars

I'm completely loyal now...
except one time back in my early 20's in a boring/not getting healthy love kinda relationship i was starting to think of a way to leave him but he worked weeks at a time and i wanted to end it face to face, out of respect. Nothing planned me and this cool guy I worked with hit it off and had me laughing again with butterflies, then we got together which was NOTHING I was dreaming about. 7 years later I still regret it. The guilt reminds you, and it takes years to regain your self respect