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Topic: dealing with jerks and your mars
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thinkingitover Newflake Posts: 23 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 06, 2012 03:17 PM
I was just wanting to hear about how u handle with difficult people and your Mars position or Mars apects ------------------
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Gabby Knowflake Posts: 677 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 06, 2012 03:33 PM
I just get away from them...gemini in mars, nearly unaspected, i prefer to not incite mars, so i just walk away before mars wakes up! IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 3654 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 06, 2012 03:36 PM
I smile and act warm and nice, but it's all pretty passive-aggressive. They're trying to pick a fight, I'm trying to undress them by making myself seem all glamorous and friendly. Or if they're just a plain douchebag, cutting ahead or being mean to guy or gal, I confront them head on. But! I'm never like, angry...confidence is glory, after all! "Hey, we were all in line waiting 20 minutes, get back there! ...Hey, don't even ignore me." insert assertive action here.Leo Mars half in the Eleventh, half in the Twelfth, square Sun and Jupiter. IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 677 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 06, 2012 03:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by RedScorp: I smile and act warm and nice, but it's all pretty passive-aggressive. They're trying to pick a fight, I'm trying to undress them by making myself seem all glamorous and friendly. Or if they're just a plain douchebag, cutting ahead or being mean to guy or gal, I confront them head on. But! I'm never like, angry...confidence is glory, after all! "Hey, we were all in line waiting 20 minutes, get back there! ...Hey, don't even ignore me." insert assertive action here.Leo Mars half in the Eleventh, half in the Twelfth, square Sun and Jupiter.
Ur trying to undress them? Its a simple modest question, and as always you just have to go to the gutter....can we keep it clean here? Plz...UGH! LOL IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 3654 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 06, 2012 04:31 PM
LOL! Gabby!! You kno I didn't mean it like that!!! I meant like...like, reveal their true, jerk-y motives by being nice and making them look bad in comparison...o m gIP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 3654 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 06, 2012 04:31 PM
And hey what do you mean AS ALWAYS!IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 677 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 06, 2012 04:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by RedScorp: And hey what do you mean AS ALWAYS!
LOL...i didnt mean anything at all...nothing...0..there was no underlying meaning there at all. Actually it was a misprint! Ya...it was a typo! hehe I'm just playing with you! Your actually always very polite! IP: Logged |
Blanky Knowflake Posts: 33 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 06, 2012 04:49 PM
LOL RedScorp!!! As always..good one. LOL IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4016 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 06, 2012 04:50 PM
Deal with them head on. Face them down. Mine's in Capricorn. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 2566 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 06, 2012 05:03 PM
It's VERY hard for me not to react to people treating me or others unfairly! If something goes wrong (for example, when my university check was never delivered to my house despite them having the correct address) I can keep my composure, and I rarely feel upset. Things happen in life, and they also sort themselves out. But when I'm being attacked for something that isn't my fault, or my time is being wasted I get FURIOUS. When I worked retail and it was Christmas season, I remember being just so agitated that this woman couldn't make up her mind about which ginger bread house she wanted to buy. She's making up her mind, and taking the houses out of the box and pondering over the price and this and that AT my register! THAT IS NOT THE TIME TO GO SHOPPING. Or how about the woman telling my manger I scanned something twice because it was "easier" - furious. Other co-workers had to step in and take over because I was about to leap over the counter and clock her. Mars in Gemini in the 12th. I guess how my anger shows up is situational. When it's something out of either of our hands I'm understanding and not upset at all. But being unfair and rude really sets me off. IP: Logged |
thinkingitover Newflake Posts: 23 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 06, 2012 05:10 PM
I have Mars in Virgo and I just avoid them too but I also have moon square Mars and I have to keep a leash on my anger I just tell myself its not worth it.IP: Logged |
thinkingitover Newflake Posts: 23 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 06, 2012 05:11 PM
I have Mars in Virgo and I just avoid them too but I also have moon square Mars and I have to keep a leash on my anger I just tell myself its not worth it.IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 3654 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 06, 2012 05:26 PM
quote: I'm just playing with you! Your actually always very polite!
Hey! Heyyyy, no need to explain yourself! I can tell when someone is joking and when they aren't, quote: As always..good one. LOL
Ahahaha! Thank you, thank you, I'll be here all day. IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 677 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 06, 2012 05:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by thinkingitover: I have Mars in Virgo and I just avoid them too but I also have moon square Mars and I have to keep a leash on my anger I just tell myself its not worth it.
My gemini mars, by sign only is square my virgo moon Both are nearly unaspected...moon only has a wide sqaure to neptune and gemini a wide and out of sign trine to uranus IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 3654 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 06, 2012 05:35 PM
quote: I have Mars in Virgo and I just avoid them too but...
I find Mars in Virgo can get pretty heated really easily, but they usually don't do anything about it. Either they walk off and fume or they try to think it through and "mental" their way through anger. Sound like you? IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 677 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 06, 2012 05:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: It's VERY hard for me not to react to people treating me or others unfairly! If something goes wrong (for example, when my university check was never delivered to my house despite them having the correct address) I can keep my composure, and I rarely feel upset. Things happen in life, and they also sort themselves out. But when I'm being attacked for something that isn't my fault, or my time is being wasted I get FURIOUS. When I worked retail and it was Christmas season, I remember being just so agitated that this woman couldn't make up her mind about which ginger bread house she wanted to buy. She's making up her mind, and taking the houses out of the box and pondering over the price and this and that AT my register! THAT IS NOT THE TIME TO GO SHOPPING. Or how about the woman telling my manger I scanned something twice because it was "easier" - furious. Other co-workers had to step in and take over because I was about to leap over the counter and clock her. Mars in Gemini in the 12th. I guess how my anger shows up is situational. When it's something out of either of our hands I'm understanding and not upset at all. But being unfair and rude really sets me off.
Things that are so obviously unnecessary and inconsiderate of others really gets under my skin also...or just plain stupidity. Thats when i take a deep breath and focus on something else...im gemini mars also IP: Logged |
redshift Knowflake Posts: 239 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted October 06, 2012 05:37 PM
Mars in Aries. I lose my temper and call their sh*t and nearly avoid fist fights. Then later, I regret it and chastise myself for not being more careful...IP: Logged |
thinkingitover Newflake Posts: 23 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 07, 2012 01:14 AM
I have mercury conjunct Mars and I have to hold back not cussing em out I definately have a sharp tongue and since my Mars is in Virgo its like I have a list of how u ****** me off.------------------
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anno_lucis Knowflake Posts: 98 From: uk Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 07, 2012 07:09 AM
lol^taurus mars opp pluto sq jupiter i lop their heads off. jk i'm like a bamboo stick. i bend over backwards as much as poss... until i snap. snapping point doesn't occur regularly these days, if ever. 10 yrs ago was another story. IP: Logged |
pisces moon Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted October 07, 2012 05:15 PM
I'm pretty laid back and it takes a lot to anger me. Generally, I'm overly calm, my voice drops about an octative, my speech pattern becomes pointed and I look the person directly in the eye, when I'm angry. There have been times when I've lost my composure. Those times my voice goes up and I'm quite viscous with words. If someone put's their hands on me in anger, that's one thing I have no tolerance for. Screw words, there's a fight going down. That hasn't happened in a very, very long time though, a very long time, because I don't conduct myself in ways that bring on those kind of situations. My mars is Leo in the fifth house. IP: Logged |
luisbunuel Knowflake Posts: 107 From: Hampshire, England Registered: May 2009
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posted October 08, 2012 12:18 PM
Mars in Virgo and moon squared mars. I have this placement too!IP: Logged |
paulflo Newflake Posts: 14 From: uk Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 08, 2012 12:25 PM
i just ignore the jerks but if im in a bad mood i'd just silence them by being blunt and intimidating untill they left or shut up..(in the nicest possible way of course).mars in sag 1st house conj sag asc. IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 677 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 08, 2012 12:28 PM
Ive never considered out of sign aspects as meaning very much, but your post has made me think! I have gemini mars@29.33, which they say is a trine to my scorpio uranus@4.44...and when someone actually does enough to p*ss me off, which it takes A LOT to make me mad! I usually do abruptly change my feelings for them and end the relationship...then walk off without a second thought! I reason anyone who can make me that upset i need to get away from anyway! Wow, never put that together before!IP: Logged |
Astra Knowflake Posts: 421 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 08, 2012 04:49 PM
It takes a lot to make me angry, but if someone really crosses me, I'll quickly reduce them to tears. The last person who angered me suffered from a nervous breakdown. My mars is in Gemini. IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 1689 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 08, 2012 09:15 PM
Depends on the jerk, personally I like strategic methods. Mars in TaurusIP: Logged |