posted October 07, 2012 07:46 PM            

Neptune is the planet both of illusion and the ideal, and under its influence you are likely to find it very difficult to tell which is which. You must ascertain whether each of you is for real; that is, are you relating to each other or to some idealized fantasy? Is the spiritual element that you see in each other and in your relationship real or not?

You must examine this situation very closely, for you cannot afford to live in a fool's paradise. Your relationship may be either very good or very unreal, and you must find out which it is."
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posted October 07, 2012 07:58 PM            

On its own, composite venus square neptune, is definitely putting each other on a pedestal, maybe overly so, but no big deal, like to hell with it, this is love and I'm gonna love the hell out of this person.

Coupled with venus aspects to moon, mars, sun, merc, then the couple kind of float, can overspend, spend too much time sitting around socialising or being together,adoring one another - so I guess it is a real romantic swing on things.

Composite Neptune square Mars, gets a bit devious. Venus-Neptune had a tinge of wanting to escape and try out the sensation with others or maybe be inclusive of others to spread the love (not really group sex ideas but more like sharing of themselves). Mars-Neptune in composite, can be faithful, but they are a bit sleazy and their eyes can be sizing up attributes of everyone around them - which somehow tends to intensify the attraction between the couple. Also mars-neptune can get underhanded if coupled with merc, in finances. Coupled with venus, they can get sort of illusive about what they are spending their money on and can be a bit secretive or illusive about their relationship, and what they are up to.

Depending on the whole chart, Venus-Neptune could lead to feelings that they are being too selfish just focusing on themselves and may feel that they need to share their love unconditionally. This may be where they could be taken advantage of by others, and unbeknowingly get embroiled deeper with others than what they would have wished. So the impulse is faithfulness, but then they feel they have to transmute for a higher good, then this is when they can be vulnerable to outside influences or become a bit lost in diversions/addictions depending on the natal tendencies or the rest of the composite. But of itself, venus-square neptune composite is still quite beautiful, it just is a bit ungrounded and may make the couple impressionable.

Venus square Pluto in composite, is very affected by the rest of the chart entirely, as well as the individuals natal tendencies. The nature of Pluto, gives the impression to me as if it suddenly swallows up the whole chart the individuals and any individuality about either one gets combed through, shaken up, smacked in the face, and whipped around. Venus square Pluto in composite, would make the couple secretive like with the complications of neptune does, however the venus-pluto secretiveness, has like an ulterior motive kind of feel, with a bit of a sordidness to it. The couple has a lasciviousness about them, but also will portray a hotness to them. The feel between them is intimate confidence, but this can get intense.

Moon square Pluto in composite, is definitely mother/woman role issues, preconditioning raising an ugly head. They will likely have explosive intense issues with both/either actual mothers and with their own. When the woman is a mother in the relationship she will likely be constantly in a crisis being a mother, and will tend to blame everything on her own mother.

Moon conjunct Pluto in composite, is a bit better than the square. The couple, see the mother/woman role as only human and therefore capable of error, foibles, and digression. They tend to be proud of their mothers and there is something else other than mothers but I'm not getting it. It feels like to do with sense of place - location, like maybe where one's emotional centre is located/dependent on, I think, and this can include obsessive shopping, perhaps excessive eating/drinking, maybe even obsessive travelling to find a sense of place (but I would think Jupiter would be wrapped up in that - hmm, don't know). Wow, I think this is very psychological this combo, as it would be I guess, and it probably requires further exploration. I've sort of rushed out a black and white version but I feel like I'm missing bits and may have assumed some of the details without including other shades to it.

posted October 07, 2012 08:20 PM            

We also have moon/pluto square in composite. I haven't talked to him yet, and I'm extremely drawn to him and I've noticed that he seems to feel something too but I'm just a bit unsure if I should pursue this or not :l maybe it's my uranian side that makes me feel this way. We also have venus (him) square uranus (me) in synastry. I've never had any feelings like this about anyone.