posted October 06, 2012 08:55 PM            

Do you show people you care by doing practical things for them? I noticed this some by the couple virgo moons I know.

posted October 06, 2012 09:53 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
Redscorps got me thinking with his moon threads and I wanted to try to understand this placement a little more. When I read the response. (Red, i expect you to participate in this one)

Do you show people you care by doing practical things for them? I noticed this some by the couple virgo moons I know.

What else do you do? What makes you feel secure in relationships? what makes you want to run for the hills?

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Well, I seem to be a thread killer, so sorry in advance, but I am a Virgo moon.

I for sure show I care by helping, helping, helping. I'm quite boring actually, now that I think of it. I just show I care by being supportive and understanding and helpful. I'm not super affectionate to demonstrate caring, or very verbal either. It's like: If I am helping you or listening to you or giving you my time, it's because I care.

However, I run for the hills over a lot of things ie: Not appreciating my help or taking it for granted, suffocating me, boring me, being dishonest, being gross, unclean or rude, being passive....I think these things are not just my Virgo moon though. I think it's my whole chart at work there.

posted October 06, 2012 09:57 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
Redscorps got me thinking with his moon threads and I wanted to try to understand this placement a little more. When I read the response. (Red, i expect you to participate in this one)

Do you show people you care by doing practical things for them? I noticed this some by the couple virgo moons I know.

What else do you do? What makes you feel secure in relationships? what makes you want to run for the hills?

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posted October 06, 2012 09:57 PM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Ok I have virgo moon, how do I show my love that I care? I worry excessively about him, like a mom. I want to make sure that he is safe and healthy. I want to make sure he washes his hands so he doesn't get the stomach flu and things like that. The thought of him getting sick just makes me crazy. I just want to make sure that he is able to take care of himself. By worrying, I show that I care. Yes, I have virgo moon and it is really crazy sometimes.

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posted October 06, 2012 10:33 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
Redscorps got me thinking with his moon threads and I wanted to try to understand this placement a little more.

Do you show people you care by doing practical things for them? I noticed this some by the couple virgo moons I know. What else do you do? What makes you feel secure in relationships? what makes you want to run for the hills?

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I'd like to contribute since I am a Virgo Moon, H9. It conjuncts Chiron, trines Uranus-Neptune, sextiles my Scorpio Jupiter-Venus-NN, and squares my Sag ASC.

How I show I care - It's hard for me since my Sag ASC makes me seem way bolder, more extroverted and fiery than my emotional state allows. So I can send conflicting signals to people. But I try to show caring by being open to listening to others' problems and counseling them about it. The Scorp and Chiron contacts, plus trines to generational planets make me very good at understanding deep, difficult issues people have. I also like to make people feel good by occasionally helping out with difficult tasks they are struggling with, but if they don't validate me for helping I feel neglected easily. Finally, I like to bond with loved ones by talking over things that are important to us, reading and sharing knowledge together, just being quiet together and calm.

But too much emotionality and hugging just feels... icky to me if it's from someone I am not 80-90% comfortable with. I just can't take too much PDA from friends and too much sentimentality from family at times. This obviously leads to confusion and hurt feelings, intensely at times, since my fiery ASC would lead one on to think I'd be all for being playful and doing PDA or affection mostly all the time. But not so.

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Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
I don't have a Virgo moon, but I'm curious about you guys. Does all that excessive worry about your loved one get misinterpreted as nagging? Does your loved one find it intrusive with all the worry?

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No, I don't really nag loved ones all the time about everything.... I'm a rare Virgoan type who doesn't care much for neatness or being orderly. I have Merc square Mars which makes me have something like ADD at times and I'm also very fast moving/thinking so I just don't have time to care. But in other ways I'm a neurotic Virgo like not catching germs, preparing my food in just the right way, being slightly hypoallergenic to weird stuff etc.

posted October 07, 2012 01:39 AM            

Hah yeah my mom was a nag too by impulsively telling me what she thought i should do- over and over and over and over and over and over *catching my breathe* and over

I know moms usually do these things to nurture and teach what's right from wrong, but having one with a virgo moon is frustrating !! Double naggerish

posted October 07, 2012 03:23 AM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Ok I have virgo moon, how do I show my love that I care? I worry excessively about him, like a mom. I want to make sure that he is safe and healthy. I want to make sure he washes his hands so he doesn't get the stomach flu and things like that. The thought of him getting sick just makes me crazy. I just want to make sure that he is able to take care of himself. By worrying, I show that I care. Yes, I have virgo moon and it is really crazy sometimes.

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posted October 07, 2012 06:42 AM            

Security for me is first and foremost emotional stability. I can't take people who change their minds/feelings all the time. I need to know that I'm cared for and that it's not gonna change anytime soon. Otherwise I won't stick for long. But I'm not sure that's a Virgo Moon trait. I think it has more to do with my Moon/Saturn opp.

Also, this may be unusual for a lunar virgo but I love affection and I need hugs & kisses & holding hands to feel loved and secure. If I don't have that, it's probably not gonna work. Here again, not sure it's related to the virgo alone but I'm not at all inhibited when it comes to PDA if I feel comfy with someone. My moon is in the 5th.

Coldness and rudeness make me wanna run for the hills. Someone who can't express themselves clearly, people who lack intelligence and shallow people. Basically I like it when people are able to communicate in a clear, intelligent manner, people who know how to behave and have morals.
Dishonesty and treachery are a big no no.

So yeah, if we care about you, we're probably gonna tell you to stop smoking, change your eating habits, exercise more, blah blah lol. Basically just give you advice, share (useful) information, do stuff for you and the more expressive of us *will* give you plenty of affection, too.

posted October 07, 2012 01:28 PM            

Virgo gently searches every hair (top to bottom) making sure their object of affection is happy, healthy, safe, and sane (though I know some Virgo mothers who drive their children insane).

posted October 09, 2012 07:53 PM            

I'm also a Virgo Moon (and ASC).

I show people I care first of all with spending my time on them at all. I don't know whether it comes from Virgo Moon or not, but I never care about "social rules". If I don't care about you, if i don't find you interesting, I will avoid you as much as I can (obviously in an intelligent way).

Otherwise, for people I care I do just about anything. I go out of my way and make myself available.

If we talk about love interest, I basically mother my partner (I really have to control not doing it) and do all practical things for him/us. I am incredibly patient and understanding, I try my best to see the best side of my loved ones and tend to make excuses for the negative traits.

On the other side I don't stop at practical things. I'm deeply observant and you just have to drop a hint one time about liking something, it stucks in my mind and in the right moment I will think of it and do it/buy it for you.
I love to surprise my loved ones with things they don't even remember mentioning me.

What is most important for me in a relationship is a person who knows what he wants and who is more or less straight forward with me about his emotions. Also honesty and loyalty.

What makes me run for the hills is coming from the above when a person is not loyal. Cheating is a big no-no, I don't think I could ever forgive that, at least my feelings would change and couldn't trust anymore.

When a person lies to me. It mostly comes from the fact that there is nothing you can tell me that I won't try to understand or at least accept.

Being a Virgo Moon I like order and cleanness. Of course not everyone has to be like me, but big mess I can't stand.

And I think at last the biggest struggle for me that drives me away is indecisiveness and people who dance around emotionally in my life and I can't see clear what they want.

For example, my cross for life are water signs. I had a Cancer bf and now I had a weird go with a Pisces guy.

They both take two steps front and one step back and they don't communicate, but they behave in a way with me that is no way friendship only... this behavior I bear for some time and then I turn my back and escape cause it overloads my analyzing brain and breaks my heart. I need commitment and I need to have the actions and words matching, otherwise it drives me nuts and for self-protection I leave.

posted October 09, 2012 07:57 PM            

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Originally posted by curbro:
My mother was a Virgo moon and so are some of my closest friends and coworkers. I love the nagging. I love the worrying. I also love to beat them to the cleaning. I'm a very disorderly person no matter how hard I try. Virgo moons help me give everything a place. Once it's organized, I can stay clean. Once they help me, I watch to see how they like things and then I try to make them that way. For instance, cleaning the house just like they do. I'm a Pisces sun and I often have a hard time not showing my feelings. Being around a Virgo moon helps me to control them. I can also feel what the Virgo moon feels but can't say. When I see the Virgo moon with that frustrated look on their face like they want to say so much but don't know how, I just know how they feel. It makes me feel very close to them. Virgo moons have given me so much and I can't imagine what my life would be without them. I hope to spend the rest of my life with one. No matter what anyone says, I believe Virgo moons are some of the best people anyone could ever aspire to be.

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