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Topic: Are you deceiving your dates?
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C1ND3R
Knowflake Posts: 1295
From: Dorsia
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 08, 2012 08:41 PM
  
In my fifth house, i have black moon lilith, south node and my Sun... In my seventh house, i have pluto on the cusp. Talk about night and day, huh?It's as if the tone goes from lighthearted, carefree and fun to all of a sudden taking on a very extreme reality. The 5th and 7th are by nature somewhat compatible but i guess the planets there really determine a lot of things. I'm trying to find a way to mesh and combine the two so as to not have people expecting one things and then getting something completely different. But how do you date with Pluto?
Do you ask pluto out for coffee or does pluto ask you? Are we all pullin the ol "bait-n-switch"?  IP: Logged |
C1ND3R
Knowflake Posts: 1295
From: Dorsia
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 08, 2012 09:12 PM
I swear, my dates go from: "oh, wow... I have had the best time. I'm being finally accepted for me. No pressure, just a decently wonderful time and yes, i think this is it... That's the one".To then after having asked me to go steady, wonder what the hell happened when i give em the third degree (hypothetically) when they're going out to get the mail.
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"Your lover isn't in here with us, Harris"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=99e3vNxaf7c IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 6952
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Registered: May 2011
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posted October 08, 2012 09:16 PM
I have h5 Pisces with Lilith there. I think I slowly try to exert my stubbornness and I get impatient more and more as time goes by. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted October 08, 2012 09:20 PM
Can I ask what your nodal axis is?IP: Logged |
C1ND3R
Knowflake Posts: 1295
From: Dorsia
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 08, 2012 10:15 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Can I ask what your nodal axis is?
sand's? IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 6952
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posted October 08, 2012 10:27 PM
Think she meant yours cinder. But mine is sag south node, gem north node.IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 2348
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posted October 08, 2012 10:41 PM
^ Yes, thanks sand. Sorry, I forgot how you spell C1ND3R and was too lazy to look it up. Just curious. Sometimes the SN energy presents itself first and is very different than the NN energy, so that's a factor for some people. Or they are more charming in situations where the NN shines...well, there are lots of variations. I just like considering it. IP: Logged |
C1ND3R
Knowflake Posts: 1295
From: Dorsia
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 08, 2012 10:42 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Faith:
^ Yes, thanks sand. Sorry, I forgot how you spell C1ND3R and was too lazy to look it up. Just curious. Sometimes the SN energy presents itself first and is very different than the NN energy, so that's a factor for some people. Or they are more charming in situations where the NN shines...well, there are lots of variations. I just like considering it.
North Node in Pisces. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
Knowflake Posts: 897
From: PA, USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted October 09, 2012 12:04 AM
I have 5H Lilith too, in Taurus, and opposite Venus-NN-Jupiter. Yikes! I feel this one is what makes me the siren type. Really easy to seduce many guys, at least 9/10 whom I target - yes, target to go after, I rarely am the one who is getting asked out - will fall under this sort of spell I have...  So perhaps this is a little deceitful. It's not always consistent, I mean. Especially when Scorpio Venus wants genuine intensity, passion and sharing, and suddenly Lilith is the dominatrix, the bossy one, the one whom is very tempted to have a wandering eye or cheat.  IP: Logged |
a_may_gemini
Knowflake Posts: 117
From: Los Angeles, Calif
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 09, 2012 01:32 AM
I have an empty Aqua 5th (unless you count south node) and empty Aries 7th. I guess "relationships" aren't all that important to me. I'm not really sure what to make out of it all...IP: Logged |
C1ND3R
Knowflake Posts: 1295
From: Dorsia
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 09, 2012 08:27 AM
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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
I have 5H Lilith too, in Taurus, and opposite Venus-NN-Jupiter. Yikes! I feel this one is what makes me the siren type. Really easy to seduce many guys, at least 9/10 whom I target - yes, target to go after, I rarely am the one who is getting asked out - will fall under this sort of spell I have... So perhaps this is a little deceitful. It's not always consistent, I mean. Especially when Scorpio Venus wants genuine intensity, passion and sharing, and suddenly Lilith is the dominatrix, the bossy one, the one whom is very tempted to have a wandering eye or cheat.
I'm kinda the opposite because my Venus isn't involved. I'm usually the one being asked out and yeah, i know all about that black moon... It conjuncts my Sun. :sizzle sizzle: :hot hot: IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 2348
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 09, 2012 10:25 AM
quote:
Originally posted by C1ND3R:
North Node in Pisces.
Sorry if I was being nosy. It does seem to match what you described here, though. quote:
I swear, my dates go from: "oh, wow... I have had the best time. I'm being finally accepted for me. "
Sounds like Pisces NN at work. quote:
To then after having asked me to go steady, wonder what the hell happened when i give em the third degree...
Virgo SN can be like that sometimes. As I see it...but this is just a suggestion/possibility of course. IP: Logged |
C1ND3R
Knowflake Posts: 1295
From: Dorsia
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 09, 2012 10:53 AM
^ yeah, i could see where you're going with it.Pluto trines my north node so i don't know if it's something that would be so wildly different or be in sharp contrast to it... I think that maybe the fun Sun in te fifth and then the furthest planet in the galaxy (not including sedna, makemake or the others) is one heck of a change... I feel that i date and play a little hands-off but i wonder if i'm misleading.... When i'm in a relationship, i am NOT hands off at all... I'm not super "talk to me all the time" or even "let's cuddle forever" but i do expect almost a complete commitment on the verge of conversion. IP: Logged |
bella_taurus
Knowflake Posts: 203
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Registered: Oct 2010
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posted October 09, 2012 11:05 AM
I'm trying to not let my south node (aquarius) show up when I meet someone for the first time, I can be aloof, awkward, and weird. I think they always see right through me, and I hate that. But when I try to let my north node (leo) come out, I always feel like I'm trying to be someone I'm not. I guess I just need to meet my match for that balance to come through. IP: Logged |
C1ND3R
Knowflake Posts: 1295
From: Dorsia
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 09, 2012 11:07 AM
^ i've met many south nodes in aquarius who just seemed fake. To no end.... They wouldn't be themselves and always had some sort of reservation that just did not at all help me trust them.People can actually sense the self-censoring and in turn, do the same. IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 2348
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 09, 2012 02:00 PM
quote:
Originally posted by C1ND3R:
but i do expect almost a complete commitment on the verge of conversion.
I LOVE your honesty.  IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 2348
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 09, 2012 02:05 PM
quote:
Originally posted by bella_taurus:
I'm trying to not let my south node (aquarius) show up when I meet someone for the first time, I can be aloof, awkward, and weird. I think they always see right through me, and I hate that. But when I try to let my north node (leo) come out, I always feel like I'm trying to be someone I'm not. I guess I just need to meet my match for that balance to come through.
I have Mercury Aquarius and love how I interact with my Aqua SN son. But he's only 12, and he's a Sag, so he might feel more comfortable flashing his Leo side (assuming you are a Taurus?) Another son has Aquarius NN. It'll be interesting to see how their relationship evolves as they age. My brother has Aquarius NN and married an Aqua SN girl. But sorry if I derailed the thread by focusing just on the nodes. IP: Logged |
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