posted October 11, 2012 11:08 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
lol funnily enough all three of those aqua guys had virgo moon. I always attract virgo placements. And most of my friends have virgo moon. I'm a leo mooner and have no virgo. shrugs. must be because it conjuncts my moon without it being leo which wont be outshined by another leo

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posted October 11, 2012 11:23 PM            

and thank u for the enthusiasm, love.

posted October 11, 2012 11:42 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
my experience is that virgo guys are very very shy.

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yes ur right aquaguy he himself said he's very very shy or at least used to be. he claims to have broken out of his shell

posted October 11, 2012 11:46 PM            

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Virgo positions tend to be perfectionist, highly critical, and unforgiving.
Indecisive, no, not unless they have a lot of Libra in the chart.

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*facepalm* Well then I'm screwed because the most recent guy I'm into has Libra Sun, Cancer Asc, and a Venus in Virgo, LOL.

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He will eventually come "around??" I don't play hard to get. Who has time to play hard to get lol. It's either go for it or don't. That's how guys from all the other signs have been with me (straightforward and asked me out right away). It's only virgo that it's always been tricky with.

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Playing hard to get is overrated...no really. It is.

posted October 11, 2012 11:51 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
yes ur right aquaguy he himself said he's very very shy or at least used to be. he claims to have broken out of his shell

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posted October 11, 2012 11:55 PM            

not that i see anything wrong with that bc i dont. to me its a virtue that i get to have a pure guy (oh the irony, i wasnt even thinking of his sign when i said that) and i dont think guys should go around trying to lose their virginity just to say they lost it. my ex was also still a virgin when we dated. and a virgo.

but yeah, i dunno. u would think he would at least ask me for my number. i mean he asked me if i was going to some dance, ud think he could ask me for my number just as easily.

posted October 12, 2012 12:09 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
yeah^ he recently lost his virginity lol. we're in our twenties

not that i see anything wrong with that bc i dont. to me its a virtue that i get to have a pure guy (oh the irony, i wasnt even thinking of his sign when i said that) and i dont think guys should go around trying to lose their virginity just to say they lost it. my ex was also still a virgin when we dated. and a virgo.

but yeah, i dunno. u would think he would at least ask me for my number. i mean he asked me if i was going to some dance, ud think he could ask me for my number just as easily.

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posted October 12, 2012 12:17 AM            

I rememberrrrr reading the title thooo \and opening the thread and reading it.

but im sooorry i do not remember what the experiement was about.

posted October 12, 2012 12:18 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
my experience is that virgo guys are very very shy.

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not even! i've had some virgo guys like me or hit on me...they usually think they are verry slick. not to mention my bf is virgo rising. I think Aqua's are more shy

@ ras

hmm i dunno i do have a lot of cancer in my chart but i cant tell if its that or something else. I ususally think its the Mercury thing though since i am gemini sun.
but yeah...no i dont think that is typical of them. They usually are flirtatious. idk but thats what ive seen anyway.

posted October 12, 2012 12:23 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
oh no im sorry

I rememberrrrr reading the title thooo \and opening the thread and reading it.

but im sooorry i do not remember what the experiement was about.

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posted October 12, 2012 12:27 AM            

hmm i like shy guys usually. or guys who seem really extroverted but in reality they claim to actually hate people and its just like a front, at least thats what the guys i get to know always tell me. the extroverted ones. so in the end its like theyre shy anyway. we're both misanthropes so makes sense we'd be drawn to the other.

anyway. despite the guys i attract usually being shy and innocent, they do make the move right away, but i think bc the kind of guy i attract is shy and innocent, the virgo guys i attract are extremely shy and innocent since that is already a part of that sign. so maybe thats why they are hesitant. bc being a shy guy and a virgo, makes them extremely shy guys maybe. but i really think this guy isnt shy anymore like he says (he says he used to be), he is just perfectionistic about the girl he wants.

posted October 12, 2012 12:39 AM            

That said, a Virgo once lied to me and it was the hottest moment of my love life.

I've told this story before; once upon a time I met three Virgo-Capricorns at my workplace. #1 had Scorpio rising, was a kook, & snappish. Shortly after meeting we collided. #2 a Libra rising, this one for sure was certifiable but obedient and most cant see past Libra gloss. #3 had Taurus rising, allegedly, after much prodding by me. This is also the one I wanted to mount.

re:#3 We had nMars conj nVenus in Taurus. At first encounter their pVenus was exactly on my nAsc, & their pAsc was exactly on my nVenus.

posted October 12, 2012 12:50 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
haha i dont think so aquaguy thank u though i appreciate it. i dont think he is scared to talk to a girl at all, he does not seem like it one bit, but i do think he is indecisive and he doesnt want to date anyone unless they are just what he's looking for.

hmm i like shy guys usually. or guys who seem really extroverted but in reality they claim to actually hate people and its just like a front, at least thats what the guys i get to know always tell me. the extroverted ones. so in the end its like theyre shy anyway. we're both misanthropes so makes sense we'd be drawn to the other.

anyway. despite the guys i attract usually being shy and innocent, they do make the move right away, but i think bc the kind of guy i attract is shy and innocent, the virgo guys i attract are extremely shy and innocent since that is already a part of that sign. so maybe thats why they are hesitant. bc being a shy guy and a virgo, makes them extremely shy guys maybe. but i really think this guy isnt shy anymore like he says (he says he used to be), he is just perfectionistic about the girl he wants.

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posted October 12, 2012 06:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
I don't think he's a perfectionist. With all that fire in your chart I bet he's a bit overwhelmed. Chances are he likes 'em a little passive.

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well he has sag moon and what i presume is aries rising bc he rly acts and looks like a lot of aries i know. i have libra rising and leo moon...im very passive. hes the energetic one going at 500 miles an hour all the time.

and yes, to the person who mentioned that, he is very sensitive to rejection and to possible criticism. he imagines that im rejecting him all the time. like one time i said "Its okay" and he heard "ur gay" not even kidding lol. he was like oh..woops....
and me just standing there he thinks im rejecting him. he'll be like "whaaaat " pouty face. oh, virgos. lol. theyre very sensitive. but i like it.

posted October 12, 2012 07:29 PM            

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i know this might be an exception but i really just think its cuz hes indecisive or something. like he just doesnt wanna date someone to see how it goes he wants it to me more serious thats the impression i get.

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i dont think he is scared to talk to a girl at all, he does not seem like it one bit, but i do think he is indecisive and he doesnt want to date anyone unless they are just what he's looking for.

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Honestly, this is not a bad reason to NOT date someone. I've gotten really really tired of flakey fire/air/water signs who just want to date "and see where it goes" which is code for "I want to see you and also screw other people." He very well might be being cautious because he's been burned too. I am a Virgo, and I do assess personality traits like this and if I sense someone will be frivolous with my feelings, I'll just flat out not date them. I've learned my lesson the hard way, unfortunately. Water signs often don't understand this, because they always just go with the way their emotions flow at the time, even though they very well may flow in the exact opposite direction in three weeks or tomorrow or in five minutes.

Either that, or he's just flat out not interested and maybe you should just take that as a hint to move on.