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Sabrina123
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posted October 13, 2012 11:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sabrina123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, my BF is a Pisces and i don't understand him very well, sometimes i feel that he loves me and sometimes i feel that he is not but I really love him ..he disappeared 2 times and then talked to me again after few weeks and when i ask him why he disappeared he never gives a reason, 2 weeks ago he disappeared again and didn't say any word ..i don't know why he did that, i sent him many msg's and tried to call many times in the first week but he never answers me, then i stopped contacting him, do you think that he will ever contact me back? ...below is his birth chart, i don't know if it can help you to tell me a bit about him or if this explain his disappearing act!!

Rising Sign is in Cancer
Sun Pisces.
Moon Scorpio.
Mercury Pisces.
Venus Taurus.
Mars Virgo.
Jupiter Virgo.
Saturn Virgo.
Uranus Scorpio.
Neptune Sagittarius.
Pluto Libra.
N. Node Leo.

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posted October 13, 2012 11:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you have a request , reading personal charts , try to upload the chart from astro.com and not only the aspects plus you should post it in the personal readings not here.

Anyway, I have dated a Pisces man with Scorpio moon and ASC ... he was extremely manipulative, the ultimate Coquette archetype seducer ... using the pull/push all the time ...
If you don't understand him , I'm 100% sure that he knows that and he's doing it intentionally...

My advice , don't tire yourself too much with thinking ... leave him alone and don't put too much hope in the relationship or him.
This type of men are better kept as a friend only.

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posted October 13, 2012 11:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
and welcome to the forum!

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Sabrina123
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posted October 13, 2012 11:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sabrina123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
If you have a request , reading personal charts , try to upload the chart from astro.com and not only the aspects plus you should post it in the personal readings not here.

Anyway, I have dated a Pisces man with Scorpio moon and ASC ... he was extremely manipulative, the ultimate Coquette archetype seducer ... using the pull/push all the time ...
If you don't understand him , I'm 100% sure that he knows that and he's doing it intentionally...

My advice , don't tire yourself too much with thinking ... leave him alone and don't put too much hope in the relationship or him.



many thanks Vicky for the reply and advise, i just registered to the forum so i don't know where i should exactly write the post haha

yes he likes the pull/push...every time i decide not to send him anything and ignore he comes back again and becoz i love him i talk to him again and forget everything...and his problem is that if we have an argument or a small issue with each other, he prefers not to discuss or say anything, he just prefers to disappear and remain silent...he disappeared 2 weeks ago becoz i was trying to talk with him about something private, i think he didn't want to confront me that'e why he disappeared :-|...also he always acts like he does not know what he wants , also he is hesitating about everything and he cannot even know how to make a decision!!

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posted October 13, 2012 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sabrina123:

many thanks Vicky for the reply and advise, i just registered to the forum so i don't know where i should exactly write the post haha

yes he likes the pull/push...every time i decide not to send him anything and ignore he comes back again and becoz i love him i talk to him again and forget everything...and his problem is that if we have an argument or a small issue with each other, he prefers not to discuss or say anything, he just prefers to disappear and remain silent...he disappeared 2 weeks ago becoz i was trying to talk with him about something private, i think he didn't want to confront me that'e why he disappeared :-|...also he always acts like he does not know what he wants , also he is hesitating about everything and he cannot even know how to make a decision!!


It's like you're describing my ex.
Exactly the same, when he notices any changes in my behavior , or even my emotions - since he's highly intuitive he knows bout my emotions better than I do - he acts differently , so nice and adorable in a way I can't turn him down ... he was very indecisive too. I bet you don't know where you stand ...

The most obvious thing about Pisces sun/Scorpio moon is that yes they are highly emotional but they act childishly ... I understand why he keeps running away from emotional confrontations ...they start the fire and run away terrified. You can never find emotional stability with these men.

Think about it ... do you really want a man who is indecisive, childish and inconsistent ??

You deserve better

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posted October 13, 2012 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sabrina123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
It's like you're describing my ex.
Exactly the same, when he notices any changes in my behavior , or even my emotions - since he's highly intuitive he knows bout my emotions better than I do - he acts differently , so nice and adorable in a way I can't turn him down ... he was very indecisive too. I bet you don't know where you stand ...

The most obvious thing about Pisces sun/Scorpio moon is that yes they are highly emotional but they act childishly ... I understand why he keeps running away from emotional confrontations ...they start the fire and run away terrified. You can never find emotional stability with these men.

Think about it ... do you really want a man who is indecisive, childish and inconsistent ??

You deserve better



thanks Vicky, I agree with you, and i don't want someone like that, im not gonna contact him again ..but i love him and miss him and i think that he might contact me again like he always does and im afraid that i will talk to him again if he gets back to me :-|


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posted October 13, 2012 01:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls**     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If a guy did that to me I'd say "f*ck that, we are over."

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posted October 13, 2012 01:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sabrina123:

thanks Vicky, I agree with you, and i don't want someone like that, im not gonna contact him again ..but i love him and miss him and i think that he might contact me again like he always does and im afraid that i will talk to him again if he gets back to me :-|


No , you're much stronger than accepting such person back. What about your pride ? You really want to suffer the same pain again and again ? because he'll be doing so infinitely ...

He gave you many reasons to hate him and not think about him again. It's time for you to be wise and take care of yourself.

Take care Sabrina

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posted October 13, 2012 03:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, they're weird. I got enthusiastic in the beginning, but he did the disappearing act on me too. So I haven't contacted him at all. A week later he calls asking for a date. There you go. If he likes to be mistreated (and I know he does), I can certainly oblige. We're going to this party, except he doesn't know I have another date. That's what you get for being a Fish and disappearing on me. (oh, and before you feel sorry for him, know he doesn't want to *date* so I am free to date whomever I wish, fair game)

Lately, I am finding myself surrounded by Pisces men. Fishes, Fishes everywhere! My other date - Fish. Dudes that approach me - Fishes! WTF??

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posted October 13, 2012 04:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sabrina123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hera:
Yeah, they're weird. I got enthusiastic in the beginning, but he did the disappearing act on me too. So I haven't contacted him at all. A week later he calls asking for a date. There you go. If he likes to be mistreated (and I know he does), I can certainly oblige. We're going to this party, except he doesn't know I have another date. That's what you get for being a Fish and disappearing on me. (oh, and before you feel sorry for him, know he doesn't want to *date* so I am free to date whomever I wish, fair game)

Lately, I am finding myself surrounded by Pisces men. Fishes, Fishes everywhere! My other date - Fish. Dudes that approach me - Fishes! WTF??


hahaha..yes they are everywhere :-D..and as you said they are weird!!.. complicated and so hard to understand :-

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posted October 14, 2012 06:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starfairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Pisces: The Disappearing Man

Pisces is the natural ruler of the 12th house, and is ruled by the planet Neptune. Piscean energy is dreamy, mysterious, private, and secretive. Pisceans often have escapist tendencies, and require alone time to recharge their buttons. Like Aquas, they live in their own world. Unlike Aquas, however, Pisces live in a dream world. They can often be found daydreaming about their hopes and dreams for the future. Pisceans are incredibly compassionate and sensitive people who find the real world a harsh, cold place. This is why they tend to escape to their private dream world quite often; negative energy affects them greatly, so they need a break from life every so often to recharge their batteries.. At the same time, their desire to escape the everyday world can land them in difficult situations.


Pisces is a mutable sign, which indicates they are changeable. Pisceans are chameleon-like, and can adapt to new situations, people, and places very easily. This changeable energy can cause difficulties in their personal relationships.

A Piscean’s vision of the perfect relationship is often unrealistic and based on fantasy. It is difficult for them to find a partner who lives up to their ideals. Real relationships take work; they involve compromise, conflict, and responsibility, which are things Pisceans tend to dislike. For this reason, they tend to be attracted to unattainable (i.e. “taken”) partners and unrequited love situations. In these situations, Pisceans won’t have to face the “realities” of relationships, and they can continue fantasizing about and idealizing the unattainable person. In addition, Pisceans are notoriously indecisive and tend to have a roaming eye, which can make choosing a partner even more difficult for them.

People involved with Pisceans in a relationship often complain that their Piscean lovers tend to disappear for days, weeks, and even months. When a Pisces disappears, he is escaping reality. Perhaps the relationship has gotten too “real” for him. Perhaps you two got into a fight, and the negativity pushed him away temporarily. Some Pisceans have several relationships going on at once (they’re mutable, remember?), so they may disappear to cater to their other lovers. Most likely, however, he just needs space and alone time to recharge his batteries.

Pisceans may flow in and out of your life at a moment’s notice, which can be aggravating for their partners. Individuals who seek responsible and dependable mates may have a difficult time with Piscean individuals. Pisceans can usually get their lovers’ attention back due to the fact that they are romantic and sensitive, and have the ability to seduce people easily. Pisceans sincerely do not mean to hurt others; in fact, hurting others is the last thing they would ever want to do.

So, what is a girl to do? How do you deal with a guy like this? The first thing to do is to appeal to his emotions in a very gentle way. If he senses anger or negativity, he might swim away. Appreciate him for who he is, and do not take advantage of his kind nature. Appeal to his spiritual side; individuals who are overly-materialistic turn him off. Patience, tolerance, and acceptance are the key to having a relationship with a Piscean. Be a strong, reliable partner to him. Feel free to take the lead and make him feel taken care of and cared for. Pisceans are also known for their wandering eyes, so learn to handle your jealousy. They also suffer from low self-esteem, so stroke his ego.

Once a Pisces is in love with you, you will become his whole world. While he will still disappear from time to time, he will always swim right back to you.
http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!pisces-the-disappearing-man/c1qjn

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posted October 14, 2012 11:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How true, Starfairy!

Well don't know about other Fishes, but with mine some indifference from me and the thought he might lose me to someone else (which I was flirting with on a social network knowing he will see at some point), made him jump through hoops and put his heart on his sleeves. I think I am learning how to figure him out. When he's in, he is ALL in and being so sensitive and romantic and sweet makes him damn irresistible to me. But when he wants his space, I have to go into detachment mode as well otherwise my possessive Taurus Venus will be very hurt.

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posted October 15, 2012 12:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MadameButterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by amowls**:
If a guy did that to me I'd say "f*ck that, we are over."


^ This.


By faithfully standing by him whenever he acts like this, you're giving him the go-ahead to keep treating you like crap. He knows you'll always be there, so he's not going to change his behaviour.

If he purposely ignores and avoids you, you need to take a hint. That's not love.

Surround yourself with people who make you a priority, not an option!

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posted October 15, 2012 03:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sabrina123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank all of the replies

@ starfairy...I think what you wrote is right, but when my Pisces man disappears he really hurts me because he gives me a silent treatment
and never say a word, also he makes me feel that he will leave me forever and at any time without saying a word and for no reason

when im with him I always feel that he really loves me and im happy with him ...but 2 weeks ago when i felt that he will disappear again, he stopped talking or answering me so i got really sad and upset and i sent him some msg's and said some hurting stuff, i didn't mean what i said but i was just mad and upset ....then i felt really bad because i said things that hurt, i didn't send any thing for 5 days and then i sent again and told him that i didn't mean what i said and i wrote it becoz i was upset and sad and because it hurts me when you stop answering me but again he didn't reply so i stopped sending anything to him, he didn't say a word for 2 weeks and i didn't send anything for 1 week now!!

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posted October 15, 2012 04:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Maelstrom     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sabrina, I am not sure how old you are but I had exactly the same experience with an ex of mine. He wasn't a Pisces though, he was an Aquarius.

My advice would be very similar to the above, I dont think this is a sunsign thing I think this is an individual issue. The problem lies with him and his inablity to be reliable in any way. Unreliability is never a turn on, people cant live in a constant state of will he, wont he. I finished it with Mr Aquarius, even though it broke my heart as I really did care deeply for him. It actually shocked the hell out of him and he honestly couldnt understand what he ha done wrong.

But it's all about self-preservation. FYI, he went onto marry a friend of mine, he treated her very differently to how he treated me - upshot of it was, he just didnt care enough about me. I've been with my partner now for 10 years, there was never anyof that uncertainty. Do your mental health a favour and get rid x

PS I'm a Pisces! http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/icons/icon4.gif

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posted July 07, 2013 12:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SBRLimey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@StarFairy - wow, wow...you have given me something to think about. My ex Pisces man has done the same to me last month. Since then, not one word. I am shocked, hurt and disappointed. I am beginning to mend over this shock (or his real personality) and I am gald that I read your post. I wish that I never met this man. What a horrible thing for a so-called gentleman to do to someone he said that he loved. Vanish...poof.

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posted January 23, 2016 12:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
It's like you're describing my ex.
Exactly the same, when he notices any changes in my behavior , or even my emotions - since he's highly intuitive he knows bout my emotions better than I do - he acts differently , so nice and adorable in a way I can't turn him down ... he was very indecisive too. I bet you don't know where you stand ...

The most obvious thing about Pisces sun/Scorpio moon is that yes they are highly emotional but they act childishly ... I understand why he keeps running away from emotional confrontations ...they start the fire and run away terrified. You can never find emotional stability with these men.

Think about it ... do you really want a man who is indecisive, childish and inconsistent ??

You deserve better


I found this in the archives from a random search. Anyone else find this?

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posted January 23, 2016 12:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic_Cat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds like a dick, regardless of birth chart lol.

Scorpio Moons are normally quite secretive...

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posted January 23, 2016 07:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:
I found this in the archives from a random search. Anyone else find this?

I don't understand the question. Or perhaps it's better to say, I don't understand WHY you asked this question. (And it seems to me that you should have said what search words you used, or something of that nature, in how you found it.)

What you found is in this thread. Why did you bump this thread just to ask if anyone else found it? What are you trying to understand?

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posted January 23, 2016 10:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I don't understand the question. Or perhaps it's better to say, I don't understand WHY you asked this question. (And it seems to me that you should have said what search words you used, or something of that nature, in how you found it.)

What you found is in this thread. Why did you bump this thread just to ask if anyone else found it? What are you trying to understand?


Just realized how that sounds. Not clear at all.Sorry.

I meant did anyone else find this to be true about them?

Have had any similar experiences?

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posted January 23, 2016 11:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ Not really... Not exactly.
Pisces actually needs alone time and time to recharge.
I think this is normal, as long as they are open and -explain themselves.

They don't play games as much as - feeling genuine "love" for many many people.. (both romantic love and non-romantic) at all times.

So - you will always share a Pisces with his family, friends, exes, occasional mistresses, pets, random street beggars and so on.... if you choose to be in a serious relationship with him.
This is not a game of any sort ^. This is who he is.

But the OP here makes no sense to me.. How can someone be your S/O when he disappears for weeks with no explanation?
It doesn't sound like he was really her bf... o_O

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I'm a Pisces girl and my boyfriend is a Pisces. As a Pisces, we might need time for space and to recharge. And by time I mean a day or two. Not two weeks. That's ridiculous.

I know there's a lot of information out there on the internet about how Pisces "disappear" but it should not be to that extent. In all honesty your boyfriend sounds like he is hiding something. I don't care what his zodiac sign is, disappearing with no contact from your significant other for two weeks is shady.

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posted January 24, 2016 09:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
^ Not really... Not exactly.
Pisces actually needs alone time and time to recharge.
I think this is normal, as long as they are open and -explain themselves.

They don't play games as much as - feeling genuine "love" for many many people.. (both romantic love and non-romantic) at all times.

So - you will always share a Pisces with his family, friends, exes, occasional mistresses, pets, random street beggars and so on.... if you choose to be in a serious relationship with him.
This is not a game of any sort ^. This is who he is.

But the OP here makes no sense to me.. How can someone be your S/O when he disappears for weeks with no explanation?
It doesn't sound like he was really her bf... o_O


So by saying occasional mistress....are you saying they cheat?

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