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Topic: Anyone with Moon in Sagittarius and Venus in Gemini?
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sativa
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posted October 13, 2012 07:21 PM
  
I have this, and I'm just wondering if it's as hard for you guys to stay in relationship as it is for me. I seem to always have guys pursuing me (not to sound cocky.) And I really want a relationship! Bad! I want intimacy. I just can't stay interested in anyone long enough to have it. And the more a guy calls me or wants to see me, the more I ignore him! I feel suffocated. It's so frustrating! I'm a Cancer Sun by the way. Mars in Aries. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 13, 2012 07:36 PM
Might as well just post your chart  I'm an Aries w Gemini placements, I understand. IP: Logged |
ail221
Moderator Posts: 3963
From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 13, 2012 07:53 PM
I feel that way sometimes its a constant tug of war between my Cancer Sun with Gemini moon and Venus.IP: Logged |
sativa
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posted October 13, 2012 09:44 PM
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mianfei
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From: Carlton North, Victoria, Australia
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted October 16, 2012 04:34 AM
quote:
Originally posted by ail221:
I feel that way sometimes its a constant tug of war between my Cancer Sun with Gemini moon and Venus.
“Sativa”, it’s very easy to see conflicts between your loyal, emotional, security-loving Cancer planets and
the flighty, freedom-loving Gemini and Sagittarius Venus and Moon.More than that, with seven planets in cardinal signs and only one in fixed, it can be very hard for you to avoid the problem of extreme swings from despondency to joy and perhaps with Mars in Aries right on the Ascendant, extremely violent temper tantrums (of which I have had many myself). You obviously seek a deep and lasting love with your Cancer Sun, but at the same time your Moon and Venus may not be comfortable with others’ emotional problems. More than that, with Saturn, Uranus and Neptune forming a huge number of oppositions across the MC/IC axis, there may be conflicts between a stable home life and the possibility of exciting careers. IP: Logged |
ezbrezbanna
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From: CA, USA
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 27, 2012 02:02 PM
Hey I would like to know more about this one too. I am seeing a guy with the exact same coordinates and he expressed a similar issue. I want to know what I can do to approach this person in a way that doesn't make him feel suffocated. I understand the whole conflict between security and independence. I am a gemini with a venus in cancer so its also been a problem, although I am more sensitive seeing as both venus and mars are in cancer. how can I approach someone like him? ------------------
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StacyLewis
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posted November 27, 2012 03:51 PM
Honestly?I think it's more a matter of, natural inclinations. Not everybody is meant to, or capable of, committing to one person long-term. I think Venus in Gemini is definitely one of those placements that can't do it, unless there's other chart aspects to pin them down and make them less flighty. I don't think it has anything to do with whether or not the other person calls too much or whatever, either. I think with someone whose chart is configurated a certain way, that pretty much no matter what, they're always going to feel the need to keep moving from person to person because that is how they're hardwired, no matter what the other person does or doesn't do. They're always going to need something new after so long. I think the issue is, that most of the population looks down on that, so then you have people trying to force themselves into boxes of behavior that run contrary to their fundamental nature, and so then they dump the blame or responsibility on the partner when eventually their innate tendencies and desires push them to move on to another person. I know a Moon in Sag, Venus in Gemini, guy who is this way. Initially I blamed myself when things got sh*tty and he skipped out on me with someone else, and really he tried to make me think the same, in various ways, that it was somehow my fault. In retrospect, after having looked at his chart - alot - I could've been Angelina Jolie, with the brain of a rocket scientist, sky-diving in my spare time for fun, with gourmet-cooking skills and boobs as big as his head, and things probably would've still worked out the way they did. Some people just aren't commitment, longterm relationship types. I think that if they were just honest with themselves about what they are, and upfront and honest with everyone they go out with, in the end they'd be happier, and do a lot less damage to others in the process. As an aside, the book "The Astrologer's Handbook" has a lot of good stuff about Venus in Gemini and certain aspects and placements; I started to type out excerpts from it then thought better of it, because I don't know the stance on copyright here. I didn't want to waste my time typing out entire aspect descriptions for people only to have my posts possibly gutted, later. IP: Logged |
blugrey
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From: Nowhere
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 27, 2012 08:47 PM
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sativa
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posted December 06, 2012 10:09 PM
Thanks for all of the input, guys. I would just like to add that I am faithful in relationships, just to give hope to the girl who is seeing a Sagittarius Moon/ Gemini Venus. I've never cheated, I am faithful. They just don't last long lol. My longest one was a year and it was with a Gemini Sun, Capricorn Moon, Cancer Rising. Venus in Taurus, Mars in Aries. He had something that just made me cling to him. Our relationship did feel more like 2 best friends though, not so much boyfriend and girlfriend.IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted December 07, 2012 12:32 AM
Sag moons are capable of being loyal, but NOT with a Gem venus on top of that.Unless they have a saturn aspect as well as other aspects to stabilise things, the mutable side wins out.
I agree with Stacy. I think male Gemini venuses or mars usually have more a problem with this need for stimulation and constant change as opposed to females.
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