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Topic: Scorpio venus/mars, will this placement make someone move very slow in relationship??
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Gabby
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posted October 14, 2012 04:07 PM
  
Im getting to know a guy with this placement. I don't have any personal scorpio placements, only scorpio uranus and scorpio N.node...i do have my saggy sun/mer in my scorpio house also!
I have pluto conjunct venus on AC, but in libra. So even tho i do take relationships very serious and im intense like scorpio, i guess libra makes me open up to relationships much quicker than a full blown scorpio venus! Weve been talking for over a month, very consistently and he is obviously interested i just wonder why he doesnt do something like ask me out, we work together, actually hes my boss...so we see each other every day. Walks me to my car even when its still light after work, makes sure we are going to be at the office at the same, takes lunch when i do. I told him i had a crush on him and he just smiled and said, really?
He has since been even more flirty, he asked my opinion on a Halloween costume for our office part, i told him what i liked, yesterday he said that was what he was wearing for me. He always puts his arm around my waist and tells me i look beautiful, when he passes by me he'll lightly take my hand and smile...hes catches my eye all the time and we smile!
We are expanding so weve more chances to work together lately. I didnt really know him before all this, i'd seen him but he worked in another location.
He has had chances to talk to me alone, but im always a bit shy whenever we are alone and i walk to fast when hes walking me to car. These feelings are just to intense and its hard to deal with! I barely can look at him when we are alone, i need to know there's something more before i try to let myself feel something this intense, i guess im scared?
We so obviously really like each other and get along amazingly, our charts are almost identical even tho we were born 3 years apart...
I'm just wondering how long does it take a scorpio venus/mars(2 degree conjunction) to make a move or express their feelings and make something more serious?
I want to open up to him but he didnt say his feelings when i told him i had a crush on him, even tho he did pick up the pace on behaving in a way that shows his feelings, but im libra venus/ libra pluto....i need communication to open up and trust! I don't want to get frustrated and give up because im not getting what i need to stay open to this...not that i feel like im going to do that, i just need to know how patient do i need to be?IP: Logged |
doommlord
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From: israel
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted October 14, 2012 04:15 PM
personally
i would give him some time as he need to REALLY TRUST you...till then youre in the dark...
if you will make him feel like he can trust you and that you are the "one" (as venus scorpio are interested in the "one" especially libras!)keep it patient...i think it will worth your while 
and good luck anyway  mars in scorpio conjunct pluto in 9th
venus in scorpio 8th
no conjunction but still gives me some credibility  edit: also i think that venus mars conjunctions overall will be more interested in making romantic action than words...so even if he didnt say anything and he still shows feeling...thats a cue IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted October 14, 2012 04:22 PM
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Originally posted by doommlord:
personally
i would give him some time as he need to REALLY TRUST you...till then youre in the dark...
if you will make him feel like he can trust you and that you are the "one" (as venus scorpio are interested in the "one" especially libras!)keep it patient...i think it will worth your while
and good luck anyway mars in scorpio conjunct pluto in 9th
venus in scorpio 8th
no conjunction but still gives me some credibility
Thanks,from a libra perspective if i was taking this long to open up it would mean i wasn't interested...but i know scorpios are fixed...so time isnt something they freak about, they take all the time they want....libras are starters(cardinal) so they jump in but dont have the same staying power.
But with pluto conjunct venus i have staying power, i know the next time i fall in love it will be the last! If we split, im done falling in love! If not i want to die of a broken heart if my guys dies before me!
But that libra make me want to jump in quickly...patience is a virtue....that i lack! LOL So, their holding back isnt lack of interest, its building a stronger foundation of trust?
How long do they wait...months and months? IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted October 14, 2012 04:24 PM
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Originally posted by doommlord:
personally
i would give him some time as he need to REALLY TRUST you...till then youre in the dark...
if you will make him feel like he can trust you and that you are the "one" (as venus scorpio are interested in the "one" especially libras!)
Does scorpio venus have a soft spot for libra venus?
I kno my libra venus def does for scorpio, but i always assumed it was because i have pluto conjunct venus. IP: Logged |
doommlord
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From: israel
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted October 14, 2012 04:30 PM
i can understand the jumpin in part...im a libra too
but i keep myself closed tight till i get to know somebody real good before i start the whole " i love you "stage im just saying that dont be afraid if he doesent jump at you the moment he sees you as the trust he builds towards you could be the foundation of a wonderfull relationship i cant say how much he will wait....it depends on him and his experiences in life more than the chart personally i have a few friends with libra venus that are adorable to me and habe gain my trust faster than other venuses (maybe coincidance)
but i disliked they slightly shllow way of viewing relationships (dont kill me  ) IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted October 14, 2012 04:48 PM
quote:
Originally posted by doommlord:
i can understand the jumpin in part...im a libra too
but i keep myself closed tight till i get to know somebody real good before i start the whole " i love you "stage im just saying that dont be afraid if he doesent jump at you the moment he sees you as the trust he builds towards you could be the foundation of a wonderfull relationship i cant say how much he will wait....it depends on him and his experiences in life more than the chart personally i have a few friends with libra venus that are adorable to me and habe gain my trust faster than other venuses (maybe coincidance)
but i disliked they slightly shllow way of viewing relationships (dont kill me )
I'm not offended!!
Ugh..i wish i could have the light hearted view of relationships most libra venus do! I dont know if im jealous or offended by most libra venus casual reltionship style...when im in love, im a goner!! In it for life if they are good to me, if not i stay until i can't take it anymore....it kills me to walk away but eventually, when it bad, you just have to! I love so deep i can't open up often and trust is massive to me! I have eros/valentine on my IC, pluto conjunct venus/AC and chrion opposed my venus in 7th...love is very emotional for me!!!
I love being in love, like all libra venus but i think i get hit much harder than most because of all these love placements on some very tender places in my chart!
I can't live without love but im also scared to lose it to the point i wont put my foot out there very easily!
Also have lilith/nymphe on my DC, so stirring up all these feelings is making me horny...ugh! I hate waiting and i don't like sex without feelings, so its been awhile!! Double UGH!!
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doommlord
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From: israel
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted October 14, 2012 05:02 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
I'm not offended!!
Ugh..i wish i could have the light hearted view of relationships most libra venus do! I dont know if im jealous or offended by most libra venus casual reltionship style...when im in love, im a goner!! In it for life if they are good to me, if not i stay until i can't take it anymore....it kills me to walk away but eventually, when it bad, you just have to! I love so deep i can't open up often and trust is massive to me! I have eros/valentine on my IC, pluto conjunct venus/AC and chrion opposed my venus in 7th...love is very emotional for me!!!
I love being in love, like all libra venus but i think i get hit much harder than most because of all these love placements on some very tender places in my chart!
I can't live without love but im also scared to lose it to the point i wont put my foot out there very easily!
Also have lilith/nymphe on my DC, so stirring up all these feelings is making me horny...ugh! I hate waiting and i don't like sex without feelings, so its been awhile!! Double UGH!!
haha well all i can say that you seem to me like his type (looking at the small amount of data i got) scorpio venus like the intense trust+sexual bond thing...well....most of them do hopefully he will say something before you get hospitalized personally i want to have that very strong emotional connection but i dont have all that emphasis of strong venus and venus/chiron i think you would be able to give him a strong emotional experience while allowing your libra venus to keep you from really heavy places i hope i helped you a bit in your question  IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted October 14, 2012 05:24 PM
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Originally posted by doommlord:
haha well all i can say that you seem to me like his type (looking at the small amount of data i got) scorpio venus like the intense trust+sexual bond thing...well....most of them do hopefully he will say something before you get hospitalized personally i want to have that very strong emotional connection but i dont have all that emphasis of strong venus and venus/chiron i think you would be able to give him a strong emotional experience while allowing your libra venus to keep you from really heavy places i hope i helped you a bit in your question
Hospitalized...LOL!!
Ya, i do stay light hearted compared to scorpio, except on this unfortunately! LOL IP: Logged | |
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