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Topic: Older Men
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C1ND3R
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posted October 21, 2012 10:44 AM
 
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Originally posted by Layla84:
oooh!!! mars in libra, 7th house aries, ruler of 7th in 1st....venus in leo....I like men who are assertive and whatnot, but i also like them to be refined, a suit just DOES it for me. -By the way- i heard about predicting where you will meet love interests. for example if the ruler of 7th house is in 10th you'll meet them at work. However, I never understood this in MY case. ruler of 7th in 1st house.
Funny, i was just thinking about that after replying to the libra s-turn transit thread.... With my fith house ruler in my sixth, i guess i would meet people through work and boy is that true (also the gym). I don't do 9-5 and the work i do has me meeting people and, yes.....  no complaints there! 
I think that with your first being involved, you'd need someone who reflects good on you and quite frankly, might possibly be arm candy.
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C1ND3R
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posted October 21, 2012 10:51 AM
* fap fap fap fap schlick schlick schlick schlick*
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DeathIsanIllusion
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posted October 21, 2012 06:09 PM
7th house ruler=Neptune in Capricorn
5th house ruler=Saturn in CapricornSaturn conjunct Neptune in the 4th; they also trine my 9th house Taurus Mars. My 4th house ruler & traditional 7th house ruler=Jupiter in Taurus in the 9th. Venus rules my 9th house. Jupiter trines my 1st house (Virgo) ruler, Mercury in Capricorn (5th) Saturn semi-sextile Venus (5th), contraparallel Moon, POF. Venus is in the Gemini decanate of Aquarius, and also in the Gemini duad. I am currently in love with someone much older than I am. He looks waaaay much younger than he actually is. That's exactly how I want him to be. He's a foreigner, too. ------------------
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Moonfish
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posted October 21, 2012 06:43 PM
I have North node and Juno in Capricorn too. Juno conjuncts Saturn (3 degs, out of sign) and NN conjunct Uranus exact.
I'm attracted to older men, more so to maturity.. but older men (+10-20 yrs) have always caught my eye. IP: Logged |
C1ND3R
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posted October 21, 2012 07:14 PM
Does anyone else slightly feel like you're the cradle robber? I feel that way, a lot of the times... I'm usually pretty self conscious about how much i've accomplished and how established i am but when it comes to comparing with an older guy (or maybe the one's that i've been meeting, perhaps)...I always catch myself trying to be the one that's gonna pay for them... Or buy them things and a multi-million dollar house and then they're like, "oh, by the way, just tell the doorman your name when you come over for dinner later today... He'll know who you are". I'm still in my twenties, yknow!?
Believe me, i'm gonna make those trillions..!!! 
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11nahyt
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posted October 21, 2012 09:20 PM
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Originally posted by Layla84:
By the way- i heard about predicting where you will meet love interests. for example if the ruler of 7th house is in 10th you'll meet them at work. However, I never understood this in MY case. ruler of 7th in 1st house.
hmm the ruler of my seventh house in in my 8th conjunct pluto in scorp. does that mean im gonna meet my lover at a cemetery or a funeral? lol.this actually wouldn't bother me at allll.
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Layla84
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posted October 22, 2012 01:29 PM
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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
I think that with your first being involved, you'd need someone who reflects good on you and quite frankly, might possibly be arm candy.
Hehe, "arm candy" quite possibly. I think i am looking for someone who matches me well, like my "male" other half and counterpart. IP: Logged |
Layla84
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posted October 22, 2012 01:32 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
I have North node and Juno in Capricorn too. Juno conjuncts Saturn (3 degs, out of sign) and NN conjunct Uranus exact.
I'm attracted to older men, more so to maturity.. but older men (+10-20 yrs) have always caught my eye.
me too same aspect. my juno conjuncts neptune/uranus... I like the age difference
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Layla84
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posted October 22, 2012 01:34 PM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
hmm the ruler of my seventh house in in my 8th conjunct pluto in scorp. does that mean im gonna meet my lover at a cemetery or a funeral? lol.this actually wouldn't bother me at allll.
read this:
Ruler of the 7th house in the 8th house
The activities of the 7th house serve the agenda of the 8th house. Cooperation, conflict, significant partnerships and negotiations serve attitudes to life and death, other people’s resources, sex and the desire to dig deep. We choose a partner who provokes emotional confrontations and emotional highs and lows. We want to be with someone who can handle our emotional baggage. Partners have to adjust to our financial debt. Partners add to our financial debt. We want to get married so we can share mutual financial resources. Getting married brings us up against our attitude to life and death. Business partnerships revolve around shared resources, taxes, estates, inheritances, insurance and death. Business partnerships are intense. Marriage partners have to fit into our need to explore the occult and the taboo. Contracts and negotiations revolved around death, taxes, estates, shared resources and inheritances. The way we cooperate or cause conflict has an effect on our potential inheritance. The way we cooperate with others determines how much we owe. We choose an intense partner. We choose a partner who is interested in taboo sexual practices. We choose a partner for the sex. Open enemies have a say in our inheritances and our debt. We married to our secrets. Read more: http://astrofix.net/2010/05/09/ruler-of-the-7th-house-in-houses/#ixzz2A3BTcsM0 IP: Logged |
Layla84
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posted October 22, 2012 01:50 PM
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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
Does anyone else slightly feel like [b]you're the cradle robber? I feel that way, a lot of the times... I'm usually pretty self conscious about how much i've accomplished and how established i am but when it comes to comparing with an older guy (or maybe the one's that i've been meeting, perhaps)...I always catch myself trying to be the one that's gonna pay for them... Or buy them things and a multi-million dollar house and then they're like, "oh, by the way, just tell the doorman your name when you come over for dinner later today... He'll know who you are". I'm still in my twenties, yknow!?
Believe me, i'm gonna make those trillions..!!!
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I would never want to be a cradle rebber. I like to lie in my cradle waiting to get robbed. lol! IP: Logged |
Layla84
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From: Orlando, Florida,USA
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posted October 22, 2012 01:50 PM
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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
Does anyone else slightly feel like [b]you're the cradle robber? I feel that way, a lot of the times... I'm usually pretty self conscious about how much i've accomplished and how established i am but when it comes to comparing with an older guy (or maybe the one's that i've been meeting, perhaps)...I always catch myself trying to be the one that's gonna pay for them... Or buy them things and a multi-million dollar house and then they're like, "oh, by the way, just tell the doorman your name when you come over for dinner later today... He'll know who you are". I'm still in my twenties, yknow!?
Believe me, i'm gonna make those trillions..!!!
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I would never want to be a cradle robber. I like to lie in my cradle waiting to get robbed. (blame the four planets in libra, moon/venus in leo!) IP: Logged |
DeathIsanIllusion
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posted October 22, 2012 01:55 PM
Layla84, me too, me too!------------------
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted October 23, 2012 05:56 PM
Is there a Pluto in Virgo guy in here besides myself? Is there a Pluto in Leo? Anyone?IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted October 23, 2012 11:37 PM
I worry about you cinder, I really do.
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I'm so cappy
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posted November 14, 2012 03:51 PM
I've always been attracted to older men and I'm not really interested in my peers. I'm a Cappy with Saturn in the 5th house in Capricorn. Actually I have a Sun-Saturn-Uranus-Neptune stellium. Saturn also trines my Venus. ------------------
lots of earth+lots of air+Merc in Sag=sandstorm shooting arrows So you better not mess up with me ;) IP: Logged |
naturalbeige
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posted November 16, 2012 12:36 AM
Definitely prominent Capricorn/Saturn influences play a role in my attraction to older men.I have: Capricorn Ascendant conjunction to Mars
Mars in Capricorn trine Sun in Virgo
Mars is also exalted in Capricorn
Saturn in Tenth House
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bella_taurus
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posted November 16, 2012 11:04 AM
Per my birth chart, I have Saturn in my 7th house. I tend to either attract older men and I am attracted to older men. But I drool over the ones with fit bodies and a mature, handsome face. I had a brief "fling" and an older man and he was amazing in bed, but he was definitely not someone I would have dated long term, he had 2 grown daughters and had been married 3 times. It was not destined to work out, he said he was "done" with that part of his life. He was also a leo, so he'll be a playboy until he leaves this earth! LOL jkIP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
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posted November 16, 2012 11:11 AM
I have always been more attracted to older guys - up to 8-10 years older. I feel gross for being that way but I can't help it. It isn't as bad now because I will be 19 in the upcoming year but yeah. As I got older I found guys in their 20s were far more appealing to me. My last relationship had someone 3 years older but they were too immature. I feel like 24-26 is my goal age range right now. I can see myself being with someone who is probably 5-15 years older when I am a grown adult since I really do get along well with well to do older guys, not creeps though - I have an excellent radar for that. I just mean, I get along well with older male authorities and older guys in general, like teachers or bosses, etc. H11 Venus in Scorpio conjunct Jupiter+NN
Venus-Jupiter trine H3 Saturn in Pisces
Descendant in Gemini - and what do you know, Mercury trine Saturn! 
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KarkaQueen
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posted November 16, 2012 12:27 PM
I Know what you mean, I use to be wild about older men especially when I was around 10-13.. same with my friend, too.Shes an Aries Sun Virgo Moon and Libra Rising.  IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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posted November 16, 2012 12:28 PM
She dates and have affairs with many older guys (around 19-30 and shes 15) Ever since she was about 14, it does make me uneasy though.She's an annoying person and most of my friends don't like her or find her to be attractive. IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
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posted November 16, 2012 12:35 PM
mmm... gimme a silver fox anyday~~~ lolSaturn in Sco III conjunct Eros~
Sun in Capricorn V I attract them, they attract me, it works... heh~ But, I gotta really watch that creepo-radar, like Sweet-Scorpion. (luckily I married a huge creep so I haven't had to worry about any others so much in awhile! haha) I have the unwelcome blessing/burden of a 15 year old appearance/figure... and I'm soon to be 29............... hmmm...
So, as one could imagine, I have had a never ending array of those pedo-predatory type older guys approach me with their sick lolita complex fantasies one time too many.
Indeed, my husband and I loved watching that show "how to catch a predator" (I think that was what it was called), and he'd say how great I'd be as a decoy..... /shudder I get along incredibly well with older people in general, and having a Capricorn sun I kinda think that's how it is with Saturnine-influenced people in most cases anyway... it's in our cosmic-makeup, respect for elders... respect for authority... I mean, it has to be mutual, but I don't think I know any (not even one) Capricorn who can turn their back on helping a grandparent, their own or not...
And, as I stated elsewhere on here,for me my Venus is on my SN, just my interpretation of how that may play out, is a love for the past, our own,or altruistically on a larger scale... I loved working in nursing homes until I came to Canada and had to give up my career and plans... I genuinely enjoy the company of my elders, it's something of a nessecity of sorts. Their stories are beautiful, their
faces are beautiful (I love wrinkles), their wisdom is beautiful.... I think it has to do with my weird Venus...? My husband is also one of the youngest men I have ever been with... only 2 years my senior! My ex was a full 10 years my senior... and before him I had a not so socially/pc acceptable relationship with a man 17 years my senior. I don't shun anyone based on age... I just find my core desire is a partner who is mature and experienced...
(Even so, in my early dating years I made a rule with myself never to date anyone less than 4 years older than me... and stuck to it pretty well I'd say. By the time I was out of high school the only person in my same class/school that I'd dated was a Libra, 6 months my junior... it didn't last long at all, about 3 weeks.)  Also, something that stands out now is that the only other dates I had in high school were with other Capricorns (in the majority; there were some Sag/Aqua suns as always, but they probably all had Capricorn in their charts too).... 5th house influence at work I suppose... lol ------------------
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