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posted October 22, 2012 12:34 AM            

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I want to experience a bunch of different dating experiences, be a social butterfly (which I pretty much am, but I don't get to go on formal outright dates.) but sadly, this is not the case. Every now and then someone will pop up who is interested in me, but I don't like them. Or they play games. Or it doesn't last long. MAN!

I have Saturn in my 7th house, is this why it takes so long for new opportunities to arrive dating-wise?

Obviously the culprit to them not lasting long is Uranus in the 7th house, right? Plus it's an air planet in an air house - does that strengthen Uranus' influence?

Finally, I have Neptune in the 7th and Pluto in the 5th. I do attract many air/water combination people and Taurus' (Mars in the 12th house ruled by Taurus.) but alas nothing concrete happens! It's all very intuitive and fluid and ... annoying.

There's nothing wrong with me, I'm just stumped as to why it's taking so long to find a long-term relationship with someone! Why does no one want to put in the work it takes to be with me?!

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posted October 22, 2012 12:37 AM            

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Is your Venus in a critical degree?

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posted October 22, 2012 12:39 AM            

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My best friend has Uranus in her 7th. She has more of an eccentric taste in men but she's always dating someone or another. She also has Venus in there so that could be the difference.

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posted October 22, 2012 12:51 AM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
Is your Venus in a critical degree?

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Venus is in Aries at 18.33 square Saturn and Neptune in the 7th. Those aspects are the bane of my existence.

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posted October 22, 2012 12:53 AM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
My best friend has Uranus in her 7th. She has more of an eccentric taste in men but she's always dating someone or another. She also has Venus in there so that could be the difference.

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Lucky! I don't have a specific type I go for, it's usually pretty random who I like but funny I never remember to attribute that to Uranus.

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posted October 22, 2012 01:06 AM            

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yeah i have venus opp uranus/saturn/neptune. i swing like a pendulum when it comes to my "type" of guy. which really isn't a type at all

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posted October 22, 2012 01:21 AM            

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I have Saturn in my 7th house, is this why it takes so long for new opportunities to arrive dating-wise?

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Ohhhh, same gurl same! What sign? S-turn is supposed to be the teacher so maybe you haven't learnt a lesson yet, and thus opportunities are being blocked? I have a Pisces S-turn...

At one point I didn't care who I'd hit it up with and yeah, dates and relationships kept coming and going as I wanted l o l. But then I realised some people were entirely...less than desirable. As I got more critical of who I would court or become public with, less people came. It's simple logic but still a lesson of my S-turn (in a counter-productive way ie critical = Virgo, not Pisces), I think.

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posted October 22, 2012 01:32 AM            

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I have Saturn in Capricorn. I want commitment and I envision it for myself! I am definitely picky about who I focus on, the problem is that I'm still drawn to unsavory, Neptunian types (the negative side of Neptune) so it's conflicting.

Here's my thought process: Boy meets girl, girl jumps through hoops for boy to get attention (without being promiscuous) girl gets a little bit of attention but ultimately grows tired and leaves. Boy comes back to girl years later, pays girl more attention but still not giving her his full attention and yet girl thinks to herself "But it has been years, maybe I'm just being impatient." and thus waits patiently. Not jumping through hoops but still not recognizing losers as they are fast enough.

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