posted October 22, 2012 12:54 AM            

I think I have an ok grasp of how Venus is when conjunct Moon, Mercury, Mars, Jupiter and Pluto and also Sun.

But these aspects befuddle me, and I have known people with not only the conjunction but opposite those planets as well.

Anyways, my questions for you, owner of such aspect(s), is how does it play out in your romantic and platonic relationships? How are you with receiving and giving your affection and favors? How is it a part of your life in general?

posted October 22, 2012 01:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Anyways, my questions for you, owner of such aspect(s), is how does it play out in your romantic and platonic relationships? How are you with receiving and giving your affection and favors? How is it a part of your life in general?

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OK so I have Gemini Venus in the 8th opposite all 3 outers.

It's a pretty big contradiction from my triple fixed big 3. especially my taurus. moon.

At times it seems the Venus opp Saturn can trump the Venus opp Uranus or vice versa. (An astrologer once told me that the Venus/Saturn opposition mitigates the Uranus) I can go a very long time only hopelessly waiting for someone. And then all the sudden think I like one person then another person then another. I'm not sure where it is in my chart but it is very important for me to only "talk" to one person at a time. I only really ever seriously consider one person at a time. Which you might remember because you have done at least 2 compatibility readings for me. (very generous, thank you - i hope new guy is the one. and i think he might be)

i think i am too scattered to answer this productively. so i'm just going to stop trying to have any sort of structure besides stringing along thoughts to explain this. i have broken a lot of hearts. but somehow i'm on good terms with all of my exes. probably bc i am so honest and i really do try while i try. i just can move on way quicker than anyone probably would probably like. sometimes i try a little too hard for things to work and then when i do finally move on - no one expects it so it's hard for them to face i am never, ever, coming back. i have jupiter in my 7th house so i think i am pretty lucky when it comes to love as in always having options.

i don't have a "type" of guy. i just said once on here and once today that my taste "swings like a pendulum." as soon as i think i have a preference - i pretty much go against it with the next guy. i just stopped seeing this aqua guy about a month ago now (well stopped debating with him a little more recently) and he was 13 years older than me. i was convinced i had to like an older guy. FF to this week and I am soo soo soo happy to be talking to this Cancer/Taurus Moon and Rising guy who is 11 months younger than me.

I hope I have gotten all that Uranus out of my system because this composite is so nice. If you remember, it's so nice. Mystic rectangle one. (I really feel like I need NO URANUS in a composite.. like get out of here.)

I also have a little bit of a revolving door when it comes to my best girl friends. I'll be closest with one of them and then something happens and I'll be closer with another.

posted October 22, 2012 02:03 AM            

How it plays out: a dry love-life.lol. Just kidding.

Venus in Scorpio values intimacy of the most profound kind. It kinda makes me want to "merge" with the partner I am with.

Venus in Scorpio also tends to confuse sex with love(or even go as far as equating the two) since Scorpio(rules sex) and Venus(rules love).

It could also incur strong moral beliefs (Venus) with regards to sexual intimacy(Scorpio). Some Venus in Scorpios have a disdain for pornography or acts that they deem sexualy "immoral"

Saturn reserves the energy of this Pluto ruled sign, by controlling the impulses so that they are projected in a planned(almost calculated ) manner.

Saturn in Scorpio also means that there are some issues with sexual intimacy that the native needs to deal with. Sexual problems/warped views of sexuality is likely. It could also confer an inferioritycomplex with regards to sex that the individual may need to overcome.

Some Saturn in Scorpio people, once having worked thorugh the issues that this position can bring, become sexualy prowess or experts on the subjects of sexuality. Sex then ceases to be taken so seriously..

As such, my Venus conjunct Saturn makes me pick my sexual partners most particularly. I feel pangs of lust/desire for someone that I find attractive(always sexualy) and it is through the restarint of Saturn that I keep it all "under control".

If not, I'd likely be labeled a "sex maniac", "pervert" "deviant" or the like. I tend to get turned on by potruding body parts; bum, chest, shoulders, lips etc.

Venus in Scoprio is out of control sexual. Thank heavens for the clsoe contact to Saturn otherwise I'd be in a psychiatric ward being treated for addictions.

posted October 22, 2012 06:53 PM            

I will go back and read them over, but I'm just saying thanks to those who came in and answered.

posted October 22, 2012 08:14 PM            

This trines my Leo ASC and more or less trines Aries Jupiter. I can be super friendly, not seeing flaws. I get infatuated with people and animals...seem to see everything with rose colored glasses, especially the good stuff.

posted October 27, 2012 12:20 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
OK so I have Gemini Venus in the 8th opposite all 3 outers.

It's a pretty big contradiction from my triple fixed big 3. especially my taurus. moon.

At times it seems the Venus opp Saturn can trump the Venus opp Uranus or vice versa. (An astrologer once told me that the Venus/Saturn opposition mitigates the Uranus) I can go a very long time only hopelessly waiting for someone. And then all the sudden think I like one person then another person then another. I'm not sure where it is in my chart but it is very important for me to only "talk" to one person at a time. I only really ever seriously consider one person at a time. Which you might remember because you have done at least 2 compatibility readings for me. (very generous, thank you - i hope new guy is the one. and i think he might be)

i think i am too scattered to answer this productively. so i'm just going to stop trying to have any sort of structure besides stringing along thoughts to explain this. i have broken a lot of hearts. but somehow i'm on good terms with all of my exes. probably bc i am so honest and i really do try while i try. i just can move on way quicker than anyone probably would probably like. sometimes i try a little too hard for things to work and then when i do finally move on - no one expects it so it's hard for them to face i am never, ever, coming back. i have jupiter in my 7th house so i think i am pretty lucky when it comes to love as in always having options.

i don't have a "type" of guy. i just said once on here and once today that my taste "swings like a pendulum." as soon as i think i have a preference - i pretty much go against it with the next guy. i just stopped seeing this aqua guy about a month ago now (well stopped debating with him a little more recently) and he was 13 years older than me. i was convinced i had to like an older guy. FF to this week and I am soo soo soo happy to be talking to this Cancer/Taurus Moon and Rising guy who is 11 months younger than me.

I hope I have gotten all that Uranus out of my system because this composite is so nice. If you remember, it's so nice. Mystic rectangle one. (I really feel like I need NO URANUS in a composite.. like get out of here.)

I also have a little bit of a revolving door when it comes to my best girl friends. I'll be closest with one of them and then something happens and I'll be closer with another.

Hope this makes SOME sense. Feel free to ask any questions bc I know I am all over the place.

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When you say this -
I'm not sure where it is in my chart but it is very important for me to only "talk" to one person at a time. I only really ever seriously consider one person at a time.

I'm the same way, I only have Venus opposite Saturn though. I do not like the idea of having multiple suitors...

What do you mean "something happens"? Is it like, one friend will be paying more attention so naturally you gravitate towards that friend than say one is isn't exactly doing the same? I read somewhere that Leos can be biased towards those who are more welcoming of their company.

posted October 27, 2012 12:20 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
my best friend straight up has venus conjunct uranus. she likes to date guys of different races than her. and in general doesn't want a boyfriend. prefers to be single and date more than one person at a time. < her venus is in sag conjunct her cap uranus in her 7th house

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posted October 27, 2012 12:24 PM            

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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
I have Venus conjunct Saturn.

How it plays out: a dry love-life.lol. Just kidding.

Venus in Scorpio values intimacy of the most profound kind. It kinda makes me want to "merge" with the partner I am with.

Venus in Scorpio also tends to confuse sex with love(or even go as far as equating the two) since Scorpio(rules sex) and Venus(rules love).

It could also incur strong moral beliefs (Venus) with regards to sexual intimacy(Scorpio). Some Venus in Scorpios have a disdain for pornography or acts that they deem sexualy "immoral"

Saturn reserves the energy of this Pluto ruled sign, by controlling the impulses so that they are projected in a planned(almost calculated ) manner.

Saturn in Scorpio also means that there are some issues with sexual intimacy that the native needs to deal with. Sexual problems/warped views of sexuality is likely. It could also confer an inferioritycomplex with regards to sex that the individual may need to overcome.

Some Saturn in Scorpio people, once having worked thorugh the issues that this position can bring, become sexualy prowess or experts on the subjects of sexuality. Sex then ceases to be taken so seriously..

As such, my Venus conjunct Saturn makes me pick my sexual partners most particularly. I feel pangs of lust/desire for someone that I find attractive(always sexualy) and it is through the restarint of Saturn that I keep it all "under control".

If not, I'd likely be labeled a "sex maniac", "pervert" "deviant" or the like. I tend to get turned on by potruding body parts; bum, chest, shoulders, lips etc.

Venus in Scoprio is out of control sexual. Thank heavens for the clsoe contact to Saturn otherwise I'd be in a psychiatric ward being treated for addictions.

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Very interesting!!!

I never looked at Venus in Scorpio that way. Well, I was aware of maybe the "merging" aspects and the "sex and love" dilemma but this:
It could also incur strong moral beliefs (Venus) with regards to sexual intimacy(Scorpio). Some Venus in Scorpios have a disdain for pornography or acts that they deem sexualy "immoral"

Saturn reserves the energy of this Pluto ruled sign, by controlling the impulses so that they are projected in a planned(almost calculated ) manner.

Saturn in Scorpio also means that there are some issues with sexual intimacy that the native needs to deal with. Sexual problems/warped views of sexuality is likely. It could also confer an inferiority complex with regards to sex that the individual may need to overcome.

posted October 27, 2012 12:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
I have Venus conjunct Neptune in Sag, 6 degree orb, straddled over my 5H cusp.

This trines my Leo ASC and more or less trines Aries Jupiter. I can be super friendly, not seeing flaws. I get infatuated with people and animals...seem to see everything with rose colored glasses, especially the good stuff.

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posted October 27, 2012 12:26 PM            

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Originally posted by AriesKat:
Venus opp pluto its sucks!

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posted October 27, 2012 12:27 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
I have Venus in Gemini opposition Uranus in Capricorn in Retrograde
Its a bit confusing to explain in general because Capricorn should be a stabilizing placement but with it in retrograde not so much and I still feel the Uranian energy. I wouldn't say I am non-committal I just need a lot of freedom. I hate the idea of being smothered in a relationship I do need stimulation in a relationship.

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posted October 27, 2012 12:36 PM            

I feel that my Venus conjunct Saturn grounds any unrealistic expectations or "floating away in clouds of love" feeling, almost. Indeed, I do love a good romantic, chick-flick. I love children and animals. My stomach will turn inside out if I see any mistreatment of them. I can't tolerate crude language or any crassness that's out of place and unnecessary. I don't like chaos or a chaotic environment.

In my relationships, whenever things become not as expected, I become kind of bitter. My Neptune keeps persevering and tells me to look on the better side of things, and my Saturn will tell me to stick by it and try to work it out. I've been in a relationship that lasted for way, way too long. "Through thick and thin" is what I refer to Saturn and Venus conjunct in Capricorn.

Also, in no way am I "showy" with my love. I show love by doing things for them, but I don't shower them with love letters and kissy faces. I'm not comfortable with overtly public displays of affection (e.g. french kissing in a restaurant, grabbing booties, etc). Likewise, I don't like receiving flowers or anything in which it's very public, and people notice right away. In private matters, I have to trust this person before I become lovey-dovey and it must be reciprocated. I can't be a one-woman show with my affection in love.

posted October 27, 2012 01:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Since you feel this Uranian energy, do you attract it in others still? Or do you even like Uranian energy in a potential interest or friend?

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posted October 27, 2012 03:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
[b]my best friend straight up has venus conjunct uranus. she likes to date guys of different races than her. and in general doesn't want a boyfriend. prefers to be single and date more than one person at a time. < her venus is in sag conjunct her cap uranus in her 7th house

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posted October 27, 2012 08:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
That sounds like some awesome aspects to have, Faith. Really romantic. Would you consider yourself a generous person?

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Generous yes. But Venus-Neptune is probably the most challenging aspect in my chart.

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Love is the force that shapes and sustains your life with Venus conjunct Neptune. Your romantic nature inspires you to believe in the ultimate possibilities of love, and you may have very definitive fantasies about loving. When you're in love, your compassion knows no bounds. You may feel that you could sacrifice anything for the man you love, and sometimes do. Yearning for a soul mate, you expect the same high ideals from your partner, although you may not always find them. Your emotional boundaries can be quite flexible, which allows you to feel what others are feeling, but which can also be confusing when you're trying to determine what's going on with you individually. You may not always feel confident taking the initiative in love, and may spend more time fantasizing about possibilities than you spend acting on your desires.

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^ True

posted October 28, 2012 06:18 AM            

It's especially powerful because as a Libra rising, Venus is also my ruling planet.

I do have a way with words, I'm quite charismatic, I'm a great communicator... but I do have difficulty channeling these innate gifts into something tangible like a paid writing gig of some sort. I think Neptune here drains me of energy... it makes everything murky and wishy washy.

In romance I'm an extreme idealist. I either love you or I hate you. I do tend to put my loved ones on pedestals. I also have my 1st house Pluto exactly sextile this configuation, so you can see, between being a Libra rising and my 1st house Pluto all this stuff is hopelessly intermingled and tied up in my outer identity and I think very apparent upon meeting me.