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asclibrasagsun
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posted October 22, 2012 09:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Which transits really cause you to not have any romantic opportunities at all?
(Sounds like a venus square saturn thing right?)
Well I don't have that transit at the moment but certainly my love life is pretty non-existant and boring at the moment. In fact, I am so sick of this that I am just wondering what could be causing it? I do NOT see any obvious things...
Observation: No opportunities to meet anyone, any opportunities taken towards romance are blocked, restrictions, blockades...I just have lost all hope. I can't get over the person I love (we are around each other too often) and I have not been able to meet anyone new. ALSO, any opportunities I take to attract other partners just crumble!
It makes me feel both sexually and emotionally frustrated and unwanted.

This is not meant to be a personal reading so please don't move this...but I am just wondering do you have any similar experiences with the same sort of issue and what transits was your chart under at that time? My other suspect is Saturn in the 1st house which I have currently...and neptune in the 5th house which I just don't understand (I have read EVERY single possible article on it online! I STILL do not get it....yes over idealization of the partner I know)

Which known transits on the other hand can boost things up and reverse the whole thing?
Which are the best/worst for love life?

Sun conjunct venus is supposed to signify marriage for example, right?

Thank You

Let's discuss

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AriesKat
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posted October 22, 2012 09:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Going thru the same things

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AriesKat
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posted October 22, 2012 09:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have saturn transiting my 7th house

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posted October 22, 2012 09:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mercuranian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
same here. saturn's been in my 5th house since october 2009.

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asclibrasagsun
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posted October 22, 2012 10:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nope guys, no saturn in those houses for me...I just don't get it

But I am just hopeless - hitting that 1st house, then this crap is going to go in my 2nd house end of november - hitting that pocketbook LOSER SATURN I HATE YOU

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posted October 22, 2012 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CosmicKarma360     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have you looked at your Progressed chart at all? You might find a clue there too.

Unfortunately, I'm still pretty much a newbie, and don't want to give out too much advice. All I can tell you is that when t.Pluto was going through my 7th, it was dry as the Sahara Desert for me. 10 years, to be exact. When I had t.Saturn in there, I did see some action, but after that. Blah. Nothing. Not until t.Pluto went into my 8th.

Yeah, t.Saturn in the 1st probably would cause some depression, but I'm not real sure about that. Neptune in the 5th usually means that you see your romantic partner in *too* perfect terms. Way better than they usually are. You might attract very artistic types, too. Painters, filmmakers, musicians, that kind of thing. I know that *Natal* Neptune in the 5th can mean children out of wedlock, or adoption. I have n.Neptune in the 7th, which I've read is a lot like having n.Neptune in the 5th. I've learned to let go of some super-romantic ideals, and look at things a little less rosy. It has helped.

Otherwise, I'd say look to t.Venus/t.Mars/t.Moon/t.Sun for romantic sparks. Sextiles I believe are suppose to bring opportunities. Also, look towards the houses. 5th, 7th, even 8th and possibly 11th. The 11th is hopes/dreams. Hopefully someone here will correct me if I'm going out on a limb with those recommendations.

On a personal note, I'd say try to stay open to all possibilities. It's so easy to get locked in to a certain *type*. Look for someone you're happy to be with. Yeah, all those old sayings really are true. Stay open, and even if someone is so-so when you first meet them, if they're fun and treat you right, you'll be SO happy you won't believe it if you give them a chance. Good luck!

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posted October 22, 2012 10:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am hopeless as well I cant even get laid, let alone find a suitable partner for anything long term.

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asclibrasagsun
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posted October 22, 2012 10:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
Have you looked at your Progressed chart at all? You might find a clue there too.

Unfortunately, I'm still pretty much a newbie, and don't want to give out too much advice. All I can tell you is that when t.Pluto was going through my 7th, it was dry as the Sahara Desert for me. 10 years, to be exact. When I had t.Saturn in there, I did see some action, but after that. Blah. Nothing. Not until t.Pluto went into my 8th.

Yeah, t.Saturn in the 1st probably would cause some depression, but I'm not real sure about that. Neptune in the 5th usually means that you see your romantic partner in *too* perfect terms. Way better than they usually are. You might attract very artistic types, too. Painters, filmmakers, musicians, that kind of thing. I know that *Natal* Neptune in the 5th can mean children out of wedlock, or adoption. I have n.Neptune in the 7th, which I've read is a lot like having n.Neptune in the 5th. I've learned to let go of some super-romantic ideals, and look at things a little less rosy. It has helped.

Otherwise, I'd say look to t.Venus/t.Mars/t.Moon/t.Sun for romantic sparks. Sextiles I believe are suppose to bring opportunities. Also, look towards the houses. 5th, 7th, even 8th and possibly 11th. The 11th is hopes/dreams. Hopefully someone here will correct me if I'm going out on a limb with those recommendations.

On a personal note, I'd say try to stay open to all possibilities. It's so easy to get locked in to a certain *type*. Look for someone you're happy to be with. Yeah, all those old sayings really are true. Stay open, and even if someone is so-so when you first meet them, if they're fun and treat you right, you'll be SO happy you won't believe it if you give them a chance. Good luck!


Hi CosmicKarma360! Thanks for your support, I REALLY appreciate it...especially at a time like this. What you said sounds pretty accurate. I did take a look at my progressed chart and I have notes from that time. I am going to go look for them and maybe I can provide more info. on what is happening. I know that October 29th/30th is going to have some super important transit for me....a total 360 reversal of how the love life is now, HOWEVER, I repeat, I have also grown extremely impatient and what is only one week from now just seems EXTREMELY FAR FAR AWAY.

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posted October 22, 2012 10:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by AriesKat:
I am hopeless as well I cant even get laid, let alone find a suitable partner for anything long term.

Do you mean that you cannot even find someone you would be comfortable with just for sex? (just need a clarification, because I would say that I have the same issue...)

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posted October 22, 2012 10:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Another issue: met this decent guy we went on two dates, he liked me but was not the talkative type and I did not encourage him much either because I was sort of uninterested. now in my time of desperation OF COURSE I would like to contact him again and see if things could go a little further just because I am bored, let alone this is what happened - my phone erased all of my contacts.................

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posted October 22, 2012 10:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Do you mean that you cannot even find someone you would be comfortable with just for sex? (just need a clarification, because I would say that I have the same issue...)

No I actually had two people in mind who at one point were attracted to me physically and made it pretty known. Now that I decided to go that route I was rejected twice in 2 weeks what could have changed. Like one of the guys was my friend who was flirting left and right with me just 5 months ago to the point I had to tell him to chill and the other guy was someone I made out with a did other things with( the whole thing was physical). Well he came over last weekend and tried to sell me on his new business, but I wasnt interested. I guess that made him pretty mad because he got me all riled up and then was like i have to go now. I was left sitting there like a fool.

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posted October 22, 2012 11:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AriesKat:
No I actually had two people in mind who at one point were attracted to me physically and made it pretty known. Now that I decided to go that route I was rejected twice in 2 weeks what could have changed. Like one of the guys was my friend who was flirting left and right with me just 5 months ago to the point I had to tell him to chill and the other guy was someone I made out with a did other things with( the whole thing was physical). Well he came over last weekend and tried to sell me on his new business, but I wasnt interested. I guess that made him pretty mad because he got me all riled up and then was like i have to go now. I was left sitting there like a fool.


Well I hope that your situation changes soon and that you not only find someone to have a sexual relationship with but a fully committed one as well with lots of true love and affection

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posted October 23, 2012 12:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Well I hope that your situation changes soon and that you not only find someone to have a sexual relationship with but a fully committed one as well with lots of true love and affection

Thanks a bunch...sending good vibes your way too. I really am just hoping to change my perspective on things, because I know I cant control anything besides how I react to all the bs that's has been happening.

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posted October 23, 2012 10:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks guys

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posted October 23, 2012 11:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starfairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A friend of mine is having Saturn transiting her 1st, and she's in the same boat as you. Has Uranus hit your Descendant yet? If not, that will certainly get your love sector going.

"Uranus Transits your 7th House

Unpredictable, unstable relationships are in order when Uranus is in the 7th, because the people you attract are usually unpredictable and unstable (i.e. Uranian). I find that the guys I meet are usually going through some sort of Uranus transit when they meet me, since Uranus is so strong in my chart. One man was was having transiting Uranus sextile his natal Venus, and another had transiting Uranus conjunct his natal Venus at the time of our meetings. I was going through a Uranus sextile Venus transit when I met an Aquarian man, and Uranus square my seventh house ruler when I met yet another Aquarian man.


The nature of the planet affecting the love sector reflects the kind of relationship/partner you’ll have during that time. The person doesn’t necessarily have to be a Scorpio (for a Pluto transit), an Aquarius (for an Uranus transit), etc., but the synastry chart or composite chart will usually have the flavor of that planet, or the other person will be going through a similar transit

Uranus crossing the DC (cusp of the 7th house) usually manifests by meeting someone new, out of the blue, or suddenly breaking up with your partner/your partner suddenly leaving you. Either way, there’s usually a sudden change in your relationship status. People are in and out of your life during this transit, and it’s really hard to find stability in relationships for as long as Uranus is transiting that house. Uranian relationships are often “out of the norm”; you partner with people you wouldn’t have considered before the transit began. Uranian relationships can include long-distance arrangements, too; anything non-traditional, really."
http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!uranus-transits-the-7th-house/c19e2

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posted October 24, 2012 12:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by starfairy:
A friend of mine is having Saturn transiting her 1st, and she's in the same boat as you. Has Uranus hit your Descendant yet? If not, that will certainly get your love sector going.

"Uranus Transits your 7th House

Unpredictable, unstable relationships are in order when Uranus is in the 7th, because the people you attract are usually unpredictable and unstable (i.e. Uranian). I find that the guys I meet are usually going through some sort of Uranus transit when they meet me, since Uranus is so strong in my chart. One man was was having transiting Uranus sextile his natal Venus, and another had transiting Uranus conjunct his natal Venus at the time of our meetings. I was going through a Uranus sextile Venus transit when I met an Aquarian man, and Uranus square my seventh house ruler when I met yet another Aquarian man.


The nature of the planet affecting the love sector reflects the kind of relationship/partner you’ll have during that time. The person doesn’t necessarily have to be a Scorpio (for a Pluto transit), an Aquarius (for an Uranus transit), etc., but the synastry chart or composite chart will usually have the flavor of that planet, or the other person will be going through a similar transit

Uranus crossing the DC (cusp of the 7th house) usually manifests by meeting someone new, out of the blue, or suddenly breaking up with your partner/your partner suddenly leaving you. Either way, there’s usually a sudden change in your relationship status. People are in and out of your life during this transit, and it’s really hard to find stability in relationships for as long as Uranus is transiting that house. Uranian relationships are often “out of the norm”; you partner with people you wouldn’t have considered before the transit began. Uranian relationships can include long-distance arrangements, too; anything non-traditional, really."
http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!uranus-transits-the-7th-house/c19e2


Hey! Yes...saturn in the 1st is tough, but it will be over mid november! It has not yet hit my 7th but I think that is coming up so thank you for the support!

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posted October 24, 2012 12:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well when t.Saturn was squaring my Venus I received a marriage proposal.
Another opportunity could be Mars transiting the 5th trining the Asc.

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posted October 24, 2012 01:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lonake:
Well when t.Saturn was squaring my Venus I received a marriage proposal.
Another opportunity could be Mars transiting the 5th trining the Asc.

That sounds interesting, I am supposed to have my venus conjunct saturn in may - this means either a super serious relationship or something not so good...I am very worried about it

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