posted October 23, 2012 07:44 PM            

i.e: seducing them, heheh.

posted October 23, 2012 07:49 PM            

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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
I got my Leo man through praise and compliments. Stroked his ego real good

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yep, same as i did. mine has a leo moon and they just eat it up. i was like 'this is crazy, he must get sick of hearing these things.' but nope.. pile on the flattery and compliments and keep it coming 24/7... they want adoration and attention. i just went crazy flirting with him and dished out so much flattery .. it worked (and still does) like a charm!

posted October 24, 2012 04:22 PM            

Be passionate. Leos of both sexes are not fans of cold fish. We love warmth, affection, romance, and intense physical chemistry. Don't be hold back or be afraid to express yourself.

posted October 24, 2012 06:01 PM            

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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
^^Use to have that problem too with Leo men, they would be snarky with me. Do notice that Leo men usually like someone that makes them look good, they want to feel like they have the best. And a woman or man with even a hint of self pity is very unattractive to them. The key is just finding the right Leo for you. Since your an Aries you need attention as well, you might do well to find one with more watery placements in their chart, that way you BOTH get some good attention.

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True, I think water or air placements (my favorite combination so far) would do well. Although my experiences with water/fire combos have been that they're a bit too emotional and subjective for me. Air placements or earth might enhance the ability for self reflection more than water and fire.

posted October 26, 2012 06:23 AM            

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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
...Leo men usually like someone that makes them look good, they want to feel like they have the best. And a woman or man with even a hint of self pity is very unattractive to them...

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YES!! Confidence is key when working with a Leo! You just have to be sure that you don't outshine them, my Leo best friend hates his limelight taken from him. It rarely happens, but when it does, he takes it personally and shuts down, usually leaves the room/party/place to find a crowd who will appreciate him more.

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Originally posted by the89freespirit:
Be direct and upfront about your desires. NEVER play hard to get, ever. That may make, say, an Aries man want you even more. But, for a Leo man, that is a huge turn-off. We want to know that you want us back. If we feel we're not wanted, that's a huge blow to our pride and we'll lose interest, looking for someone who will recognize our royal status. We need steady attention, in short. Leo men don't do well with workaholics, either, because we need to feel like your top priority.

Be passionate. Leos of both sexes are not fans of cold fish. We love warmth, affection, romance, and intense physical chemistry. Don't be hold back or be afraid to express yourself.

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I could kiss you! I've devoted much of my time to pleasing my Leo friend and all of this is absolutely true.
Especially the bit about not feeling wanted.
I had an instance with my friend a few years ago.. He'd walked all the way across town, about 5 miles, to come see me as a surprise...for reasons from outside influences (my roommates) I was made to take him back home. It broke our relationship for a long time. My roommates tried to apologize and makes amends that very same night, the same as I did. Only mine was from a much more personal standpoint. He wasn't hurtful toward me, he just simply said "I'm going where I'm wanted, which obviously isn't there. Sorry I imposed on you."

Never, ever, ever, ever make a Leo think something or someone else is more important to you than them. The wound takes a long time to heal if it ever does. They come with a pedestal, it's not hard to put them on it

And the physical chemistry has to be intense for a Leo to notice it as something special because *MOST* people are attracted to Leos. I know I'm smitten! My Leo loves to be showered with affection, be it from a lover, friends, nieces and nephews; he's a sucker for it. If it's the lover aspect you're interested in, my favorite tactic even as friends was to go sit in his lap to have a conversation (I'm not sure how close you are to the Leo/s in question but if you're good friends I doubt he'd mind too much ) And the advantage to this particular seating arrangement: he's satisfied because he feels like the most important person in the room to SOMEBODY (it doesn't always have to be everybody) and for you... you have his undivided attention

posted October 31, 2012 11:58 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I have a question - what doesn't hurt a Leo's pride?

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one of my oldest friends is a leo and is in love with a gemini girl. her prog sun is in cancer and his venus in cancer- however trust has been a constant issue in their on and off relationship ...she just effed off to thailand so i guess that'll either make or break 'em...

posted October 31, 2012 02:04 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
Personally I'm a Leo and close friends with a couple Leo men.

They seem to like when they come to the rescue. I know I do. I love being there for people and I can always count on the Leo's to be there for me. I'd just be open, honest, and warm. And most importantly - yourself

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Yes. As much as it may not sound true, a Leo man loves rescuing a damsel in distress. Makes him a hero! Who doesn't want to be a hero?

posted November 01, 2012 06:18 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I wonder how many Geminis have really close Leo friends... I feel like the dual nature of the twins or the scatteredness wouldn't sit well with a Leos need for trust.

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I often feel like Leo even though I'm a Virgo. I have most of the Leo attributes and very few Virgo ones. So I'm gonna answer like one! lol.

I can feel like this with my husband. I'm often saying, "Hey give ME attention. Stop being so aloof!" We are happily married...but he is quite aloof with me at times. Says he feels it deeply but doesn't show it like me...I just want love, love, love. Attention, Attention, Attention.